Simi and Abhi Frustration - Page 3

Originally posted by: ssree

Abhis and simi frustration is shown mainly due to House problems, Rajiv bhalla. Rs' health, anita anuj, neetu etc, etc, etc

their frustration can also be due to them selves . Normally a man and a women when they are married and get intimate, then only there will be a better bonding. In simis and abhis case bonding is not so strong or say simi is not fully dependent on abhi coz they have not slept / got intimate together ( thats what i think ).

As per psycologists a bonding between husband and wife will be better and strong only if they have sex . and will know each other better and its hight time abhi and simi do it.

Now in order to show simi not taking abhi for grandted and valuing him more , simi and abhi should have a time together inspite of the problems. as long as they dont get together simi will still treat abhi valueless and as a child as now that what she has been doing. and am sure once they get into a relationship, htey bith will learn to have mutual respect .

Originally posted by: Laila2009

Do you have the article that says that bonding can only be strengthened through sex? I don't remember seeing anything like that when I studied human relationships.

laila i had read it during my college times its a long way, it had come in a womens era , where there are question and answers that were answered.

Originally posted by: Laila2009

Do you have the article that says that bonding can only be strengthened through sex? I don't remember seeing anything like that when I studied human relationship

Well written Laila.....👏 Yeah I know Marriage counsellors etc etc are there very much in 'the Market' who apparentl.y Coucel couples BUT it's also true that Divorce rate and diassatisfactions rates have also SOARED in modern days.... Does that indicate that Earlier and even in Our days Couples were Not happy but just pretended to be happy..huh?(We're actually considered Primitive compared to the New-Still-Unmarried Or Newly married generation 'with the Wildest of romantic Ideas' maximum of which Fail/Change in No time😕)

Originally posted by: ssree

by the way who said physical intimacy cannot create bonding, any counsellor, even doctors, even lawyers who deal in divorce cases ask questions to their clients or patience when they go for counselling or divoce cases, weather the couply has sexual reation ad how long they didnt have and so so so so so.

Search thorugh the net and you will know how inportant sex is for a married couple.

By the way Devdas died due to sexual disease, he slet with many prostitutes so as to takr revenge on Paro who betrayed him.

in the movie devdas died due to liver cirrhosis as he used to drink a lot, but also in the movie he had relation with a prostitute.

In television they writers and producers show all absurd thing . be it any show most of the thing which they show are weired and out of the way. In television they cant show husband and wife sleeping with each other and getiing intimate. its basically we viewers has to assume it. and i dont know which show u r talking about that has got high TRPs and no love is shown, its surprising .If u r talking about PR then in it the couples are divorced so they only look into each other eyes. also PR show is a remake of a tamil serial which was once a super hit show.

the meaning of love and hte depth of love has never changed, its the people / individuals thinking that has changed.

As a person and as a wife, feel in a relation (a husband and wife relation) there should be a physical bonding for their love to grow and this will make them more close to each other

He had so much "LOVE" for Paro.

Originally posted by: daboo89

Anuj is still a virgin...The child is Bhalla's🤣

Apparently his little swimmers have been productive😕😲

Originally posted by: RoyalT

LOL🤣 I thought Anuj was a virgin too until Anita's "announcement."

then i think u forgot on holi day ,anitha calls anuj and says a good news ,he says u know na we dont need a child now,then how come she bcame pregnant now i dont understand,but i t said that they have the s....relation.

compare to other serials ,kb is different,in one way,bcoz in every other serials frist they marry each other by circumstances,to take revenge,,by some or the other reason.then they fall in love and then they have their SR....,but in simi abhi's case they love each other,and then they r married now but still they dont have the closeness b/w them as it should be.bcoz of their family problems .till they did not have a roof on them then it is qiute understood ,it cannot be possible i think still abhi gets a job they will not enter into their relationships next step. but sterday by chance i saw bhagyvidhatha on colors their main lead r having their SR.....,a full song was picturized on them ,he gifts her a saree,she wears it and come with wet hair,he fill her maang with sindoor,it was really nice,i wish simi abhi would do some romantic thing like this,hope so soon.

Originally posted by: nimi2b4u

compare to other serials ,kb is different,in one way,bcoz in every other serials frist they marry each other by circumstances,to take revenge,,by some or the other reason.then they fall in love and then they have their SR....,but in simi abhi's case they love each other,and then they r married now but still they dont have the closeness b/w them as it should be.bcoz of their family problems .till they did not have a roof on them then it is qiute understood ,it cannot be possible i think still abhi gets a job they will not enter into their relationships next step. but sterday by chance i saw bhagyvidhatha on colors their main lead r having their SR.....,a full song was picturized on them ,he gifts her a saree,she wears it and come with wet hair,he fill her maang with sindoor,it was really nice,i wish simi abhi would do some romantic thing like this,hope so soon.

Originally posted by: silvermoonlight

You mean..they havent done the bedroom tango yet?

dang...no wonder they are all so stressed out....

No dear they definitely have done the bedroom tango by hugging It is the bedroom TANDAV we all are waiting for.😆