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eclipse_101

@eclipse_101

Dazzler

Posted: 16 years ago

Okay, so I have no clue where to start of. I have a friend...and he used to be my best friend in gr. 8...someone I could share anything and everything with and someone I could trust upon with my eyes closed. Now he's in a different high school, and I try to keep in touch with him.

The thing is that everytime I talk to him...I feel like all my problems went choo-mantar...and I feel all light...the look on his face makes me forget everything and think about happy things. I'm not saying tha I like him..he's just my very best friend and I wanna leave it to that...but I dont think he feels the same about me. I'm not his very best friend. I'm really low on his 'friends'list even.'He doesn't consider me his priority, even though he knows he's one of the biggest priorities in my life.

And now, when I talk ot him on MSN, he's saying things like,''why do u care..'or 'did you know you're annoying the life out of me..'' and things like that...I dunno why..but everytime this happens,I begin crying like hell.

He's acting wierd..like he doesn't want me i his life anymore...he doesn't care whether I talk to him or not..

What have I done to deserve that..😲...why is this happening..I'm blanking out everytime this happens...

What did I do to have my friend taken away from me

Please..someone help...

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dream

@dream

Voyager

Posted: 16 years ago

awee..its nt ur fault yar..i thnk may b hez thnking u r getting addicted to him n u r in luv or have some kinda feelings lyk this fr him ..so he wana stop u...may b ..cant say surely but may b he feels lyk this...i think u shud discuss with him...n tell him u care coz hez ur best frnd..u shud clearify ur feelings..but 1st of all make sure is he only a frnd to u or more than that..:)

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Aphrodite

@Showbizz

Dazzler

Posted: 16 years ago

Give him some space and dont always talk only abt yourself . If you get a chance let him also tell his problems and be a good listener . He will also appreciate you then 😊

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eclipse_101

@eclipse_101

Dazzler

Posted: 16 years ago

@dream: I don't like him...he's nothing more than a friend to me...and he knows that really, really well.

@preethi_p_r: He did used to share his feelings with me. It was two ended when it came to sharing. I always made it clear that I'll ALWAYS be there when you need me...and I meant it from heart. And I mean, I do give him space..we don't always talk anymore, because he's with his other friends....and so I don't mind that....even if I'm on his friends' list, whether I'm really far down or not, makes me extremely satisfied.

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xox.iloveyou

@xox.iloveyou

Rocker

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Posted: 16 years ago

maybe's something wrong wid him n he doesnt want too tell yu?

it could be datt.

maybe something's bothering himm.

yu should talk too him but i dont think dat yu should get TOO personal.

just give him some timee hopefully things will get back too normal.

wait wait did yu ask him what's wrong wid him n why he's treating yu like dis?

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eclipse_101

@eclipse_101

Dazzler

Posted: 16 years ago

^I did...he said there's nothing wrong...and I don't get too too personal...I dont tell him the girly stuff...😛

Of course he does have his secrets, stuff he isn't allowed to share. But there's nothing wrong I don't think. Even if there was, he probably wouldn't tell me..

Thanks guys, this is very much appriciated. I am so glad I came here to share how I feel! Now I feel better, and I sort of decided that I wouldn't get personal with him anymore...Everytime me and him talked on MSN, after high school started, we couldnt share the personal stuff...I've decided to not tell him serious things anymore at all...just keep everything light, so he doesn't freak out...

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pooja

@bebe19

Voyager

Posted: 16 years ago

maybe he likes you........and doesnt if he should tell you.

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eclipse_101

@eclipse_101

Dazzler

Posted: 16 years ago

oh no no..If there's one thing I'm sure of, it's the fact that he does not like me...and I'm glad..

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xanthimmortal

@xanthimmortal

Explorer

Posted: 16 years ago

i m srry but i think maybe he is getting the wrong msg ,try giving him some space n just put sum distance n still be his friend.sorry again just an opnion.n its not ur fault but circumstances.