why so much hate for milli?

i really dont understand all this hate towards milli 😕yes i understand shes making mistakes but its not like shes doing it on purpose....after almost being raped abhi was there for her and shes formed a bond with him....and its not like milli can be the same girl she was be4...attempted rape changes people. And its no ones fault...not abhis not millis not simis everyones right in there own place. wrong things just happen at the wrongtime with abhi and milli....and he has a right 2 feel angry towards simi i mean shes basically saying she doesnt trust him....and then again simi is right in her place....And the incident with milli calling vishal "abhi" was just cause she was thinking abt abhi and wondering y he left without telling her.

Originally posted by: iluvsagar

i really dont understand all this hate towards milli 😕yes i understand shes making mistakes but its not like shes doing it on purpose....after almost being raped abhi was there for her and shes formed a bond with him....and its not like milli can be the same girl she was be4...attempted rape changes people. And its no ones fault...not abhis not millis not simis everyones right in there own place. wrong things just happen at the wrongtime with abhi and milli....and he has a right 2 feel angry towards simi i mean shes basically saying she doesnt trust him....and then again simi is right in her place....And the incident with milli calling vishal "abhi" was just cause she was thinking abt abhi and wondering y he left without telling her.

Originally posted by: Laila2009

The problem is that Manju has convinced all of them that something is going on between Abhi and Mili but here rather than believe Abhi is at fault, they all blame Mili. They think Mili has been intentional in leading Abhi on and she is at fault for developing feelings for him. What the viewers fail to realize is she NEVER went out of her way to like Abhi; it just happened. I mean, who can blame her, we all fancy Abhi!!! So the girl just found him irrestible in the end - he was there for her, not Vishaal! So naturally her feelings for Abhi have developed.

The question is will she recognize them before it is too late and how will she handle herself once she finds out how she feels about Abhi. These are things to think about.

I dont agree with the underlined statement laila Simi is right now finding out about mili, but uptil now it is Abhi who has been the target, Manjuji has had her daggars at Abhi from the time he has entered the house, it was only Simi whom spoke to mili. If Manjuji wanted she could have spoken to mili instead of blaming Abhi all the time. I do not think Mili will be blamed at all for this, it will be poor mili she has been through so much. The entire blame is going to land up on Abhi for leading her on. Poor guy will have a tough time defending himself with everyone against him. As for how mili developed feelings for Abhi i could care less, the important thing is she has. and I do not expect the Cv's to handle this maturely at all. They will show Mili becoming all posessive about Abhi . I only hope they dont show her become like Anita all evil and scheming. There will be lot of high drama, that's what will bring in the trp's, Mili will realize in the end she cant have Abhi, but there is going to lot of tamasha. I do not expect a mature end to this saga. They have ventured on this track to create high drama. In the end it will be Abhi and Simi who will be rescuing Mili from a cliff as she tries to kill herself. I can picture this in my mind. There is nothing to think about they will make mili into a stark, raving lunatic guaranteed.

there is already so much tension between the sethi parivaar but it seems as if it never ends. We ended up happily for a few episodes but then Milli's love became a huge situation.

Originally posted by: Laila2009

The problem is that Manju has convinced all of them that something is going on between Abhi and Mili but here rather than believe Abhi is at fault, they all blame Mili. They think Mili has been intentional in leading Abhi on and she is at fault for developing feelings for him. What the viewers fail to realize is she NEVER went out of her way to like Abhi; it just happened. I mean, who can blame her, we all fancy Abhi!!! So the girl just found him irrestible in the end - he was there for her, not Vishaal! So naturally her feelings for Abhi have developed.

The question is will she recognize them before it is too late and how will she handle herself once she finds out how she feels about Abhi. These are things to think about.

Agreed.
Another thing I want to add is regarding Manjuji, she always keeps blaming abhi but she is the one who bought abhi home & forced him to be a ghar jamai. After having doubts atleast she should have told abhi & simi to go back but she didnt. Now abhi is in the same house & milli is finding it difficult to deal with her own feelings.

i dont agree with laila2009..vishal ws always there for milli..he even sent her a letter telling her tht if she gives one call, he will cancel his flight..bt milli never bothered to..so wt can vishaal do?

i think mili is crazy and needs some help i think a lot of help what do u guys say

Originally posted by: diyasingh

i think mili is crazy and needs some help i think a lot of help what do u guys say

I believe she just wants a companion who will always be there for her. She just needs a friend who will love and care for her. Abhi did but in an older brother type of way. Which led her to the conclusion that abhi loves her, thus making mili crazy. I still wouldn't blame her as much since she is only a kid in the family.

Originally posted by: badmash123

I believe she just wants a companion who will always be there for her. She just needs a friend who will love and care for her. Abhi did but in an older brother type of way. Which led her to the conclusion that abhi loves her, thus making mili crazy. I still wouldn't blame her as much since she is only a kid in the family.

Originally posted by: spicy_tikka

i dont agree with laila2009..vishal ws always there for milli..he even sent her a letter telling her tht if she gives one call, he will cancel his flight..bt milli never bothered to..so wt can vishaal do?

n i totally blame milli on this one..she very well knows that abhi and simi r married, ok fine, u cant control feelings, bt if she noes shes getting attracted to abhi, she shud try and distant herself from abhi, knowing tht he is simi's husband. n simi has already told her to keep away from abhi..after being told, she still is after abhi, so i totally blame her, if she is around abhi obviously her feelings wud develop more..shes just acting stupid lol..

he should not ask for support but he should have stood for her agianst his parents also.abhi was the person who helped simi inspite of she told him to stay out of it.even though he didnot knew simi ,but here this fellow vishal as story said to be childhood friend and from the last 5yr he is love with her. this is difference of abhi and vishal my dear and miili part i agree with u ,