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Posted: 16 years ago
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Dear Friends,

Most of the times when a girl is married and comes to her in-laws she does face some adjustment issues, some of her dreams break invariably....it takes quite sometime to start her new life with a new mindset...aaj ki do baatein;

1: Laali surrenders to her fate, she has seen the world and has come back thaka, hara wanting shelter, the scene was very touching specially when she says to Thakur you have spent 90,000 rupees for me and I am here....and the Thakur says so you have seen the world and now you need my shelter....it is so true and it is so insulting, a few days ago she was challenging the Thakur to dare and keep her here, there are loved ones back home who will welcome her with open arms but now the man was smiling, he has won the battle but the war?

2: The scene where Laali transforms herself from the married woman to an unmarried girl, Thakurain watches, she is sad but she may be is understanding what is going on in Laali's mind and maybe wondering why didn't she do something like that....Brilliant job creatives and Ratan performed it extremely well.👏👏
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Jate Jate, Shekhar wants his wife to understand his position but Siddeshwari fails again....Shekhar is fustrated and we are confused....yes....about Siddeshwari's state of mind....is she fit for Shekhar's love is all we are wondering....

Last but not the least....Dialogue of the day....last time when I came into this Haveli I had a lot of dreams but now I have entered it once again leaving my dreams outside....yes friends this Laali said to Jamuni but it is so true of so many women around the world....Your thought friends, love Tin

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Posted: 16 years ago
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i can only cry! sad episode and sad post today~!

please agle janam laali ko please bitija NA kijo
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Awwsome acting by lalli......... she acted like pro..👏 👏 👏 was a very emo week in the show....... its really sad 😭
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Such a sad topic and situation and you're right many woman go thru this. We all sacrifice our dreams for others.
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Posted: 16 years ago
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i made a promise to myself that i won't give up my dreams! i will fight to make my dreams come true!
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Superb post, Tin ... loved every word of it. 👍🏼 ❤️

This is the story of Laali's sacrifice and today her heart is heavy with sorrow. But she hails from the land of the Mahatma who said -
"The sacrifice which causes sorrow to the *doer* of the sacrifice is no sacrifice. Real sacrifice lightens the mind of the doer and gives him a sense of peace and joy. The Buddha gave up the pleasures of life because they had become painful to him."

Laali is neither the Buddha nor the Dalai Lama. She is a poor, illiterate, low-caste woman for whom only a few "doors" are open. And it is upto her to find out which door leads to her "heaven".

This is an eye-opening episode and Ms. Rajput did an excellent job of portraying the role of the helpless, desperate woman in search of her sanctuary ... a little place she could call home.

The creatives deserve an award for this episode because the message they conveyed to exploited women like Laali is that education opens the door to real freedom.

Freedom does not mean that one can do as she pleases. True freedom means the opportunity to choose ...

If Laali had been educated, she would have more and better opportunities to choose from (than she has today).

But we the viewers must not lose hope because freedom also means that she can make a mistake and choose again.

So Laali will choose again ... and her indomitable spirit will help her find the path to inner peace and joy ... and that is when she will understand the true meaning of sacrifice and happiness.

Oh... I love this show ... 😍


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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: Simone2006747


Superb post, Tin ... loved every word of it. 👍🏼 ❤️

This is the story of Laali's sacrifice and today her heart is heavy with sorrow. But she hails from the land of the Mahatma who said -
"The sacrifice which causes sorrow to the *doer* of the sacrifice is no sacrifice. Real sacrifice lightens the mind of the doer and gives him a sense of peace and joy. The Buddha gave up the pleasures of life because they had become painful to him."

Laali is neither the Buddha nor the Dalai Lama. She is a poor, illiterate, low-caste woman for whom only a few "doors" are open. And it is upto her to find out which door leads to her "heaven".

This is an eye-opening episode and Ms. Rajput did an excellent job of portraying the role of the helpless, desperate woman in search of her sanctuary ... a little place she could call home.

The creatives deserve an award for this episode because the message they conveyed to exploited women like Laali is that education opens the door to real freedom.

Freedom does not mean that one can do as she pleases. True freedom means the opportunity to choose ...

If Laali had been educated, she would have more and better opportunities to choose from (than she has today).

But we the viewers must not lose hope because freedom also means that she can make a mistake and choose again.

So Laali will choose again ... and her indomitable spirit will help her find the path to inner peace and joy ... and that is when she will understand the true meaning of sacrifice and happiness.

Oh... I love this show ... 😍

Simone, you have summed up the whole thing from a different angle very nicely, very well written and thought out post....👏👏


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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: maayka fan

i made a promise to myself that i won't give up my dreams! i will fight to make my dreams come true!



I wish you all the best but my dear be prepared in every way, sometimes you have to let your dreams go to see others happy as your happiness lies in them....

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