Simi Please No Such Dialogues - Page 5

Originally posted by: Laila2009

Ample opportunites but the writers did not want to show them. The character is not well written and if you're happy with your own individual excuses that's fine, I'm not. I expect a higher standard of writing. For me this inot enough at all. We're not talking about her saying to Abhi, I want to sleep with you, but she could at least be happy just looking at him or moving his hair of his face when it falls or a kind word.

Heck, even when she made the pratha for him she never made it because she wanted to do something nice for him. She made some dumb ass comment about how much she cared for her family and that becuas eof she she thinks she spoiled them.

The paraha episode was a dissapointment for me too..... because this was one episode where the interaction should have been shown and also the first scene after the night at the dhaba. The nice gesture of making parathas had so much scope to be shown but was a bummer . And always the niceties were not emphasized enough by Simi.
No I am not making any excuses for the creative's...... never have****** and not going to start now. I expect and hope for the betterment for the serial and want to be proud of this serial because it is close to home for me more than one reason. But for their shortcomings and the lack of their vision is not for what I am going to get upset about either. We as viewers have choices to watch this utter nonsense IN ANY GIVEN DESI SHOW and be content with it or wander off to the neighboring shows and they are all the same.
We also can write their shortcomings and post our views with their address or make phone-calls which wear doing anyways. At the end we are left with the choice to watch it or leave it and my guess we keep coming back to this forum and that speaks volume for our choice.
NOW LAILA IF YOU HAVE BETTER SUGGESTIONS FOR THE BETTERMENT OF THIS SHOW DO POST YOUR SUGGESTIONS RIGHT HERE FOR THEM TO READ AND THEN WAIT FOR THEIR RESPONSE.

SaniCo, I watch this show because I liked the characters of Abhi and Simi and I hope that the writers will redeem them. I have watched other shows and other than Manav and Archana I can't see anyone likeable. I really don't care for Karan from YMGGK, Dev from CB, Shekar from Agle I cannot stand...however, I do like this character of Aandhi from Do Saheliyan and can see some chemistry between him and this character Methali (if the writers don't mess it up).

Originally posted by: Laila2009

WOW!!!!!!!! A whole thread dedicated to me😃....I feel so priveleged!!

Well let me roll up my sleeves and get started!!!!!!

1) She came in between Nakul when he tried to kill Abhi

An isolated event and she put him in that predicament by failing to take a stand and telling everyone she was married to him in the first place.

2) She never backed down from getting intimate w/Abhi but luck was not on their side

She never initiated it either; meaning until Abhi brought up the fact they had not been together, it was only then the light blub went off. Abhi went to a lot of trouble for them to be together and she walked out on him to see her father and what was going on with him.

3) The time when she cuddled with him...She is not going to do that just for the heck of it....

Fair enough, I will give you that one. However, she spent the whole time before than crying for her mother.

4) The next day when she went to the Gurudwara for her mom she left a little Kheer for Abhi...She didn't have to if she didn't love him

They could have gone together.

5) When Abhi had arranged a romantic night she was intrested but unfortunately she had family troubles...not agreeing with her but she was intrested in wanting to be with Abhi

She didn't look the least bit interested to me. She ran off leaving him.

6) When her father was sick and Abhi showed up at the hospital she was very glad to see him and she thanked him and said sorry to him in her own way.....She always was by his side the whole time....

She might have been glad to see him but she didn't give a toss when it came to leaving him or going after him. Her husband could have walked out of her life that night but it was more important for her to know what was going on with dad. She even told Abhi she wanted to go home - back to KB - not the dhabba where the two of them lived together.

7) The time after RS came home and Simi tried to go see him and Manju wouldn't let her and Manju asked why she betrayed her sister and Simi said "meine kisko dhoka nahi diya....meine sirf Abhi se pyar kiya".....Obviously she said that for a reason....

Her saying she loved Abhi is not enough for me; my question is what has she done to show she loves him.

8) The second trial of SR she was all ready and she never shied away from being intimate with Abhi...but that night Milli had troubles and it was SimBhi to the rescue because Milli called them!!!

The point is she never initiated the desire to be with him - ever; meaning we never saw any desire in her for Abhi until Abhi said to her let us get together. This is the point I am trying to make.

9) She was trying hard herself to be with Abhi and vice versa before the actual SR....She never stopped Abhi from coming close...

That is the point I am making. It only AFTER they get the house back that she shows ANY really desire for Abhi. Until then she doesn't even look at Abhi after she is married. He might as well be chump change. She is so preoccupied with pleasing her family that she doesn't notice he exists. And it is only after he saves the house does he become important.

10) She dressed up for Abhi on the night of the SR...Why?....Because she wanted to look nice for Abhi and what he thought of her mattered to her.......

Again after the house was saved. Until the house was saved we saw nothing.

11) She hid the truth from Abhi because she did not want Abhi to do anything to Bhalla and end up in jail....If she didn't care she would not be in such a bind of what to do and not to do!!!!

Interesting. You're defending the very actions that everyone is speaking out against. Why doesn't she tell Abhi. Abhi has never done anything to warrant poor anger skills. We know that about Abhi, why doesn't she? It is a pretty insulting thing to do - keep such a secret and then call him bachcha in front of everyone. It's also more insulting when you practically spend the whole time complaining about trust but fail to trust your spouse.

Lailla...........this are the points that I felt that Simi showed her wanting Abhi...I am not asking you to agree with me.....just respect the differences of your opinion and mine! You may not agree to any or all of these reasons but they are mine....we could argue till we are blue in the face but at the end of the day you will still have your opinion and I will have mine....that is the wonderful thing about democracy😃 No hard feelings just answering what you asked!

See Daboo, these scenes worked for you, for me they didn't work. I would have liked to have seen lines like this from Simi:

"Abhi, I am so sorry I put you through so much. You have done so much for me. If it was not for you I would be married to someone like RB or Nakul, but you risked your life for me time and time again. I never asked anything of you but you gave without my asking."

"Abhi, you have stood by me and my family and I have never stood by you. Sometimes I wonder if you question my feelings for you, I never want you to doubt me or my love for you."

On the SR before they go in the room, "I never thought in my life I would be with someone like you. For years I would spend my life being rejected time and time again. I never thought I would have someone, most of all, some like you. I think I'm the luckiest girl in the world to have you."

100% true

I feel Abhi has done way way enough for Simi Now its about time she proves her love for him
He does everything soo beautifully and taking soo much pain even if it is to get beaten up by Nakul and his men
She arrives at the last minute for everything !!

Now there is a situation where she is at Big fault by hiding this so called one nioght stand proposal from Abhi and he is furious and wnats to take control of taking RB to the Phansi 😆 for what he offered for Simi ..
Simi will have to put all the efforts top first think abt her husband and then think abt her family
So Sim now u beeter give 101% attention to win back the trust and confidence of our husband
If you don't do it now he will never be the Abhi you met !!

And Abhi please don't give up your anger so easily on Simi she needs to convice and console you and only if you think she is going to listen to you infuture please give it a thought[:-?]

One more thing I feel they do not sit down and have proper talk
I mean gio to a resturant sit and talk abt life about how they were haveing a struggle to be together and now since they are and how sorry Simi is that she never got a chance to thank him for what all he did
Feel the happiness to be with him and not force the happiness on yourself
Show from your heart and sould that you care for that man and you are proud to have a guy like Abhi in your life
Small gesture will buil;d a mountain for happiness between two individuals

Hope Simi realises the difference between the first sentence and the second one, which statement is selfish and which is selflessness.

Originally posted by: mesimi

Hope Simi realises the difference between the first sentence and the second one, which statement is selfish and which is selflessness.

THINK SIMI.....WHAT U TOLD ABHI LAST TIME

wow Mesimi, That was a nice thought . loved t a lot

🤣 damn good ssreee

Originally posted by: SaNiCo

KAHAN SE LAYE IS PINK KURSI KO AAP AB

We are trying sooo hard for him to get away this week from the pink palace and here you go to decorate the palace barsaati with more pinkish decors ..............LOVED YOUR STYLE THOUGH AND HE WOULD TOO BTW does Jai has some of these commodities too dear 😉in his collection !!!!

arre its in the shape of jotta😆😆