problem about this friend

hey guys i have a problem well...

i will expain.

well basically i had this friend i met and we became quite close and she started living with me in uni halls as well we would do everything together,sleep together,eat together,go out together etc. i got so attached to her that i started takin her like my sister i would do anything for her...

like loads time she would be broke but i would pay for her and all and i wouldnt like ask for money back...

then secnd year we decided to be room mates but obviously she wasnt stayin in my room and we started driftin apart like she would not include me in anythin and not have enough time for me..which would hurt me coz i really loved her..but there would be times where all of a sudden we are together and it would seem everything is perfect....

but one thing i noticed is she would hardly show me affection like she would say she loves me but never hugg or kiss me to show that she does and everyone else in my group she would huggg kiss be next level with them..

it would make me feel whats my problem i mean how would u guys feel this girl u take the closest u take her as your sis shows affection to everyone apart from u..even when ur down she doesnt show u affection but maybe other two girls she shows sooooo much affection when they down which makes u wonder why...i have talked to her a couple of times about this she says she doesnt know but she feels closest to me...

does it really make sense and do u think its fair...like i do so much for her buy food for her,gifts but i would never get nefin from her..half of the time she is not bothered to be in touch......and then she still says she loves me but how after no affection nothin that shows she does feel closest to me...

u think its fair????????what would u guys do.esp the affection bit really hurts me

eigteen views and no one is helpin me i thought this an advice corner

I strongly believe that u shouldn't try to buy friendship.

I understand that u feel that way about her as ur sis but mabe she might need some space its like sometime after a period of time ppl just move apart.

buying her food,and gifts might not chnage anything, but I think u should just give her some time.

well its not necessary tht sum1 wil show u love only by hugging or buying gifts n all... maybe shez not that type who can xpress their feelings well..
jus take some time and find out the exact reason slowly 😊

like i said she shows affection to everyone apart from em

well after reading this i can relate last yr me and this girl use to be best friends this yr when we walk past each other we act like we dont even know each other. Either she is emabarsed or just is not owrth being frieds with

yeah so dont u guys thinks she just takes me as granted

Originally posted by: Iqbal21

yeah so dont u guys thinks she just takes me as granted

I think she probaly just move away n yes looks like she doens't anymore.

so what do u think i should do

hey you should talk with her again and explain it in more detail and ask her if tehre is something bothering her it could be something so you should get close to her on her perspectives as well
best of luck 😛