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Dhabu89

@Dhabu89

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Posted: 15 years ago

#31

I agree with that Shankar....She should not have accepted roka from Nakul in the first place......But all I am trying to say is she does love Abhi......The only difference is she does not show it!!!!!

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Shankar

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Posted: 15 years ago

#32

Originally posted by: SimBhi2
I agree with that Shankar....She should not have accepted roka from Nakul in the first place......But all I am trying to say is she does love Abhi......The only difference is she does not show it!!!!!

I agree... 😃

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Nabanita De

@Nisha1994

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Posted: 15 years ago

#33

nice points simbhi. 👏 bt sometime i feel that whatever simi is doing with abhi is just not ok.

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Dhabu89

@Dhabu89

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Posted: 15 years ago

#34

Originally posted by: Nisha1994
nice points simbhi. 👏 bt sometime i feel that whatever simi is doing with abhi is just not ok.

Without a doubt Nisha.......Simi is not doing a LOT of things not right with Abhi....She needs to change and fast.....She does love Abhi and she better start to show it or she is going to loose him

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SaNiCo

@pageant101

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Posted: 15 years ago

#35

Originally posted by: SimBhi2

Without a doubt Nisha.......Simi is not doing a LOT of things not right with Abhi....She needs to change and fast.....She does love Abhi and she better start to show it or she is going to loose him

Simbhi dear I think she is already too late in that respect because she might have lost him last week anyways...............................just kidding just for the weekend!!!!!!!😆
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ramas

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Posted: 15 years ago

#36

Originally posted by: SaNiCo

Simbhi dear I think she is already too late in that respect because she might have lost him last week anyways...............................just kidding just for the weekend!!!!!!!😆
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good one SaNi😆😆😉 dear we all lost them too yaar and looking forward to tom and I hope there is no trouble in sethi paradise😉 till the real trouble comes back Ms. Cruela.😊

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SaNiCo

@pageant101

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Posted: 15 years ago

#37

Originally posted by: ramas
good one SaNi😆😆😉 dear we all lost them too yaar and looking forward to tom and I hope there is no trouble in sethi paradise😉 till the real trouble comes back Ms. Cruela.😊

I JUST DIDN'T WANT TO BRING UP THAT TOPIC OF OUR Cruela Devil on such a wonderful day!!

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Laila Banu

@Laila2009

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Posted: 15 years ago

#38

WOW!!!!!!!! A whole thread dedicated to me😃....I feel so priveleged!!

Well let me roll up my sleeves and get started!!!!!!

1) She came in between Nakul when he tried to kill Abhi

An isolated event and she put him in that predicament by failing to take a stand and telling everyone she was married to him in the first place.

2) She never backed down from getting intimate w/Abhi but luck was not on their side

She never initiated it either; meaning until Abhi brought up the fact they had not been together, it was only then the light blub went off. Abhi went to a lot of trouble for them to be together and she walked out on him to see her father and what was going on with him.

3) The time when she cuddled with him...She is not going to do that just for the heck of it....

Fair enough, I will give you that one. However, she spent the whole time before than crying for her mother.

4) The next day when she went to the Gurudwara for her mom she left a little Kheer for Abhi...She didn't have to if she didn't love him

They could have gone together.

5) When Abhi had arranged a romantic night she was intrested but unfortunately she had family troubles...not agreeing with her but she was intrested in wanting to be with Abhi

She didn't look the least bit interested to me. She ran off leaving him.

6) When her father was sick and Abhi showed up at the hospital she was very glad to see him and she thanked him and said sorry to him in her own way.....She always was by his side the whole time....

She might have been glad to see him but she didn't give a toss when it came to leaving him or going after him. Her husband could have walked out of her life that night but it was more important for her to know what was going on with dad. She even told Abhi she wanted to go home - back to KB - not the dhabba where the two of them lived together.

7) The time after RS came home and Simi tried to go see him and Manju wouldn't let her and Manju asked why she betrayed her sister and Simi said "meine kisko dhoka nahi diya....meine sirf Abhi se pyar kiya".....Obviously she said that for a reason....

Her saying she loved Abhi is not enough for me; my question is what has she done to show she loves him.

8) The second trial of SR she was all ready and she never shied away from being intimate with Abhi...but that night Milli had troubles and it was SimBhi to the rescue because Milli called them!!!

The point is she never initiated the desire to be with him - ever; meaning we never saw any desire in her for Abhi until Abhi said to her let us get together. This is the point I am trying to make.

9) She was trying hard herself to be with Abhi and vice versa before the actual SR....She never stopped Abhi from coming close...

That is the point I am making. It only AFTER they get the house back that she shows ANY really desire for Abhi. Until then she doesn't even look at Abhi after she is married. He might as well be chump change. She is so preoccupied with pleasing her family that she doesn't notice he exists. And it is only after he saves the house does he become important.

10) She dressed up for Abhi on the night of the SR...Why?....Because she wanted to look nice for Abhi and what he thought of her mattered to her.......

Again after the house was saved. Until the house was saved we saw nothing.

11) She hid the truth from Abhi because she did not want Abhi to do anything to Bhalla and end up in jail....If she didn't care she would not be in such a bind of what to do and not to do!!!!

Interesting. You're defending the very actions that everyone is speaking out against. Why doesn't she tell Abhi. Abhi has never done anything to warrant poor anger skills. We know that about Abhi, why doesn't she? It is a pretty insulting thing to do - keep such a secret and then call him bachcha in front of everyone. It's also more insulting when you practically spend the whole time complaining about trust but fail to trust your spouse.

Lailla...........this are the points that I felt that Simi showed her wanting Abhi...I am not asking you to agree with me.....just respect the differences of your opinion and mine! You may not agree to any or all of these reasons but they are mine....we could argue till we are blue in the face but at the end of the day you will still have your opinion and I will have mine....that is the wonderful thing about democracy😃 No hard feelings just answering what you asked!

See Daboo, these scenes worked for you, for me they didn't work. I would have liked to have seen lines like this from Simi:

"Abhi, I am so sorry I put you through so much. You have done so much for me. If it was not for you I would be married to someone like RB or Nakul, but you risked your life for me time and time again. I never asked anything of you but you gave without my asking."

"Abhi, you have stood by me and my family and I have never stood by you. Sometimes I wonder if you question my feelings for you, I never want you to doubt me or my love for you."

On the SR before they go in the room, "I never thought in my life I would be with someone like you. For years I would spend my life being rejected time and time again. I never thought I would have someone, most of all, some like you. I think I'm the luckiest girl in the world to have you."

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Laila Banu

@Laila2009

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Posted: 15 years ago

#39

Originally posted by: SaNiCo

Laila you make a valid point on the basis of the show that after marriage Simi never ever showed in a true sense to be with Abhi and by that i think you mean intimately or by her gestures .....so given that she never showed it in a truer sense but also the circumstances in their after marriage were just such a roller-coaster ride that she never was given the chance to show it in the story either. They have been bulldozered with one mishap after the other. What simbhi2 is trying to say here is in her own way she did showed her love with small gestures keeping in mind her upbringing and her values.
But your point is also valid that this is 30 year well educated not showing her supposedly soul-mate her true emotions and loving him regardless of any circumstances .
I personally think the story should have been written with a bit more care and depth to show the physical attraction love in the beginning....... or the spiritual love as a soul mates for lives. The lack and the gaps are still not filled even after the legalizing of the marriage. Sorry to say that I for one still looking for some answers and there aren't any. For beginners why Abhi got besotted by Simi to begin with.

Ample opportunites but the writers did not want to show them. The character is not well written and if you're happy with your own individual excuses that's fine, I'm not. I expect a higher standard of writing. For me this inot enough at all. We're not talking about her saying to Abhi, I want to sleep with you, but she could at least be happy just looking at him or moving his hair of his face when it falls or a kind word.

Heck, even when she made the pratha for him she never made it because she wanted to do something nice for him. She made some dumb ass comment about how much she cared for her family and that becuas eof she she thinks she spoiled them.

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Dhabu89

@Dhabu89

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Posted: 15 years ago

#40

Thanks Lailla..........Now I can see your point of view.......And it is different from mine........Neither one of us is wrong we are just opposites in our thinking.....like saying is the glass half full or half empty😕,,,,,,,,,,,,,Thanks for responding😃

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