My dilemma/ family problem - Page 3

Originally posted by: AsliiGuy

didnt catch those words...Good advice too.
I was not really close to some ppl in my family, but when you have fun things change...I think after you have fun and smile, you can say your true feelings and concerns because they will be listening carefully.

Also change of environment is good too, going somewhere else can have effects on ppl, our body is made up of chemistry and things do effect us, i.e. vibrations, color, sound and even light.

🤗 I really admire you. What you are doing really takes lots of love, devotion and courage. I know personally it would be better for you to stay far from your pest of a brother. But dear it's obvious you have a very very very good heart that really cares about your dad. So don't leave him. You might suffer from guilty conscious later. Try to talk to both your Father and Brother. Tell your Dad you would like to go stay in a dorm but you care about his comfort too. Don't make him feel bad though. He might think he is causing you to suffer. A new mom will be great but if your brother is not going anywhere do you really want a new mom to suffer his tantrums.

that's a really sad and tough situation megha.. but u did the right thing!!
now just wait till ur dad gets married.. n then u can continue to study wherever u want to..
as for ur brother.. maybe hes depressed...?? why else would he stay in his room all day n behave that way
try talking to him like a friend... don't talk about this family issue with him..or lecture him. just be casual. . n maybe he will come out with whatever is bugging him... that might work

Awwwn sweetie, cheers to you ! For bearing as much as you have. Your dilemma is a tuffy, but I'd say talk to your brother and father.