problem about this friend - Page 2

well did u try talkin to her?
i know what ur going thru...
And it hurts ...doesnt it?
well first thing..try talkin to her....tht always works.
if it doesnt. if she still wotn listen.
mayeb this friendship wasnt meant to be...tht special?
Many ppl come n go in ur life....btu who really amtter
are the ones who stick with u thru u thick n thins..
and am sure everythin will be allright.
maybe things wud get back to normal.
maybe ud get over her..
and if u need any friend. am there 😊 ...
well teh whole of IF is there....msiot friendly ppl in the world r here 😃 anyways all the best...
I pray to allmighty tht things go well...

Originally posted by: Iqbal21

so what do u think i should do

i think you should get over it...at least you know that was not a real freind

Originally posted by: zoya24

well did u try talkin to her?
i know what ur going thru...
And it hurts ...doesnt it?
well first thing..try talkin to her....tht always works.
if it doesnt. if she still wotn listen.
mayeb this friendship wasnt meant to be...tht special?
Many ppl come n go in ur life....btu who really amtter
are the ones who stick with u thru u thick n thins..
and am sure everythin will be allright.
maybe things wud get back to normal.
maybe ud get over her..
and if u need any friend. am there 😊 ...
well teh whole of IF is there....msiot friendly ppl in the world r here 😃 anyways all the best...
I pray to allmighty tht things go well...

i have talked to her atleast three times about her never showin me affection and what does she do for me that shows she loves me or whatever...

she goes like ohhh i dono why affection doesnt happen with you...and its like she is always touchy feely with everyone else...

thanks for the advice but i guess i have decided to move on..

and hey yeah we can be friends😉

Originally posted by: rozia

hey you should talk with her again and explain it in more detail and ask her if tehre is something bothering her it could be something so you should get close to her on her perspectives as well
best of luck 😛

i have tried talkin to her doesnt makie a diff

You know I would tell you to walk away, but I know thats pretty difficult and doesn't always work.

What you need to do is stop revolving your life around her. Easier said than done, I know. But you could do this by developing a new hobby, getting busy with some work, getting new and better friends, anything besides drinking, drugs, or dating with an intention to validate your self-esteem.

Infact, about the getting new and better friends, the jobs already half completed, I'M your friend, so I can help you!!! 😃

PS. I love Shrek too! 😳

Originally posted by: meteora_smt

You know I would tell you to walk away, but I know thats pretty difficult and doesn't always work.

What you need to do is stop revolving your life around her. Easier said than done, I know. But you could do this by developing a new hobby, getting busy with some work, getting new and better friends, anything besides drinking, drugs, or dating with an intention to validate your self-esteem.

Infact, about the getting new and better friends, the jobs already half completed, I'M your friend, so I can help you!!! 😃

PS. I love Shrek too! 😳

hey thank u for your advice thats what i have been doin been tryin u kno not makin much of an effort like i use to...so that way i can move on..prob is that i have a group and ofcourse she is in the group so we both share the same friends.

awww thanks we can be friends.

am natasha lovin shrek hehe

u know most probably she isn't worth it, but in terms of showin affection, maybe she shows affection to others and not you, because it may be that she feels she doesn't have to "act" a certain way with u, since she does say that she feels closest to you.

sometimes the most neglected ppl R the ones you r close to, coz u tend to take them for granted

Hey i am in this situation like you. Well, i was really best friends with this girl from college for 2 years as we did the same course, did everything together and even she dated a guy who was my close pals.

Then come uni, we do the same course, well we were always hanging around during the introduction week until, a small argument happened between us. Well, actually, im frankly an open person who will just blab onto everything. Then come the first week of the lecture, well i made a new friend with this close male friend of mines. Well actually, i must be honest i was observing him for a week seeing how is he like and so. Then i approch him and then we became friends from there and it has clicked between us.
So, my best friend didnt talk to me, she avoided me online and i used to approch her often online but refused to talk to me. Well, at first i was really hurt and so on. Then, i had to move on until one day, she now comes to me online saying she didnt want to talk to me for a certain reason which, she declined to mention. Until, I forced her to tell her so well she said me and the guy was so happy together and she didnt want to spoil our happiness. Now she comes online and chats to me despite we dont hang around but we are still good friends but, as close as before. Which is a shocker as we were close at college. Then i realise its better to keep a distance as me and her were different characteristics.

My advise for you is to speak to the girl.

Originally posted by: usha_pooja

Hey i am in this situation like you. Well, i was really best friends with this girl from college for 2 years as we did the same course, did everything together and even she dated a guy who was my close pals.

Then come uni, we do the same course, well we were always hanging around during the introduction week until, a small argument happened between us. Well, actually, im frankly an open person who will just blab onto everything. Then come the first week of the lecture, well i made a new friend with this close male friend of mines. Well actually, i must be honest i was observing him for a week seeing how is he like and so. Then i approch him and then we became friends from there and it has clicked between us.
So, my best friend didnt talk to me, she avoided me online and i used to approch her often online but refused to talk to me. Well, at first i was really hurt and so on. Then, i had to move on until one day, she now comes to me online saying she didnt want to talk to me for a certain reason which, she declined to mention. Until, I forced her to tell her so well she said me and the guy was so happy together and she didnt want to spoil our happiness. Now she comes online and chats to me despite we dont hang around but we are still good friends but, as close as before. Which is a shocker as we were close at college. Then i realise its better to keep a distance as me and her were different characteristics.

My advise for you is to speak to the girl.

but pooja u know i have spoken to her already three to four times it just makes no difference she really does take me for granted.

affection bit hurts me the most

Originally posted by: bewafa

u know most probably she isn't worth it, but in terms of showin affection, maybe she shows affection to others and not you, because it may be that she feels she doesn't have to "act" a certain way with u, since she does say that she feels closest to you.

sometimes the most neglected ppl R the ones you r close to, coz u tend to take them for granted

and yeah but how can u be sooo touchy feely and showin affection to everyone i mean think of it if u feel clost to someone and ur the kinda person who shows affection 2 ur friends u love then u do show affection but u dont show affection to this girl who u say ur closest to....basically when ur leavin u give a hugg and kiss to everyone apart from maybe just a quick huggg how would u feel