Laali's New Feelings For Shekhar,Wrong or Right???

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Niharika Mishra

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Posted: 16 years ago

Laali's New Feelings For Shekhar - More than Just Respect or Humanity
Its Devotion

Something which she had not felt even for Ganesiya
She has begun to adore him like Bhagwan Shiv Shankar

And the sole reason is the way Shekhar came to save her despite his dislike for her and his wish to run away, in a similar way in which she had returned to save him

And the really sweet song playing in the background and the way Laali followed the foot prints of Shekhar made on the Road made the scene even more charming

It was really moving
And the Love blooming was Pure

BUT....

The question that kept coming to my mind that Laali is just a Keep
Is she doing Right by fostering feelings for Shekhar???
Or...
Does she even have the Right to love Shekhar???

Especially in a case where she is no more than a purchased article for the people in the Haveli????

At Some time or the other She'll have to sacrifice or forget her love because it has no future
But is such an end for a Love so Pure Right???

If we cast a look at what Shekhar is feeling
It is utter Helplessness and a strong feel of inferiority for him

The helplessness for not being able to free himself from the Haveli and his Father's forcible attitude
And the guilt of not being able to give ENOUGH to his wife

But is his guilt justified???
It was completely Siddheshwari's Fault and Stupidity which has made him think like this and I am feeling really sad for him

In such a case only Laali may be able to get him out of this dilemma
And They both might develop a strong understanding

But will this relationship, More often termed an Infidelity or Illegitimacy, stand the test of Time and ever be able to gain respect in the Society ??
I feel really bad when I think of The future of this relationship
What do you think guys???

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Rekha Singh

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Posted: 16 years ago

Right.....as in rights...Yes she has with feelings and falling in love with him...why not she's can't stop love from happening nor can she stop feelings from coming quickly for a person.

She is his wife and now she's fallen in love with him. So I look at this as being HAPPY for this relationship. The man finally has someone to relate too. We honestly dont know what will come of their relationship in the future of this eps. Yes they will have up and downs. But her continued sacrifice will blossom this union stronger.

Shekhar is fighting it but Laali will bring him around. Can't wait to see that happen. Loving this jodi as well.

Infidelity or Illegitimacy??? The man is married to her. His other wife was there...She knows and accepted this union of Laali and Shehkar...nothing infidelity about it... as for Illegitimacy also makes no sense using this word since they are married so they kids will be ...legitimate

Edited by sexy001 - 16 years ago

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Minu

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Posted: 16 years ago

nikki i feel if shekhar marries laali den all problem will get solved I don think siddheswari or loha singh will hv any problem if shekhar and laali marry wid each other😕If de can force him to sleep wid a gal wid whom he doesnot hv any relation den de won't hv any problem if Shekhar marries laali Rite ?😕

Laali is definately not doin nething wrong by developing feelings for shekhar infact no1 hv done dese act for laali and shekhar is da only one who hv saved laali's life and dat too twice what relation does shekhar have wid laali dat he is ready to sacrifice everything for her?

Yesh laali hv da right to love shekhar but she doesnot have da right to expect anything frm him bcoz she is juz a kept :(
Falling in love is not in our control so i can't blame laali for it

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sheena

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Posted: 16 years ago

i feel sad because loha will never accept laali as his Bahu

she is only good for him as the producer for his waaris

they will never support her relationship with shekhar

we all know that sid can't conceive children but loha CAN'T REMARRY shekhar because some unknown reason that why he came with the idea of laali as rakhel

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Niharika Mishra

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Posted: 16 years ago

Originally posted by: sexy001
Right.....as in rights...Yes she has with feelings and falling in love with him...why not she's can't stop love from happening nor can she stop feelings from coming quickly for a person.

She is his wife and now she's fallen in love with him. So I look at this as being HAPPY for this relationship. The man finally has someone to relate too. We honestly dont know what will come of their relationship in the future of this eps. Yes they will have up and downs. But her continued sacrifice will blossom this union stronger.

Shekhar is fighting it but Laali will bring him around. Can't wait to see that happen. Loving this jodi as well.

Infidelity or Illegitimacy??? The man is married to her. His other wife was there...She knows and accepted this union of Laali and Shehkar...nothing infidelity about it... as for Illegitimacy also makes no sense using this word since they are married so they kids will be ...legitimate

The marriage conducted by Loha Singh was a joke kinda stuff played just to humiliate Siddheshwari (which I think had no effect 😆)

Once the purpose of the child Birth is sorted, She'll be back to the post of a keep
She might get Comforts as Loha singh has promised her but not the honour
and Shekhar-Laali relationship deserve an honour but can't get it

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NaV

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Posted: 16 years ago

good point.. truthfully i was really happy as well to see laali following shekhar's footsteps..and the song was beautiful indeed 😳 😳 as far as laali goes.. if this 'devotion' for shekhar keeps her happy or gives her an ounce of happiness.. nothing wrong with that.. 😕 i mean seriously what has she got to lose.. laali's a smart woman who knows shekhar's not hers and will never be hers.. she knows her place in his life and his house.. its not as if with these new feelings, she's asking for something more..

and the devotion's only because shekhar's been there for her since day 1! yes, he hates her and can't stand the fact that he's stuck in this mess.. despite all of that he's been there for her.. so she respects him for that and will always cherish him.. without asking or wanting anything in return.. cuz she knows that's not possible

the future of their relationship.. i think due to the push he's getting from siddeshwari.. he might develop a relationship of understanding with laali.. and as far as society goes.. that's a mystery.. but hopefully they both won't care what the society thinks..

Edited by Mrs. SIR - 16 years ago

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Rema Singh

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Posted: 16 years ago

Originally posted by: Mrs. SIR
good point.. truthfully i was really happy as well to see laali following shekhar's footsteps..and the song was beautiful indeed 😳 😳 as far as laali goes.. if this 'devotion' for shekhar keeps her happy or gives her an ounce of happiness.. nothing wrong with that.. 😕 i mean seriously what has she got to lose.. laali's a smart woman who knows shekhar's not hers and will never be hers.. she knows her place in his life and his house.. its not as if with these new feelings, she's asking for something more..

and the devotion's only because shekhar's been there for her since day 1! yes, he hates her and can't stand the fact that he's stuck in this mess.. despite all of that he's been there for her.. so she respects him for that and will always cherish him.. without asking or wanting anything in return.. cuz she knows that's not possible

the future of their relationship.. i think due to the push he's getting from siddeshwari.. he might develop a relationship of understanding with laali.. and as far as society goes.. that's a mystery.. but hopefully they both won't care what the society thinks..

Well said👏

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Niharika Mishra

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Posted: 16 years ago

The Theme Song Says it all
The line which quotes
"Suhaagan rahi naa ab to, Aurat hoon Doojo"
meaning "I am no longer a wife but a mere mistress or 2nd woman"
The lines speak for Laali's mental state and also show the way in which she has adapted herself to the situations
Now even if she has fallen for Shekhar, I don't think she'll ever demand any right but shall always abide by the duties and do anything to keep him happy, which itself portrays the Selflessness and purity of Laali's love

Cheers to her undying spirit and
wishing that Shekhar realizes her feelings soon or at least shows a bit of care for her
👏 👏 👏

Originally posted by: Mrs. SIR
good point.. truthfully i was really happy as well to see laali following shekhar's footsteps..and the song was beautiful indeed 😳 😳 as far as laali goes.. if this 'devotion' for shekhar keeps her happy or gives her an ounce of happiness.. nothing wrong with that.. 😕 i mean seriously what has she got to lose.. laali's a smart woman who knows shekhar's not hers and will never be hers.. she knows her place in his life and his house.. its not as if with these new feelings, she's asking for something more..

and the devotion's only because shekhar's been there for her since day 1! yes, he hates her and can't stand the fact that he's stuck in this mess.. despite all of that he's been there for her.. so she respects him for that and will always cherish him.. without asking or wanting anything in return.. cuz she knows that's not possible

the future of their relationship.. i think due to the push he's getting from siddeshwari.. he might develop a relationship of understanding with laali.. and as far as society goes.. that's a mystery.. but hopefully they both won't care what the society thinks..

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Rema Singh

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Posted: 16 years ago

Originally posted by: nikkie
The Theme Song Says it all
The line which quotes
"Suhaagan rahi naa ab to, Aurat hoon Doojo"
meaning "I am no longer a wife but a mere mistress or 2nd woman"
The lines speak for Laali's mental state and also show the way in which she has adapted herself to the situations
Now even if she has fallen for Shekhar, I don't think she'll ever demand any right but shall always abide by the duties and do anything to keep him happy, which itself portrays the Selflessness and purity of Laali's love

Cheers to her undying spirit and
wishing that Shekhar realizes her feelings soon or at least shows a bit of care for her
👏 👏 👏

Agree nikkie....I too wish to see shekhar come around to her. All her giving and never asking for anything. Let's hope she's rewarded with his love and devotion as well. By her falling in love with him. She will happily do anything to appease him versus being forced to do it. Gosh what a terrific jodi. Wishing to see a turn around in Shekhar soon. Laali is all deserving the bestest!!!!!!!! Poor girl all the struggle and sacrifice. As for any children they would be legit. full rituals or not she is married to him according to what was shown. whether it be to humiliate the other then oh well it was done. Since she is the lower caste to him she will always look upon herself not as a wife but as a mistress. She is mentally still thinking she is not in deserving of him due to status.. So I hope all of that changes with time. Also what will drive laali more to doing and becoming all to Shekhar is the blood mixing...She watched that carefully....As with that it's considered sindoor in a way or stronger linking them...So it's fueling her more to bond tighter to him.

Also falling in love is human no one can stop that from happening. It's one side now and that will soon change to a complete loved jodi.( i hope)

Edited by 2009Rule - 16 years ago