PLz help:In love with a hindu!

Hi guyz, i posted a topic few weeks back abt my boyfriend.. Itz about us again..i really need advice..
V hav been talkin to each other for more than three months and v really love each other..hez alwayz been proposing to me and asking me to marry him but iv always been brushing off the topic because im afraid he is a hindu and i am a muslim and im dead sure my family will be against it..He is so sweet he never forces me for anything unless i agree but now i myself realized i cant live without himm..i reaaly want to marry him but im so afraid of my parents..How do i tell them?😭Im so upset and confused but i cannot bear to leave him now..please help me guys... i wanna appraoch my parents but i dont know how..
Hez even ready to convert, he knows so much about Islam..
I only hope my parents understand,,, pls advice me anyone..wot shud i do?😭

Well u should think about his parents and family too..

ohh wow...that is a problem...
As Parita said^^
talk to your parents about it and try to make em understand...nd if they dunt run away and get married...aha...well no you shouldn't do that..cause I know tons of ppl ova here who did that and it never worked out for them..

Whatever you do, dont run away with him.
I think it's great if he's ready to convert, but then you gotta think about his parents.
I am muslim, and my uncle loved a hindu wonam, so she converted and her parents were mad at first, but now she reg. visits them and .. well no harm.

But either way, you should tell your parents. 😛

Originally posted by: Sabrinaa xo

Whatever you do, dont run away with him.
I think it's great if he's ready to convert, but then you gotta think about his parents.
I am muslim, and my uncle loved a hindu wonam, so she converted and her parents were mad at first, but now she reg. visits them and .. well no harm.

But either way, you should tell your parents. 😛

why should he be the one to convert? can't she convert? or better yet can't they both keep their religions??

-Rimpy

Just try talking to your parents... tell them the truth... if they don't think it's a good idea, at least you know you tried...

Hi Veer-Zara,

I couldnt stop myself from writing all this after I read your post. I am a Hindu and I liked or rather loved some1 who was a muslim. I had known him from high school, he moved to another country and like 2 years ago he contacted me, and our old relationship started again. Both of us aren't teenagers anymore, we hold college degree, with very good jobs. When we saw each other again, we forgot our religion and families, we started even planning our marriage and families..

Then after sometime we realised it's not possible..I mean its possible..but I have to choose between him and my own family. I couldnt even dare to ask my parents. He was ready to ask my parents and his parents, I stopped him. Both of us thought about our families.

I could have stayed with him...But that would have been unfair to my parents..because of my happiness I couldnt forget what they did for; they gave me life, education. And in return I couldnt give them sorrow and a bad name in the society.

I am glad both of us understood each other so well. When we were chatting; I would always say to him; if you were a hindu, I would marry you. And he would say the same thing. Our friends think that its not right, religion shoudnt be a barrier in love.. but we told them love also doesnt create barriers. Love brings people closer. For our love we wouldnt want to create drifts between our parents.

So we are still friends. I wished him all the best for his future wherever he is. And he did the same for me. I wish life doesnt cross our paths again.

I wrote all that just to pour my heart out, I am not telling you to do the same thing. If your parents agree, then go for it girl..but dnt change your religion or let your boyfriend change his religion.

ok best of luck.

Originally posted by: punjabi#1

why should he be the one to convert? can't she convert? or better yet can't they both keep their religions??

-Rimpy

I am going by the information she gave us, and it had said that " He is even ready to convert." That's what i am talking about.

if he's ready to convert then tell him to cum to ur parents wid proposal and let ur parents get to know him and if u wanna marry him,he first had to becum muslim then u have full rights to get married to him because in islam it says that u have a right to pick the person u wanna marry but they have to be muslim,ur parents cant force u into marrying a person u dont lyke.

Thanx guys...soo many postss... so much confusion... 😭
At one point we even decided and thought it wud be impossible because of out religion and v decided that maybe v shud stop thinking about marriage... but then v really cant do dat and i really love him ...
It is something to think about before taking the matter to our parentss....Well, i hope its all for the best... 😭
The main thing is how to approach my dad on dis topic..i cant jus go tell him im in love with a hindu.. 😆 dat seems funny..ill get slapped!