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Posted: 16 years ago
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Hi,,,,,,,,,,,everyone,,,,,,,,,muje aap se kuch share krna tha,,,,,,,meri dosti net pr ek larkey se hoyi,,,,,,,aor dosti kb payar main badal gayi pata hi nahi chala,,,,,,,,,us ne muje shadi k liye b kaha,,,,,,,,likin humara family background aisa ha k hum family se bahir shadi nahi krtey,,,,,,,,,,ab us ki shadi ho rahi ha,,,,,,,,aor meri b apney cousin k sath engagement ho chuki ha,,,,,kuch din pehle,,,,,,,,likin ma ussey bhool nai paa rahi,,,,,,aor dosri bat yeh k hum abi b baat krtey hain,,,,,,text krtey hain,,,,,,wo kehta ha meri best friend ban kr raho hamesha,,,,,chahey humari shadi na b ho,,,,,,,,,,main ussey hurt b nai kr sakti,,,,,,likin aisey to main ussey bhool hi nai payon gi,,,,,,,,plzz help me,,,,,main kya kron,,,,😭

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Posted: 16 years ago
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if u dont mind can i ask u did u try to convince ur parents?...she told u abt marriage ryt?..aap ladka ho na?...apko try karna chaiye tha par i think as u r engaged now we should stop talking to her..i mean u;ve commited some1 else u cant cheat her..n ye possible nai hai real life mein k dost bank raho..sach me ye tough hai n it hurts i mean each tym u talk to her u'll remember those moments u shared with her..so i thnk u shud frget her else u'll b cheating ur cousin..n still there's tym if u thnk u cant stay widout tht gal then try to talk to ur parnts..they want their kids to b happy..so try it..else may b 4 lives will b destroyed.

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Posted: 16 years ago
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Aww.... that's a sad situation. One thing I will say is that this way you'll be disturbing four lives - your and your boyfriend's and whoever's marrying you people.

As you said you'll never be able to forget him, so will that be fair to the person who's marrying you? He'll accept you as his wife but will you be able to be really honest in the relationship?

What about that guy you love? Will he be truly able to keep his wife-to-be happy? If you guys love each other so much then it'll be hard to be honest in the relationships you are forming and it'll not be fair to your spouse.

My suggestion is that you talk to your parents and try to convince them that by marrying someone else, you are hurting yourself and may not find true happiness.

I hope they will understand.

***This topic belongs to Advice Corner. So Moved there.***

-Mahi

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Posted: 16 years ago
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i've a confusion
are u a guy or girl..?..oops i thought u r a guy i think i need to edit my previous post!!
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: dream

i've a confusion

are u a guy or girl..?..oops i thought u r a guy i think i need to edit my previous post!!



Rinky, she is a girl. I figured that from this "wo kehta ha meri best friend ban kr raho hamesha." She says woh kehta hai so then it's a guy she's talking about.

-Mahi

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Posted: 16 years ago
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thanks ,,,,,,,,k aap ne muje sahi advice di,,,,,,,mere liye ye mushkil to ho ga likin ab main ussey bhoolney ki koshish kron gi,,,,,,,,,aor wo tab hi ho ga agr main us se bat na kron,,,,,,,kuch time to lagey ga likin,,,,,,,shaid phir life normal ho hi jaye,,,,,,,,,,anyway,,,,,,,,,,thanks for ur help,,,,,,,aor main larki hon,,,,,,,,,theek ha je
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Posted: 16 years ago
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I think it is too late now...
try to be happy with that u have...
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Posted: 16 years ago
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reminds me of that film where Akshay Kumar and Katrina Kaif were in it....ek song tha Fanaa....i can't remember the name of the film right now.

Love happens to anybody, anywhere, any time and at any age....unexpectedly.....your fiance won't be happy, believe me on that because larke/ladke bahut possessive hote hain aur woh log hum ladkiyun/larkiyun se ek larke/ladke se dosti ka alag matlab lehai lehte hain....believe me, main goozar chhuki hoon is situation se a lot of times.
tell him that yeh teek nahin hai, main pehle se kissi se committed hoon, meri shaadi kisise hone jaha rehai hi hai.....hum dost nahin rehai sakte....i said this just to help you out but you can say whatever you want to say....i would strongly suggest you listen to your heart, do what it tells you....believe me from my own personal experience.....the more you listen to your heart, the happier you will be.
to help you forget him, try to keep yourself busy....advice other people here, cook, clean, do some house chores, read a book, etc .... sorry for sounding harsh but these are the things i can think of from my personal experience.
good luck!
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: rafail990

Hi,,,,,,,,,,,everyone,,,,,,,,,muje aap se kuch share krna tha,,,,,,,meri dosti net pr ek larkey se hoyi,,,,,,,aor dosti kb payar main badal gayi pata hi nahi chala,,,,,,,,,us ne muje shadi k liye b kaha,,,,,,,,likin humara family background aisa ha k hum family se bahir shadi nahi krtey,,,,,,,,,,ab us ki shadi ho rahi ha,,,,,,,,aor meri b apney cousin k sath engagement ho chuki ha,,,,,kuch din pehle,,,,,,,,likin ma ussey bhool nai paa rahi,,,,,,aor dosri bat yeh k hum abi b baat krtey hain,,,,,,text krtey hain,,,,,,wo kehta ha meri best friend ban kr raho hamesha,,,,,chahey humari shadi na b ho,,,,,,,,,,main ussey hurt b nai kr sakti,,,,,,likin aisey to main ussey bhool hi nai payon gi,,,,,,,,plzz help me,,,,,main kya kron,,,,😭

Ohhh sad
I don't think you should go further with this..end it
but of course...do what you want😃

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