dyin of embarassment please help

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Posted: 17 years ago
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this is going to sound so pathetic but it matters to me alot so im sorry if it sounds dumb.

last year me n some girls did a dance in school I didnt want to but i was forced to.

big mistake

we messed up n everyone was laughing mainly because when it was the freestyle i tripped and stood there for a couple of seconds.

Eveyone laughed !

A mate video it but you cant see our faces as it was blurry.

i dont think any1 else video it cause we are not allowed to even if they did it woudnt be clear but im kinda scared.

For some reason i feel it was my fault that the whole dance was messed up.

i feel like an idiot

although its been an year i still feel a bit embarrased 😳

I feel like people still remeber n r laughin about it

and the memories still haunt me and make me feel so stupid

how can I over come this? Shud i move school

😭

plez help im starting to get parinoid.

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Angeleyes 2 thumbnail
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Posted: 17 years ago
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Once its over a year people will hardly remember anything.

Dont worry about it.😊

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Posted: 17 years ago
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lol the same things have happened with me...horrible memories...its been a year look back at it and laugh...think of it as a possible thing....know what i mean? 😳

if you cant beat em join em....dont laugh at yourself just laugh at it as if it were a funny incident...i do the same with all my horrible memories 😆
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Posted: 17 years ago
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OMG its 1 whole yr...i bet they have MORE important stuffs to think about,.
I seriously doubt anyone wud remember tht...
Come on dude..MOVE ON
i made huuggee bloopers like tht..i felt the same way
but then i realzied nom1 even remembered.
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Posted: 17 years ago
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ok I made a dance group at school. i messed up both years once i hit the other girl with a stick n the other time i forgot the moves but i made something up it was ok but one girl fell NOBODY EVEN REMEMBERS ALL THEY REMEMBER IS THAT U DID A DANCE
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Posted: 17 years ago
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during a scene and song change i wore the shirt the wrong way and nobody remembered the day it happened
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Posted: 17 years ago
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It doesnt matter dont be embarrased
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Posted: 17 years ago
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fanx buh i feel a bit betta but still embarrassed
shud i move school?
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Posted: 17 years ago
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People have very short attention spans. They probably forgot about it over the next couple of days, then whats a year? I dont even remember much about the past year! LOL. You should definatly not change schools. Its not worth it. I mean, y change you whole life over something that happened a year ago that people have pushed back into the minds? Its just not worth it. Hope that helped :)
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Posted: 17 years ago
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I personally have been in the same situation twice. Once I was in play that did not want to be in but had to be in for my grade, and I forgot my lines. I completely blanked. I paused for like two minutes (which felt like 20 😆 ), and stared out into the audience. I saw my drama teacher looking down and twirling her hair frantically. Finally the other girl on stage made up some random lines and ended the scene. The thing was that a few people did notice, but most people did not. Including people that were IN the play. I was super embarassed for sooo long! People do forget and for the most part do not care. Everyone makes mistakes and has embarassing moments. They laugh and move one.

The other incident was this past Diwali I was asked by some people to do a dance with them, and I was just bad in general. I can't dance, and I told them too, but they did not care. I was real embarassed, but people thought I did well, even though I did not.

In short, people will sometimes laugh at your embarassinf moments, but for the most part, they don't notice or care. The people that actually care about you will not make fun of you for it and will be nice to you about it.

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