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Mallika

@Monika__29

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Posted: 14 years ago

#11

and all this time i was thinking its just a crush 😆

if you've been friends for 3-4 years, and he only started to ignore yu (past one year) that he maybe feeling contradictory feelings for you and that's something only he can say and feel... you really need to speak to him, its the only way to get the feelngs sorted. do it when no -ones around and be firm- ask what he wants/ feeling and tell him what ur feeling, because its not fair for him to give you mixed signals.
we cant really give much advice- as we dont know what hes going though.

if he still ignores you- just forget him. treat him as friend and just that- dont give him special treatment. you deserve better than that

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Mallika

@Monika__29

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Posted: 14 years ago

#12

that's what only you can decide- its your mind...

ask yourself- how can i stop thinking about him
people cope in diffrent ways
how do you cope with uneasy situations?
maybe you can remember what he's doing to you
or just stop looking at him
ignoring him so you dont think about hm
try to get involbed with friends more
do other things which preoccupy your mind

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Divya

@divyachandresh

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Posted: 14 years ago

#13

we only meet at school and he does not tallk to me

even when he alone
he does not tallk to me

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Kankshita

@thegameison

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Posted: 14 years ago

#14

This is some other guy, not the fellow you met in India, right? I remember your mentioning him and true love and if love can wait, in some topic in the Love forum the other day. 😳

Okay, anyway - there are some people who are highly image conscious and do not like being seen with people not popular, if I may say that. Even if they like your company, their superiority blinds them enough not to notice that and hence, I suggest - either chuck him out or keep hoping for him to realize your importance. He may or may not but if you choose the latter, you will have to be real patient.

-Kankshita

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Divya

@divyachandresh

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Posted: 14 years ago

#15

Originally posted by: -Kanky-
This is some other guy, not the fellow you met in India, right? I remember your mentioning him and true love and if love can wait, in some topic in the Love forum the other day. 😳

Okay, anyway - there are some people who are highly image conscious and do not like being seen with people not popular, if I may say that. Even if they like your company, their superiority blinds them enough not to notice that and hence, I suggest - either chuck him out or keep hoping for him to realize your importance. He may or may not but if you choose the latter, you will have to be real patient.

-Kankshita

ya sometimes i do think he's not tallking to me beacuse iam not popular

he hangs out with popular people

iam kinda a shy girl and i hang out with like nice people , u know a little nerdy types but still me and him are friends

but front of his popular friends he does not tallk with me

i just think thats harsh and mean if he is thinking this way.

what i will do is ingore until he does not tallk to me

but when he tallks to me
i want too say my feelings or give me a signal that i llike him

there is a party on november 13 he will be there
but he's friends are not going to be there

so should ingore him in the party or tallk to in the party

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.Selena-Lauren.

@.Selena-Lauren.

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Posted: 14 years ago

#16

Hey Divya,
Don't worry,

all guys are like this especially when they are having trouble in telling their feelings to a girl.

You said theres a party right?

Well then thats the best place to try and talk to him,

Go up to him if hes alone or with his friends, and start talking generally, and if hes commenting back, give a hint by saying how come you've been ignoring me all this time; in a joking way, don't be too serious. Also try to talk to him a week or day before the party, like saying; Hey (Blank), are you going to that party tomorrow? I heard it's going to be fun, and If he replies yeah, just say I'll see you there, give him a mesmerizing smile and walk off. (LOL, I know this sounds cheesey, but trust me it worked with my friend) 🤣

Hope everything works out okay,

Good luck,

Ebony.x

P.S: Do update after the party on how he was reacting.x

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Divya

@divyachandresh

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Posted: 14 years ago

#17

Originally posted by: Ebony.
Hey Divya,
Don't worry,

all guys are like this especially when they are having trouble in telling their feelings to a girl.

You said theres a party right?

Well then thats the best place to try and talk to him,

Go up to him if hes alone or with his friends, and start talking generally, and if hes commenting back, give a hint by saying how come you've been ignoring me all this time; in a joking way, don't be too serious. Also try to talk to him a week or day before the party, like saying; Hey (Blank), are you going to that party tomorrow? I heard it's going to be fun, and If he replies yeah, just say I'll see you there, give him a mesmerizing smile and walk off. (LOL, I know this sounds cheesey, but trust me it worked with my friend) 🤣

Hope everything works out okay,

Good luck,

Ebony.x

P.S: Do update after the party on how he was reacting.x

thanks for repleying

ur right
iam going to tallk to him that party

but i will ask him that are we friends or is our friendship is over ?

i want to know waht he say when i ask him that

if he says that our friendship is over then i will MOVE ON......

The party is on November 13 its a diwali party i think

so i will let u know😃

wish me good luck😉

Edited by divyachandresh - 14 years ago

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Divya

@divyachandresh

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Posted: 14 years ago

#18

Party UpDate - 😭😭😭
😭😭

when i enter the party he is siiting on the chair and i enter from the door he looks at me
but there was other boy with me so he looked at me smiled and then iam just like whatever
he kept on staring at me the whole party , so i try to go near him alot and wallk by him , then i tryed to sit somewhere where he can see me , so i look at him and he looks at me we both are staring at eachother but in he's eyes i can really see that he wants to tallk to me

he keeps looking at me but here the sad news😭 HE DID NOT TALLK TO ME AT ALL

but here is one thing i noicted now that he not tallking with me but he kept on tallking with my parents , like he help my dad alot at the party to set up the stuff at the party and he helped my dad put away stuff in our car.

so whats the point he love me but doe not tallk with me and goes tallk with my parents and my sister but not me at all 😭

well then the party got ened and evrything was done then i went to the bench and sat there

he kept on coming there trying to impress me by jumpig high to touch the door and fighting with others boys just to impress me but thenn my dad car came i left and then but when i was wallking out at the door he was looking at me

so sad
i dont what to do now with him

only god knows now that what will happen with me and him

do u have any advice guys

divya

Edited by divyachandresh - 14 years ago

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burgerchaap

@burgerchaap

Sparkler

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Posted: 14 years ago

#19

Aw, you totally should've confronted him! If he was staring during the whole time, maybe he wanted you to make the 'move'. But this guy is beyond my comprehension, he stares but doesn't talk! :/

Though if you really want him to talk to you, I have an idea. It's a bit stupid, but it worked with for my friend. If you have his phone number, call him (if you don't, try to get it by a mutual friend or something). But don't ask for him..say hey, this is Divya (as in you!), can you give the phone to Marc (basically any random name).. and then if he says wrong number, start creating a conversation, like if you recognized his voice and say what's up and how are you? Did you have a good time at the party? etc.. :P
_________
Oh and no offense, but you should read "He's just not that into you", I don't know whether it's your case or not...but that book OPENED my eyes when it comes to boys. 😊

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Divya

@divyachandresh

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Posted: 14 years ago

#20

Originally posted by: Pianofied.
Aw, you totally should've confronted him! If he was staring during the whole time, maybe he wanted you to make the 'move'. But this guy is beyond my comprehension, he stares but doesn't talk! :/

Though if you really want him to talk to you, I have an idea. It's a bit stupid, but it worked with for my friend. If you have his phone number, call him (if you don't, try to get it by a mutual friend or something). But don't ask for him..say hey, this is Divya (as in you!), can you give the phone to Marc (basically any random name).. and then if he says wrong number, start creating a conversation, like if you recognized his voice and say what's up and how are you? Did you have a good time at the party? etc.. :P
_________
Oh and no offense, but you should read "He's just not that into you", I don't know whether it's your case or not...but that book OPENED my eyes when it comes to boys. 😊

i dont want to call him
i might get in trouble iam still 15 young age
is there any other way ??

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