Simi and Abhi Frustration

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Posted: 15 years ago
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Abhis and simi frustration is shown mainly due to House problems, Rajiv bhalla. Rs' health, anita anuj, neetu etc, etc, etc

their frustration can also be due to them selves . Normally a man and a women when they are married and get intimate, then only there will be a better bonding. In simis and abhis case bonding is not so strong or say simi is not fully dependent on abhi coz they have not slept / got intimate together ( thats what i think ).
As per psycologists a bonding between husband and wife will be better and strong only if they have sex . and will know each other better and its hight time abhi and simi do it.
Now in order to show simi not taking abhi for grandted and valuing him more , simi and abhi should have a time together inspite of the problems. as long as they dont get together simi will still treat abhi valueless and as a child as now that what she has been doing. and am sure once they get into a relationship, htey bith will learn to have mutual respect .

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Posted: 15 years ago
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I think Simi with all her problems will be too aakddu to concentrate on doing the wild thing....It might just take a lot of coercing from Abhi to get her to relax and according to the writers Abhi is too hot headed to think in a calm manner...so basically, they are both going to die virgins......nuf said....
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Sree, what you are suggesting is true.

Simi does not have the time for anything to do with Abhi...where from getting intimate. Sex is known to be a stress reliever. Probably they should think about it.
Women need not be slaves to men. But definetely mutual respect and value for each other surely starts with a strong understanding of each other. Neglecting marital life by over burdening oneself with family problems is never going to solve things. Or if they are suggesting, Simi is gonna solve all the listed problems and then start life with Abhi, it is baseless. Life is never free of one tension or other. And married life in all terms should never be second in line. Abhi has been quite understanding. Never know when he will reach the threshold limit. Or is it what they suggest as age gap issues with regards to priorities in life.
Edited by mesimi - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
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I don't understand why you have to put your married life on sideline to solve your family problems?. That is only shown in Indian serials and it is most ridiculous thing.
any ways I hope after this problem is resolved simi gives her full attention to abhi and her married life. simi's utmost prioroty should be abhi now and their life together let anuj solve house problems.
Edited by ramas - 15 years ago
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dont we see couples having time for themselves even when they are in immense problems ?? abhi tries but fails very badly, simis mind is always around problemsso she kinda behaves its paap to have a gud moments wiht husband .......... god yes it not only helps bounding but also is stress relever ,,... ok dont show intimidate stuff atleast show her enjoying abhis hug without a reason for once
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: JayaV

dont we see couples having time for themselves even when they are in immense problems ?? abhi tries but fails very badly, simis mind is always around problemsso she kinda behaves its paap to have a gud moments wiht husband .......... god yes it not only helps bounding but also is stress relever ,,... ok dont show intimidate stuff atleast show her enjoying abhis hug without a reason for once

very true the last line is what i felt,abhi cant always talk and make her understnd ,now i think simi should be the frist.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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You mean..they havent done the bedroom tango yet?
dang...no wonder they are all so stressed out....
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Naay.... Physical Intimacy Cannot Create the Bonding.... I don't want to NAME Other Serial on Zee but in of the Topmst Serials with the HIGHEST TRP the couple have NOT Slept together yet their Romance just blowwwwwwws the vierwers away..!! I strongly blv that Mind is stronger than Body.... Otherwise the legendary hero Devdas is known never to have' slept' with Paro ...still how much could they love each other that neither Paro nor Devdas could accept any other person in their lives.???????????????????????????????!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
What physical satisfaction had Devdas got to die for her?????????????????
'This type' of love is Of course the sweetest part of Indian Culture.... where Souls go farther than bodies...
Of course this 'Definition' of Love has changed a lotttttttttttttttttttttttttttttt over the years in 'Modern India' and No wonder that the depth of love has changed too with it!!
Edited by Rumii - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: mesimi

Sree, what you are suggesting is true.

Simi does not have the time for anything to do with Abhi...where from getting intimate. Sex is known to be a stress reliever. Probably they should think about it.
Women need not be slaves to men. But definetely mutual respect and value for each other surely starts with a strong understanding of each other. Neglecting marital life by over burdening oneself with family problems is never going to solve things. Or if they are suggesting, Simi is gonna solve all the listed problems and then start life with Abhi, it is baseless. Life is never free of one tension or other. And married life in all terms should never be second in line. Abhi has been quite understanding. Never know when he will reach the threshold limit. Or is it what they suggest as age gap issues with regards to priorities in life.



Agree with you mesime But these to got to put their heads together !!!!!!!! 🤬🤣!and think about it. But HIS HIGHNESS has to take the first step and say the second time the four letter word that she LOVES him which is long due. SimiSethi is 30some years old .what is she waiting for a ting the chaat apri at the university. So get on with it and make it easier for allof us.
va va voom red carpet moment Honey let me tell you it came and knocked at your door when you were probably eating.
The problems will be there afterward waiting for you and mesimi I think he is already at the threshold limit with her dillydally and the interruptions.

ahh now the age difference the elephant in their room along with the cell phone she being immature and naive in this and our Casanova being the figuratively.......speaking................. young mind needing help so how about suggesting them some books on the topic and bushwhack sun shiner's here come the supplies.😆😆
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: Rumii

Naay.... Physical Intimacy Cannot Create the Bonding.... I don't want to NAME Other Serial on Zee but in of the Topmst Serials with the HIGHEST TRP the couple have NOT Slept together yet their Romance just blowwwwwwws the vierwers away..!! I strongly blv that Mind is stronger than Body.... Otherwise the legendary hero Devdas is known never to have' slept' with Paro ...still how much could they love each other that neither Paro nor Devdas could accept any other person in their lives.???????????????????????????????!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

What physical satisfaction had Devdas got to die for her?????????????????
'This type' of love is Of course the sweetest part of Indian Culture.... where Souls go farther than bodies...
Of course this 'Definition' of Love has changed a lotttttttttttttttttttttttttttttt over the years in 'Modern India' and No wonder that the depth of love has changed too with it!!

by the way who said physical intimacy cannot create bonding, any counsellor, even doctors, even lawyers who deal in divorce cases ask questions to their clients or patience when they go for counselling or divoce cases, weather the couply has sexual reation ad how long they didnt have and so so so so so.
Search thorugh the net and you will know how inportant sex is for a married couple.
By the way Devdas died due to sexual disease, he slet with many prostitutes so as to takr revenge on Paro who betrayed him.
in the movie devdas died due to liver cirrhosis as he used to drink a lot, but also in the movie he had relation with a prostitute.
In television they writers and producers show all absurd thing . be it any show most of the thing which they show are weired and out of the way. In television they cant show husband and wife sleeping with each other and getiing intimate. its basically we viewers has to assume it. and i dont know which show u r talking about that has got high TRPs and no love is shown, its surprising .If u r talking about PR then in it the couples are divorced so they only look into each other eyes. also PR show is a remake of a tamil serial which was once a super hit show.
the meaning of love and hte depth of love has never changed, its the people / individuals thinking that has changed.
As a person and as a wife, feel in a relation (a husband and wife relation) there should be a physical bonding for their love to grow and this will make them more close to each other

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