pls help me in this crisis!!!!

hello frnd......I m a girl of 23 yr aged.I m in a gr8 confusion..pls help me o resolve....

Now my prob is tht most times I feel attracted toward my middle aged male teacher..pls frnd, dont tk me rong...bt rather addicted to male of my near-end aged, I alws have crushed towards middle aged male and all were teachers....

among them two case is very very severe.....it ws th innial stage of my university life....I got attracted towrd a male teacher (52 yr aged). it ws too too intense...later on goes to physical attractn...bt whnever I meet him, nobody even he wud never realized tht coz I m being veery introvert. and I didnt try to show tht....it ws many days ago...nw th crash has gone...

then I got mentally attached wid a teacher of same aged..bt here thr ws nt any romantic feeling rather I alws look upon him as a fatherly fig..I alws wanted to being pampered by him as like a daughter want by her father...again here tht man also never realized my feelings and no such pampering occured in real life.

at last nw....in present condition..at th end of my university life....I m too much involved wid my another male teacher (42 yr aged,of course married,hving children). th previous men were handsome...bt this man is no so...hieght is gud, bt his skin is very black.....bt I dont knw wh happend to me....I alws think him....imagine event wid him...I m hugging him...HE IS JUST QUITE DIFFERENT THAN ANY MAN, ANY HANDSM MAN IN TH WHOLE WORLD. whnevr I look at him, I feel why suddenly I began to like him so much..his talks, smile, style, gazing all seem so adorable to him.sm tymes it get sexual too.it happend b4 few days I went his offcie...I often go thr to ask any problem. thr suddenly my hand touches wid him. this man never let his female student talk sitting in his offcie, he seems uncom4table in tht. so whn th hands touched, he ws so shy....bt he is a very out spoken man too...I just njoyed his face at tht tum and then all my feelings started...


I knw its a deep crush ya illusion frm my side...cant sat love so early...bt as whneve amy talk of my marriage is discused at home, I alws rememebr him....th prob is when any proposal come whr is age gap is too like 8/9 yrs frm mine,I cant accept..to me atlst 5/6 yr....bt c, I alws get connected towrds quite much aged man whr as a husband I dont want th...so m I sick? wh sud I do wid my present crush? is it just th likeness? M I BAD frnds??????

i cant really say anything

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hey!

ok, i suggest for you to see a counsellor. Because i think the problem is a little deeper than just a "crush on an old man".

This is because you also want one of the younger teachers to treat you like a daughter.

I'm guessing you may have something to resolve within yourself...like issues with men in positions of authority.

But yes, counsellors are more equipped to handle questions like that. and they're also confidential, so noone has to know.
Or you can try lookin on the web, for any counsellor you can talk to about your problem.
here in Aus, we also have a "kids helpline" which is basically free counselling on the phone.

so yes, so see someone with prof. qualifications.

other than that, force yourself to think of younger guys....develop a crush on Shahid Kapoor...he's only a bit older! lol

it's ok to be attracted to men that are older but if the age gap is so large ie in your case i would say stopo, your 23, and he's 52 that's a 29 year differance, and on top of that they are also your teacher, not only is that illegal but he can get banned for ever teaching becasue you are his student.

My advice meet bome guys your age, or if you like the older men than go up to 5 years, becasue anything more than that people will question your reletionship.

Originally posted by: anon

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hey saira..
what do yu mean by merging post? 😕

oh man he's in his 50's and your in your 20's no don't do it get over him he's probably MARRIED, with KIDS seriously find a guy your age there are many good ones out there