Being frank,supposed to be a good thing?

hey guys.........ok..........so here's the situation.......:

although......yes its true that i just say things on the face!😊.........and i just go say it......... i mean......its supposed 2 be good right like.......saying-i hate you! do u noe that!??......😡

but recently.........my friends have been telling me 2 stop that!😳.............i mean cmon!........i dunno wats da difference b/w honesty and frankness!...........i thought it was supposed 2 be a good thing 2 be frank!.......and thats just....who......i...am......!!.........and i want 2 be me!.....frank me!.........

but also.....i dun wanna hurt sum1 elses feelings!...........

and right now.........i am sooooooooooo confused!😳

love;

jojo.......😕

Well, If you keep being frank then you might upset someone so just have a think about it

btw i really don't get what you mean do you want to srop being a frank?

Plz explain so we understand what you mean

Originally posted by: BabyLove96

Well, If you keep being frank then you might upset someone so just have a think about it

btw i really don't get what you mean do you want to srop being a frank?

Plz explain so we understand what you mean

my friends keep telling me 2 stop saying stuff 2 ppl faces!

ahh jojo

dat sounds like me
if i dnt like some1 i tell it to their face

buh den pple started to be like im was being bee-ochy

soo i was like dnt even start on me pple cos i tell it like it is

dats who i am, and i aint changing for no1

buh now im being frank buh doin it nicely so i dnt hurt pple's feeling

try doin it nicely- its kinda hard at first buh den ul get d hang of it

its one thing to be honest and frank.. and its another thing to be outright rude. say what u want NICELY but at the same time think of how the other person will feel.. if u know its gonna hurt them by saying something like i hate u.. then don't say it.

yes its good when you tell the truth in an amiable way and frank n honesty is good when you know you by doing so you will do the right thing, but not by being rude or insulting to others. Telling ppl tht you hate them on their face make you not only a mean n rude person, it drives the wrong msg abt you..if you hate some one..why even bother telling them tht you hate them..do you think it really matters to them??

Originally posted by: damilola

ahh jojo

dat sounds like me
if i dnt like some1 i tell it to their face

buh den pple started to be like im was being bee-ochy

soo i was like dnt even start on me pple cos i tell it like it is

dats who i am, and i aint changing for no1

buh now im being frank buh doin it nicely so i dnt hurt pple's feeling

try doin it nicely- its kinda hard at first buh den ul get d hang of it

arre! kaise doing it nicely!!!!!!!!!!😕

Originally posted by: coolkitty_23

yes its good when you tell the truth in an amiable way and frank n honesty is good when you know you by doing so you will do the right thing, but not by being rude or insulting to others. Telling ppl tht you hate them on their face make you not only a mean n rude person, it drives the wrong msg abt you..if you hate some one..why even bother telling them tht you hate them..do you think it really matters to them??

hmmmmmmmmmm good point!!!!!

Originally posted by: -Pinky-

its one thing to be honest and frank.. and its another thing to be outright rude. say what u want NICELY but at the same time think of how the other person will feel.. if u know its gonna hurt them by saying something like i hate u.. then don't say it.

ummmmmmm...........so shud i say stuff in a more sweeter tone?😃

Originally posted by: prithvi lover

arre! kaise doing it nicely!!!!!!!!!!😕

yea u can make it sound like ur not being rude

by like throwing a few nice words into it 😆