hey guys i have a problem well...
i will expain.
well basically i had this friend i met and we became quite close and she started living with me in uni halls as well we would do everything together,sleep together,eat together,go out together etc. i got so attached to her that i started takin her like my sister i would do anything for her...
like loads time she would be broke but i would pay for her and all and i wouldnt like ask for money back...
then secnd year we decided to be room mates but obviously she wasnt stayin in my room and we started driftin apart like she would not include me in anythin and not have enough time for me..which would hurt me coz i really loved her..but there would be times where all of a sudden we are together and it would seem everything is perfect....
but one thing i noticed is she would hardly show me affection like she would say she loves me but never hugg or kiss me to show that she does and everyone else in my group she would huggg kiss be next level with them..
it would make me feel whats my problem i mean how would u guys feel this girl u take the closest u take her as your sis shows affection to everyone apart from u..even when ur down she doesnt show u affection but maybe other two girls she shows sooooo much affection when they down which makes u wonder why...i have talked to her a couple of times about this she says she doesnt know but she feels closest to me...
does it really make sense and do u think its fair...like i do so much for her buy food for her,gifts but i would never get nefin from her..half of the time she is not bothered to be in touch......and then she still says she loves me but how after no affection nothin that shows she does feel closest to me...
u think its fair????????what would u guys do.esp the affection bit really hurts me
I think you should move on, if you think you're the only one who is making an effort to stay friends here. Some things are just not meant to be. And please don't take it personally that she doesn't hug you and stuff she probably doesn't realize it her self, and since she says you are the closest to her she feels she doesn't need to hug you. As it is you guyz are roomates you both are like family and there is no formality (hugs) with family - maybe she thinks that way 😊
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