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Posted: 16 years ago

#11

a step ahead is always good,do let us know how it goes.tc n b happy

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Posted: 16 years ago

#12

psting update here

Originally posted by: eclipse_101
Okay, so I remember having posted a thing a week ago for advice about my friend...(What Had I Done to Deserve That?) and I actually kept everything light..talking about happy and lively stuff

The result is that he's bac to normal and we're really close again. My friend is back..I think he just neede a break or it was probably that I had bothered him on the wrong time. But now everythin's perfect and I just wanna say that everyone here provided me with moral support and actually helped me feel better and that things would eventually be okay. I just wanted to drop by and say thanks.😳

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Sharlene Gandhi

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Posted: 16 years ago

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aaaaw annu....im soo sorry!! but most boys say stuff lyk tht when they lyk u...i have noticed this many times....boys purposely try 2 make u think that they hate u just so u come closer 2 them....but since he is your friend why not ask him why he is doing this? there is no harm in trying na? and if he tells u the truth maybe u will feel better

hope this helped

XxX Shalu XxX

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griffy.fz

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Posted: 16 years ago

#14

according to me he just needs space..and yh make it lite guys mostly hate gals taalking heavy stuff if hes true frien he'll remain 4ever with u i m sure!!!! and if it gets extreme tell him that hes hurting u i hope yr problem gets solved and sorry if i hurt u in anyways!!!

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Jess.

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Posted: 16 years ago

#15

awww im glad you guys are back to normal again =] hope your friendship stays that way

-jessie

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mimi0295

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Posted: 16 years ago

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Originally posted by: eclipse_101

Okay, so I have no clue where to start of. I have a friend...and he used to be my best friend in gr. 8...someone I could share anything and everything with and someone I could trust upon with my eyes closed. Now he's in a different high school, and I try to keep in touch with him.

The thing is that everytime I talk to him...I feel like all my problems went choo-mantar...and I feel all light...the look on his face makes me forget everything and think about happy things. I'm not saying tha I like him..he's just my very best friend and I wanna leave it to that...but I dont think he feels the same about me. I'm not his very best friend. I'm really low on his 'friends'list even.'He doesn't consider me his priority, even though he knows he's one of the biggest priorities in my life.

And now, when I talk ot him on MSN, he's saying things like,''why do u care..'or 'did you know you're annoying the life out of me..'' and things like that...I dunno why..but everytime this happens,I begin crying like hell.

He's acting wierd..like he doesn't want me i his life anymore...he doesn't care whether I talk to him or not..

What have I done to deserve that..😲...why is this happening..I'm blanking out everytime this happens...

What did I do to have my friend taken away from me?/DIV>

Please..someone help...

Hi sweety!

I couldn't help but connect with this situation of yours. See, I am in grade 8 at the moment. I've moved to different places all my life, I've transferred to about 9-10 different schools. At first, it was like "Oh what ever! New places, new people!" But soon, I began to DREAD it! A little more then a year ago I moved from Ontario (I've lived there all my life) to Alberta. The transition was and still is extremely difficult. I cried.. oh boy did I ever cry. It was like a part of me was deattached!

But then I made some amazing friends. 3 people in particular, I'll call them "A,B, and C" We've been friends for a year now- and we connected so fast! They're my BEST friends! I'd do anything for them. But this year, "A" has been acting very different. She hangs out with other people, ignores me, and everything that you mentioned about your friend.

And I get your pain. It kills me when A ignores me, because we're best friends you know? But then I was told my a very close friend of mine, that as we grow up. We have different likes and dislikes. We begin to change. And these changes make us who we are.

Your friend is probably going through a new phase in his life, where he's met new people who he interacts with, who he feels comfortable with. Maybe he has new priorities in life.

The best we can do is give them space. Let them sort things out. It's hard, I know it all too well. But thats life for 'ya! There are ups, and there are downs.

Be strong. 😊

-- Mimi

Edited by mimi0295 - 16 years ago

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