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Posted: 15 years ago
#11
maybe they feel comfortable with their own roots by now cause it's new for them - give them some time and maybe you'll be friends on fresher basis..
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Ok thank you Laxilli... You made my mood better... Hopefully everything will be alright... but sorry im asking you soo many questions what do you think I should do now? wait for sometime and then talk to them? or avoid them?
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Posted: 15 years ago
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šŸ¤— y're most welcome!!!!
Wait some time and if things get worser - avoid them....if you feel uncomfortable hang out with people you feel secured and appreciated...
You can be just polite by greeting them but no need to stick with them - find yourself a passion you can share with people who accept that your hindi isn't the first quality they look for in an individual....: surf - tennis - swimming - whatever --- something you can with many people....
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Posted: 15 years ago
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šŸ¤— THANK YOU... you dont know... how u have made me feel =D thank you soo much for your help...
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Posted: 15 years ago
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In my honest opinion, I don't think that you had to tell the Gujrati girls that you didn't want to hang out with them anymore. I don't think that it was very necessary, but again, that's my opinion.

Also, since it's already happened, don't stress about it. Let it go. The 'white' girl clearly is willing to befriend you, so don't lose that. Spend some time with her and you will definately make some more friends. It takes some time and patience, but it'll be worth it.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Thanks Mimi😳 will surely not let it go
about you mentioning that ' hanging out with them anymore' I didn't want to hang out with those girls as one of them said that it was my wish if i wanted to go i can... So clearly i was an EXTRA to say soo in their group...
anyway hopefully everything is sorted out now.
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Posted: 15 years ago
#17
What i think you should do is ignore those indian girls, seriously what they told you was horrible and mostly because they are from the same community. The way they behave they did not even come to apologies, you should just forget them.. I told you to be friend that are not from the same community because they are friendly.

That white girl, she seems really friendly, just forget what happen between you and those indian girls, and do not stress yourself out of them, just ignore them. Be friend with that girl and thats how you will start building more and more friendship.

However, i would tell you something, when you are making friend make sure you don't sound like you NEED friend because thats how people can take advatage of you. Just be casual, just be like if u don't have friend it does not affect you even if does. Because if people see you like someone who NEED friend and can't without them they will take advantage of ur friendhip. Just be casual with everyone.

It takes time to build up good and trustworthy friends, and everything happpen in the right time. For the time being just be patient and you still have that girl that you can talk and hang around with.

Hope all turns well.
Good Luck :)
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Posted: 15 years ago
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TBH i recently changed schools,and trust me.the new one sucks! I have no friends!!Its an international school,so there's only one indian girl in class..and she used to be my friend,but then later i realised she's really mean and everyone hates her and bla bla so i called it quits!
I don't mind sitting alone!
I love being alone..I've been alone all my life,and now..if you put me in a crowd or something,i start feeling REALLY weird !!!!
So i know myself..Its nothing bad to be alone!
Jus't..be happy the way you are..
''never depend on anyone but yourself'' ... dont depend on friends for happiness...:)
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Posted: 15 years ago
#19

I quite agree ---- One doesn't have to depend on friends - If you have friends it's absolutely right but if you don't have any - don't go begging!!! let things come naturally!!! Be yourself and focus on the most important : studies - family - sports - leisure - IF lol...

Friendship is something natural not something forced!!! And you'll learn later that one has very few real friends and most of time school friends are forgotten...and you get new one in college or at work.....
Edited by lalixlili - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
#20
I agree... I love being lonely i don't care if im not noticed.... I don't look at those girls anymore.... I use to get a kind of guilty feeling but now when i look at them im very causal i behave as if they are strangers.
The school still sucks. Though Im to myself I can do alot better. I guess time is the best healing....
Thanks guys for all ur advice!

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