why so much hate for milli? - Page 2

Created

Last reply

Replies

34

Views

6k

Users

22

Likes

66

Frequent Posters

sayhi2nimi thumbnail
15th Anniversary Thumbnail Navigator Thumbnail
Posted: 15 years ago
#11

Originally posted by: kalabhi

Excuse me badmash you dont blame mili she is a KID. She is getting married for gods sake. she is in the age of 22-23 years. If she is old enough to get married she is not a KID anymore. BTW KIDS dont behave sleazily with their jeejus.They do not talk of love and crap to their older sisters.The way mili spoke to simi saying she would make a better wife for Abhi KIDS do not speak like that. KIDS also do not con mothers to get necklaces of their older sisters. Mili has become a cunning, manipulative, selfish, WOMAN not KID.
If she wants a friend /companion Vishal is there and delhi is full of friends she can find someone else. Simi said it clearly to mili "Abhi pehle mere pati hain phir kisi ke dost". Mili better stick to that. BTW dont give me this brother nonsense of Abhi he is her jeeju first. I will accept Abhi as her brother only if he says it out of his own mouth. Till now Abhi has always said that he just wants to be a good friend to mili till she gets married.
So you are also saying that because Abhi behaved in an older brother way mili got confused and fell in love with him. What kind of logic is that, if abhi loved her in an older brother way according to you, then mili should have loved him back like a little sisiter. What is there for mili to get confused in that.

but he has made it clear to simi that just ur sister,my friends and iam older to her also ,dont u think that means a brother too.
Neil-fan thumbnail
15th Anniversary Thumbnail Navigator Thumbnail
Posted: 15 years ago
#12

Originally posted by: sayhi2nimi

but he has made it clear to simi that just ur sister,my friends and iam older to her also ,dont u think that means a brother too.

yes nimi Abhi did say that he is older to mili that is why she respects him.(exact words i thk were this main mili ka dost hoon usse bada bhi hoon woh mujhe manti hain). But he also told simi very clearly ki jab tak mili ki shaadi na ho jaaye main uska accha dost banke rahna chahata hoon.(not bhai)
Nimi Everyone has their own interpretations of Abhi/mili rishta, that is why i said once Abhi says it with his own mouth i will believe it. For me right from the start the most imporatnt rishta i see btw abhi/ mili has been jeeju-saali. We have already had so much discussion on it dont want to get into it again. no energy KB has sapped up every last bit i had.
It is too late now anyway mili has broken all rishtas if abhi was her brother that rishta is also broken, she thks he is her lover, how disgusting is that. bhai/ lover yuck, yuck yuck. Sometimes i feel Abhi should tell Mili main tumhe apni choti behen manti hoon, why doesnt he say that????
That should shut up mili for good.
zeezee55 thumbnail
16th Anniversary Thumbnail Voyager Thumbnail
Posted: 15 years ago
#13
Mili may have developed loving feelings towards Abhi because he had been there for her during all her troubles. But wasn't Simi there for her as well? I have not been a regular follower of KB but i thought she was there beside Abhi all the time when Mili was in trouble.
Anyways, the point here is Mili has developed feelings for Abhi but if that be the case, then don't you think that she should realise that Abhi is Simi's husband and that she should not break up a couple who to all intents and purposes are in love with each other. I agree that the rape etc would have affected her and she may be a bit unhinged. However if she is not unhinged than, she should realise that she is wrong to pursue Abhi. She should do the right thing and leave Abhi for Simi. She should put her on feelings aside (hard i know) but we cannot all give in to our feelings and breakup other people's relationships ... No I think Mili is wrong if she is in a sane position but if she is not, then she really needs psychiatric help.
crisi_410 thumbnail
Posted: 15 years ago
#14
ok....so all the girls who abhi save from rape falls in love with him????? ANYBODY?
GamerGleek88 thumbnail
Explorer Thumbnail
Posted: 15 years ago
#15
It's natural to have feelings for the good looking guy who was the only one who did something when everyone stood around and watch everything happen. I don't think Mili is as crazy as Sanskar but I do think she is very confused but it's fixable with Vishal and maybe a therapist.... But I think we are all forgetting the nature of this show. It is to show that Simi is the only good Sethi child and that Sooner or Later all her siblings turn on her and become bad t make her look like the only good one. Anuj & Neetu & even Manju did it's only natural that Mili would be next. The need a new villian with Nakul & Bhalla gone. So It's Mili's turn now. she get right again though. just like the others then they'll bring in another bad guy to harres poor simi, who will most likely never do anything bad like the rest of her family.
neha1219 thumbnail
19th Anniversary Thumbnail Explorer Thumbnail Engager Level 1 Thumbnail
Posted: 15 years ago
#16
i have hate for milli and its because when she says stuff like i would be a better wife or im a better life partner to abhi than simi!! No way should anyone feel bad for her, i was understanding tht she fell in love with abhi because she needed a partner, but shes taking it too far by attacking her own sister (who by the way as been there for her too well as abhi).
If it was innocent then she would have realized her feelings and kept quiet for her sisters sake and try to keep her distance..... but shes playing games and trying make all these evil plans! I dont feel bad for her at all... because theres no excuse to ruin someone else's married life let alone your own sisters married life!!
so now i dont fee bad for her one bit and what she is doing now is just evil!!
Naivedya thumbnail
21st Anniversary Thumbnail Dazzler Thumbnail + 3
Posted: 15 years ago
#17
I don't mind this track as long as it's properly handled. For example, it should be addressed that perhaps Milli is dealing with post traumatic stress syndrome after the near-rape and this is causing her to misplace her feelings for Abhi and confuse them with being in love. I would love it if this track explored Milli seeing a psychologist and getting therapy. I don't want this to become a desi version of 'Fatal Attraction' or some B-grade Bollywood flick.
We can pretty much guess that she is not going to marry Vishal, so instead of making her into a home-wrecking tramp, the CVs should instead show her dealing with her trauma and confusion in a porper manner. She used to be so independant and strong willed. It would be a shame to remove those aspects of her character or turn those qualities of hers into negative ones.
zeezee55 thumbnail
16th Anniversary Thumbnail Voyager Thumbnail
Posted: 15 years ago
#18

Originally posted by: Sandeepa108

I don't mind this track as long as it's properly handled. For example, it should be addressed that perhaps Milli is dealing with post traumatic stress syndrome after the near-rape and this is causing her to misplace her feelings for Abhi and confuse them with being in love. I would love it if this track explored Milli seeing a psychologist and getting therapy. I don't want this to become a desi version of 'Fatal Attraction' or some B-grade Bollywood flick.

We can pretty much guess that she is not going to marry Vishal, so instead of making her into a home-wrecking tramp, the CVs should instead show her dealing with her trauma and confusion in a porper manner. She used to be so independant and strong willed. It would be a shame to remove those aspects of her character or turn those qualities of hers into negative ones.

I so totally agree with this. 👏.
I hope the creatives will take the bull by the horns and discuss psychological problems and perhaps educate people about rape victims and post trauma stress syndrome. Good material if handled well.
Avatarana09 thumbnail
15th Anniversary Thumbnail Dazzler Thumbnail
Posted: 15 years ago
#19

Originally posted by: Sandeepa108

I don't mind this track as long as it's properly handled. For example, it should be addressed that perhaps Milli is dealing with post traumatic stress syndrome after the near-rape and this is causing her to misplace her feelings for Abhi and confuse them with being in love. I would love it if this track explored Milli seeing a psychologist and getting therapy. I don't want this to become a desi version of 'Fatal Attraction' or some B-grade Bollywood flick.

We can pretty much guess that she is not going to marry Vishal, so instead of making her into a home-wrecking tramp, the CVs should instead show her dealing with her trauma and confusion in a porper manner. She used to be so independant and strong willed. It would be a shame to remove those aspects of her character or turn those qualities of hers into negative ones.

Wish the people deciding the story for want of TRPs will actually be willing to handle such issues in a mature way.
Neil-fan thumbnail
15th Anniversary Thumbnail Navigator Thumbnail
Posted: 15 years ago
#20
FIRST THE CREATIVES NEED PSYCHIATRIC COUNSELLING, then Mili will automatically get fixed. Whoever is writing this is a sick sick person and needs help immediately.

Related Topics

Top

Stay Connected with IndiaForums!

Be the first to know about the latest news, updates, and exclusive content.

Add to Home Screen!

Install this web app on your iPhone for the best experience. It's easy, just tap and then "Add to Home Screen".