Short-Long distance/ Long-Short distance

I am sorry if this has been discussed before..but i kinda wanted to know what you all thought about this..
I have some friends who moved from other states to the state in am in now..and while conversing, they happened to mention that they broke up with their boyfriends before moving , since they didnt want a long distance relationship...further into the conversation, they mentioned that they still love them a lot and hope someday they can get back....and here I was, in a long distance relationship..maintaining it for over 2 years..I didnt know what to feel..foolish or proud that i could take care of a tough relationship...

what is the better thing to do? continue your relationship based on love trust and faith in each other, keep seeing when ever you can, or break up and see others and hope that someday you can meet them again...

I totally cannot do the second one...what do you guys say?😳😳

Not a single advice?? 😔 😔

Hey

I think you shoukld be proud that you have managed to maintain your relationship for 2 years and not feel foolish at all. 😊

I believe in the first, keep trust and faith and meet whenever posssible.

If you love someone truly, why break up with them and think you can re-kindle the romance later. Things can change and people meet new partners as they think if they have brken up you are single again.

So dont leave it to chance that you will someday meet again.

If they are worth it, and you love them then feel proud you have maintained your relationship.

It does vary individual to individual, and LDR's (Long distance relatinships) suit some and not others.

However in a LDR, yes it does need trust in the other and effort to keep the relationship alive, but if its worth it then go for it.

Yeah u cant just hope u will meet again but yeah u feel proud getting through a tough relationship long distance but yeah if its right for one, not always right for everyone. 😳

^^ Thank you..i feel so much better already 😳 😳 I believe i am doing the right thing..just need some reassurance... 😊

aww thats ok and yeah we all need reassurance but there is no right or wrong to anything.

What is right for one , may not be for another couple.

I guess some couples can handle the pressure whereas others need the real deal, lol 😳

As long as you don't mind the effort you have to put in even if you feel like the other isn't giving you enough time, it will pay off am sure 😳

Originally posted by: anon

aww thats ok and yeah we all need reassurance but there is no right or wrong to anything.

What is right for one , may not be for another couple.

I guess some couples can handle the pressure whereas others need the real deal, lol 😳

As long as you don't mind the effort you have to put in even if you feel like the other isn't giving you enough time, it will pay off am sure 😳

Thank you, i really hope so....😳😳 i definitely have invested a lot of time n emotions into this and will sit it through..rest assured..😊

I think that u should be very proud that u have able to maintain ur relationship for 2 long years. Its truely a great achievement...Some people they can't cope with long distane relationship therefore they quit but some like u they can..

I agree with the first one,,,in a relationship trust anf faith are very imporatnt and as long as u have this u relationship will always last..With ur friends, they say they can't with long distance realtionship and i believe it usually varies on individual, some people can whereas some people they can't..Its true that if u break up u can meet again but who says that the love that they had will still be alive and again this depends on one individual..

U shuld feel very proud that u have managed to keep ur relationship for 2 years beacause it demands lots of efforts, trust and love...I wish u guys lots of luck😳😳

^^ Aww thank you Israa..tht meant a lot... 😳 😳

trusts is the key. long distance can work and sometimes can't. i mean even sometimes lovers need space. it's a good thing.

dont let ur relation b ovr or nethn on sum1 else' opinion or idea....u shud b proud dat u maintained it n go on maitainin it if u really luv......n as icefire said trust is d key.......u mst hav trust on ur aprtner b it a long dist relation ora short one 😊