In some sort of mess

Okay guys, I've landed myself in a huge/or less pile of s-h-i-t😳

Hmm... sounds like a bit of a trouble to me.

Well, to tell you the truth if someone went through my room without asking me regardless of whether or not I kept something there would make me really happy too.

My Mom never does that but a couple of my family members have that habit and nothing else makes me feel more terrible and angry.

Anyway, so words of advice:

You could clean out your room and put your things where no one else can reach them. OR simply lock them up. I do that sometimes, just lock up stuff that I don't want anyone else to see and the keys are always with me.

Secondly, as you said your Mom doesn't talk about this stuff usually but I would suggest that you go talk to her. Talk to her about what she has seen and what has upset her. It's better to talk about these things and clear any misunderstandings than just keeping them inside for life.

As you said, in order to get a clear picture of the scene, you might have to ask your sister about what your Mom has actually seen so you've a better idea as to how to approach this to your Mom.

I hope you get out of this fix soon. All the best!

-Mahi

Aww that really sucks! I hate when my parents go in my room and look through my stuff, it feels like I have no privacy! Seriously I don't even have a lock on my door so whenever I'm in my room my mom or dad just open and come right in without even knocking. It really irritates me and I'm always begging for a lock but *sigh*...whatever...

Anyways for your problem, I think you should lock up stuff that you don't want people messing with or like idk just lock your door when you leave and then keep a key or something w/ you so you can open it whenever you wanna go back inside.

For that thing your sis/mom saw...just ask them what it is. If it's something bad then you really wanna talk to them or maybe she's just threatening you for the heck of it to scare you?

Do you know for sure that she knows for all that stuff?
cause sometimes siblings make up stuff like that to get on their siblings nerves...but just in case put all your stuff away that you really dont want anyone to see! even if your mom saw anything, she is most likely not going to talk to you about it so it's probably better if you dont ever bring it up 👍🏼

Heya, sounds like trouble alright!

To be honest, I think you should talk to your mother, even though it will be uncomfortable and could get heated. Its better to get things said and sorted rather then to let and be then for it to become fireball in an argument.

~ First you should ask you sister what she knows, its good to go and chat prepared!

~ Then you should clear and say sorry where needed - Explain the photo! That will cause worries - only is she has seen it!

~ Then ask you mother, NEVER to read a diary

~ Purchase a bedroom lock!

Good Luck 😊

xxxxxx

Well mother's or parent's for that matter have a hard time respecting our privacy. Seeing the fact that you are 21 years old I think you have the right to demand some privacy too. But to make things easier I think you should put your private things out of reach, like do you have a suit case? One of those that have codes that lock's it? Cause then you can put your diary etc in it and lock it. Maybe put some of your stuff at a friends house, a friend that you trust a lot of course. And maybe you should also have a chat with your sister or mother, not to explain yourself because I don't think that is necessary, but to make them realise that you would like to have some privacy. :)

Well, I'm probably too late to give my advice, but considering that I'm me, I'll do it anyways. LOL

Crap man!