hi guys my views about KB characters

manju - manju is thanking nakul and matarani for accepting neetu back sasural,wow so she is not worried about simi
she doesn't have sasural,rent house nothing,then y did she created so much drama when abhi and simi got married
and y did she feel so much insulted b/w others ,and didnt care about them. but bcoz of neetu nakul insulted every body
and she never spoke a word to neetu.which insult was bigger,or who's mistake was big i feel neetu's,and after hearing
about bhalla's proposal to simi she did not react ,she did not tell simi what she has done is big mistake by not telling abhi
.actually i was expecting a slap from manju to simi.and in anuj's case also she was cool.i thought she would throw him out of house
no nothing like that happened.

Rs- as we all know he is a very self respected person,but hearing what simi has hided from every body ,he did not react
i expected the same behaviour of abhi with her,doesnt' his blood boil after hearing such things.or does he feel when daughter
is married he has no headache.its her husbands job,i dont know y.

neetu- now when nakul is insulting every body infront of others bcoz of her she is feeling the pain,
she feeling about family respect her parents respect,wow how come so much change,she did not feel when she
ran from house,slept with other guy,pregnant,the insult in police station, oh god this is crazy .
is it only bcoz she has forgiven simi and fell in love with omi.

anuj- i cant justify him as good son ,brother or either a husband.even he did not react after simi's issues came in light
i think even he thinks y he should worry ,he reacted on simi for marrying abhi,but did not when neetu's issues came .
he did not react on his wife for not telling that she is preganat.wow even he is one single piece

milli- no comments bcoz she is always,a caring sister let is be for her sisters or brother.a very good daughter.
and s to react when nakul insulted her,and even in bhalla's case.and the way she takes side of abhi and simi.overall
very good.

simi- what can i say she is most terrfying character,a good daughter and sister ok,not a good wife nor a a daughter in law.
she still is not sorry for her mistake what she has done by hiding things from abhi,she still says y r dragging this issues
her husbands job is not important,but lunch is important, and s lecturing him about responsibiltys ,wow how can she be
what about her own responsilbiltys towards her husabnd,she has shared every thing with abhi before marriage but now she
is scared about his anger,she is immposible,

abhi-he is a good son for his mom,a good brother,a good son in law,a good brother in law and a very good husband.but on
thursday i could not understand him he is angry with simi 200% correct,y is he lecturing her about work frustration doesn't he
know simi is also a working lady even, how does that differ when a women works and men works,he could have said it very simply too
see iam tried can we talk later,
"y did he say agar patni ho,toh itna seeklo jab pati takha hara kam se ghar ayee toh ushe apni space milne chahiye"and
mainly y is he feeling insecure about simi that too in bhalla's case,when nakul frist came into picture at that time what
abhi felt was correct,i think he himself said" woh koi bhalla nahi hai nakul ek bahut acha insan hai" if he feels insecurites
in the presence of nakul,quite justifed bcoz as we all know nakul is a handsome guy. but bhalla he doesnot love simi
but he wants her physically.and abhi knows bhalla very well ,and also simi 's flashback from start till now,is he suspecting simi
by saying" yeh hai itni achi ki koi bhi inke pechee pada jata hai " or else we can say that the things which attracted abhi towards simi or fell in love
with her ,r proving fatal agiants simi. does he feels as he know simi that she can do anything for her family might be she would have done this sacrifice
for her family too.

MANJU===

CVs are making her character pathetic,Iam just thinking when she fallen in love with Abhi, at that time she never realized the anger of Abhi, but now after marriying she is concerned about his anger.

Coming to the bhalla case, as I said in one of my posts that Abhi's love is unconditional, he left his parents, jeep, money, power and all his luxurious life only for simi, but if that person is not valuing and trusting him, then how will he move on.

Abhi is very Possessive about simi, and he will not entertain a person like bhalla who is looking at his beloved wife lustfully, so anger is justified, he is not insecure or jealous but when ever he sees bhalla's nautanki, it reminds him about the indecent proposal which simi hide it from him. Now I should say, simi by hiding the indecent proposal has questioned Abhi's love and trust, and gave and opportunity to bhalla to triumph over his plan

For eg:

Sudden name change of Simi to Simran Sethi

Mili's Studies

Nimi and Somini,

Originally posted by: SimBhi2

Nimi and Somini,

I would like to send this link to the CV's of the show...I know that we feel it is doing nothing for us but we should try our best and let them show us the worst....Atleast we will feel like we did everything in our power....Can I have both your permission to send this? PLEASE!

Originally posted by: Somini

MANJU===

Manju is a mother who always fight for his childrens except simi for the wrong things. For eg: in the FD case, she said to RS uski koi majburi hogi na isliye anuj ne kiya hoga. She is a mother who loves her childrens showing partiality, and always support the wrong side. She is only concerned about the society.

Originally posted by: SaNiCo

On Manju ji's behalf This is a mother for the old school of thoughts and considers and knows only the two words THE SAMAAJ AND THE RISHTEDAARS and nothing beyond them and btw karol-bagh is also included in it... Now she has been very true to her character and to a twisted way also correct about it too.... She is a good mother with in these boundaries and her children's happiness comes secondary to her......Oh wait she does know a third word AAPKO MERI KASAAM⭐️

Now with all respect to this papaji he is partial to simmo and yes it shows in his behavior but he is the one who bonded with Abhi and also was desperate on the lookout for NEETU after she ran away and wanted to bring her home even after knowing the fact that she is an unwed mother....... He is the one who was humiliated and insulted by the bank manager when he wanted the FD dues to be paid to him... so in all fairness his reasons and his unconditional love for his children does make sense.....😕

Let 's examine NEETU'S situation for a minute or two... We say Omi is not worthy of her...because she and her whole family along with Abhi hid the fact from Omi....but isn't he the one who has always accepted her..
.Neetu and Vicky both were two consenting adults when they went beyond the society's norms and slept together...given their reasons were wrong , and hasty or you can question that they both were not thinking of the consequences?? BUT WHY IS IT A SIN??? And who decides it is a SIN.. WHAT CONSTITUTES MORALITY AND BY WHOSE STANDARDS..?? The same society we are condemning when Manju is accepting it with open arms.

Remember there was a time when SATI practice was not considered a SIN.. AND NOT TO TALK ABOUT DOWRY ..even after being restricted is still being practiced openly...
And is not this the same society that has tabooed the marriage of the younger boy and the older girl and we were hooting for it . And why can't a daughter live with her parents with her husband and support her aged parents if the need arises .???⭐️
THINK ABOUT IT ? 😲😍

Now I am a loss of words here because this is one character always have baffled me to extremities....⭐️

My favorite is this character and so far true to her formed opinions.... Milli from the get go is shown to help Abhi let it be locking them in the classroom , or for the look out on the lohiri incident , boycotting the wedding in protest ,,, again helping her papaji to look for them and to bring them home against Manju ji's wishes,, to let simi realize her mistake and for her to go and pacify Abhi when wrongly called betcha,
or when playing cupid and sending them for an outing to be together,,, and my favorite the recent one during the CHOWKI to very sneakily let them be together with the help od Anuj and to show her love through and thorough for the both of them for making up to each other.... Now with the story and the track for the RAPE coming and yes it is on its way folks who better for Millie but ABHI to be her confidant and friend from her point of view .. If Abhi could be that savior for her not to be suicidal (after Manju is done giving her two cents,,,which she will ) than I say more power to their friendship and may be Millie will develop feelings for Abhi but didn't everyone else on this forum.... Why should Milli be any different... But for the record she will not act upon them or for that Abhi either because both these characters are written such a way they are strong and logical thinkers,and both are very perceptive...

DON'T expect me to psychoanalyze this character because this one is beyond my league and understanding..for that matter...

Abhi is a young husband and he is protective of her as any normal loving husband would be and should be... but the character is changing to be towards being possessive and this with the new scenario and the new change. This is to show the tiff between the duo so he could be close to Milli during her time of need . Since this character wasn't written from the get go like this and for the viewers this is the hardest scenario to grasp where this character is ⭐️concerned...

I recall one incident with Nakul's arrival Abhi asked the same question from simi her correct name and she said SIMI WHY?? So when did this sudden name change happened and shouldn't it be SIMI TANEJA now...😲

NOW NOW lack of funds and the creative's decided to send this VISHAL fellow for that higher studies instead.!!

Originally posted by: mesimi

My take on Neetu

Neetu was willing to continue her pregnancy.Neetu was willing to wait for Vicky in spite of his arrest.

Yes it was a mistake on her part to sleep with a guy she hardly knew and that too without thinking of the consequences.

As consenting adult means consent to having sex without preparing for the consequences.If she was willing to sleep with him even after contemplating the probability of a pregnancy, then its her decision.

If she did not get her family support after that, then we can say she is one strong woman willing to fight the society's rules that a woman can get pregnant only after marriage.

Its a woman's decision to get pregnant or not. There are many unmarried women who might not want a marriage or the oppurtunities were lost once.

But that does not take away the need in a woman to mother a child. In such situations, if a woman takes a bold decision to be an unwed mother

she can be supported.

But here, neetu is shown as having done the wrong thing in a spur of a moment. i dont really understand this because no woman is totally lost in her senses as to what might happen when she is proceeding to have sex. Either she should be totally drugged or must be insane.

Even after that, whatever you call ,be it mistake or not, when she was willing to wait for Vicky, her people din support her.

All of them have made wrong decisions for her.

Simi cant force an abortion in the name of family honour.

Manju cant force a marriage with a not so sane Omi.

What did they expect her to do. Post her marriage to Omi, immediately have sex with him and within the following month announce that she is pregnant with Omis child. Did her family counsel her enough to have sex with Omi without wasting few hours either. I dont think so. Or did they expect her to understand what they meant. Stupid decision.They cant cheat a family so much.

1.to permit, approve, or agree; comply or yield (often fol. by to or an infinitive): He consented to the proposal. We asked her permission, and she consented.

2.Archaic . to agree in sentiment, opinion, etc.; be in harmony.

Originally posted by: mesimi

Then she can be called a consenting adult who has weighed the pros and cons of the situation which might arise.

Now nowhere it says the consenting meaning that they have to weigh the consequences and then they are called the consenting adults..VICKY AND NEETU WERE TWO CONSENTING ADULTS AND SINCE NEITHER ONE OF THEM WAS RESISTING THE AFFAIR THEY BOTH WERE CONSENTING ADULTS..AND THAT IS HOW PERCEIVE THIS LEGALLY AND having said that I am not a lawyer so can't say is fully of those grounds but the highlighted green part is where I disagree with you...

The Having said that It should be Neetu's decision. SHE ALONE SHOULD HAVE DECIDED IF SHE WANTS TO KEEP THE PREGNANCY OR ABORTED THE BABY AND SIMI SHOULD HAVE NEVER JUMPED TO MAKE THIS DECISION FOR HER but we can't include everybody in it either...Other than Simi and Vicky nobody even knew of this tidbit..To blame every member the family would be wrong at this stage but later yes after knowing the fact they all hid it from the DAGGARS and concealing this was unethical and immoral on the SETHI'S AND THE TARNEJA'S part.....

Originally posted by: Somini

NEETU ==

Maa kehti hai meri beti badi sanskari hai, aur beti hai jo aise gul khilati hai.In Indian society a girl getting pregant before marriage is considered to be sin, I don't know how she got a husband like omi, who is not worth for her.

Heres my views on this issue'
Let 's examine NEETU'S situation for a minute or two... We say Omi is not worthy of her...because she and her whole family along with Abhi hid the fact from Omi....but isn't he the one who has always accepted her..
.Neetu and Vicky both were two consenting adults when they went beyond the society's norms and slept together...given their reasons were wrong , and hasty or you can question that they both were not thinking of the consequences?? BUT WHY IS IT A SIN??? And who decides it is a SIN.. WHAT CONSTITUTES MORALITY AND BY WHOSE STANDARDS..?? The same society we are condemning when Manju is accepting it with open arms and we all hated her vehemently!!!!😍

Remember there was a time when SATI practice was not considered a SIN.. AND NOT TO TALK ABOUT DOWRY ..even after being restricted is still being practiced openly...
And is not this the same society that has tabooed the marriage of the younger boy and the older girl and we were hooting for it . And why can't a daughter live with her parents with her husband and support her aged parents if the need arises .???😲
THINK ABOUT IT ? 😍😍

If our society is going to make these kinds of decisions then are we ready to have a number of unwed mothers and their children to be called the SINNERS TOO This was one of the PROMINENT word I use and the question was WHY??? But again may be we already do it and openly too???