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Malini

@Rumii

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Posted: 15 years ago

Even after agreeing to the fact that ANUJ IS VERY WRONG still the extreme situation that happened in Sethi Household could be avoided if SIMMI WOULDN"t Have been soooooo impulsive .

In young age most of the children make mistakes(Yes,Anuj is YOUNG..... only because he's married doesn't mean he's very matured)and SiBLINGS Protect n advise each other bUt Here SIMMI BETRAYED HER BROTHER😲?????????????????

If we compare Anuj's sitation with Neetu's Situation,Neetu has also committed a SERIOUS PAAP{please don't say USNE PYAAR KI HAI,PYAAR PAAP NAHIN HOTA😳 etc etc} which she's confided to Simi and Simi has been protecting her ever since as her little Sister and Simii's been trying hard to get Neetu out of this Big trouble that She's herself Put her in But why did she behave diffrently with Anuj ?? I Myself have one Younger Brother and we do confide in Lots of things and we don't expect each other to break the mutual Trust.... as Simmi had come to know of Neetu's Secret affair,in the same way she came to know about Anuj's money laundering BUT WHAT SIMMI COULD'VE DONE is call Abhi secretly and meet Anuj and explain Anuj to put the money back in the bank..!! Instead of that She DRAGGED HER GROWN UP +Married BROTHER IN FRONT OF EVERYBODY and Anuj had to face that great insult in front of his Younger Sisters!!😲 WE ALL DO MISTAKES... It's wrong to assume that we/Simmi/Neetu/Milli are perfect but it's upon Family members to handle the situations properly,SPECIALLY ELDEST SISTER IS LIKE A MOTHER TO HER SIBLINGS!! She could easily have confronted Anuj Secretly n made him see sense !!

Whatever Simmi did WAS NOT RIGHT! Would it be fair if Anita would've DRAGGED NEETU to papaJi n ManjuJi and announced that's she's pregnant with an illegitimate child of a driver??

If we would've blamed Anita in this case Simmi is to blamed MORE As Anuj is her own Younger brother and as thE ELDEST SISTER and a very Matured Person she was supposed to help him to correct his mistake n not condemn him openly!

Being a bigger sister myself I FEEL WHATEVER SIMMI DID WAS WRONG!!

Edited by iamindian - 15 years ago

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sur_aur_taal

@sur_aur_taal

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Posted: 15 years ago

I will have to agree here, I personally (the oldest), always try to fix the problems that my siblings have had without my parents knowing. I also know how it feels to be betrayed like Anju was. I am guessing that no one was really close to Anju because he was a boy so that confiding relationship did not develop between him and his sisters.

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belledejour

@belledejour

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Posted: 15 years ago

Originally posted by: iamindian
Even after agreeing to the fact that ANUJ IS VERY WRONG still the extreme situation that happened in Sethi Household could be avoided if SIMMI WOULDN"t Have been soooooo impulsive .
In young age most of the children make mistakes(Yes,Anuj is YOUNG..... only because he's married doesn't mean he's very matured)and SiBLINGS Protect n advise each other bUt Here SIMMI BETRAYED HER BROTHER😲?????????????????

If we compare Anuj's sitation with Neetu's Situation,Neetu has also committed a SERIOUS PAAP{please don't say USNE PYAAR KI HAI,PYAAR PAAP NAHIN HOTA😳 etc etc} which she's confided to Simi and Simi has been protecting her ever since as her little Sister and Simii's been trying hard to get Neetu out of this Big trouble that She's herself Put her in But why did she behave diffrently with Anuj ?? I Myself have one Younger Brother and we do confide in Lots of things and we don't expect each other to break the mutual Trust.... as Simmi had come to know of Neetu's Secret affair,in the same way she came to know about Anuj's money laundering BUT WHAT SIMMI COULD'VE DONE is call Abhi secretly and meet Anuj and explain Anuj to put the money back in the bank..!! Instead of that She DRAGGED HER GROWN UP +Married BROTHER IN FRONT OF EVERYBODY and Anuj had to face that great insult in front of his Younger Sisters!!😲 WE ALL DO MISTAKES... It's wrong to assume that we/Simmi/Neetu/Milli are perfect but it's upon Family members to handle the situations properly,SPECIALLY ELDEST SISTER IS LIKE A MOTHER TO HER SIBLINGS!! She could easily have confronted Anuj Secretly n made him see sense !!

Whatever Simmi did WAS NOT RIGHT! Would it be fair if Anita would've DRAGGED NEETU to papaJi n ManjuJi and announced that's she's pregnant with an illegitimate child of a driver??

If we would've blamed Anita in this case Simmi is to blamed MORE As Anuj is her own Younger brother and as thE ELDEST SISTER and a very Matured Person she was supposed to help him to correct his mistake n not condemn him openly!

Being a bigger sister myself I FEEL WHATEVER SIMMI DID WAS WRONG!!

Now that I've read a few of your posts... and I've gotten over the initial shock ... I find them fascinating... its great to run into people who live on a different planet altogether (I don't mean to offend!) Is there an off chance you do this for fun? probably not... 😊

in the above mentioned scenario... wasn't this "very young" married guy kicked out becasue he hit milli and not because he stole the money?

I do agree that the neetu fiasco needs to come out... The Sethis need to be told... if you're going to play grown-up games then you should be able to take consequences of your actions like a grown up. Simi is wrong in thinking she's protecting anyone by going behind the mothers back!

Edited by belledejour - 15 years ago

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ReadLo

@ReadLo

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Posted: 15 years ago

I've said a thousand times Simi is an impulsive girl she acted after she thought

I am also most of my family but I always tell my brothers and sisters should be taken if his acts were able to make the mistake we will take the consequences in the event of Arnuj he has listened to Anita stolen l money from his father he was not ashamed to say that he not ask forgiveness and more IT AFFECTS MILI by what she told the truth then I am AGAINST A 100% I am against injustice and I am for truth if Simi had hidden this truth I will not have appreciated not

In the case of Neetu, Simi has reacted poorly concealing the truth when this problem into the open she will blame her for that I do not blame Neetu as a sin but if she aborts for me it is a sin

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461075

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Posted: 15 years ago

Belle! You're back!! Such Joy!

My sentiments exactly . . . I read all the way to 'betrayed your brother' and went cold, cold, cold! Anuj, wasn't young when it came to embezzeling from his own father?!!! Not a word of contrition! Not a single word! Nothing but venom from his wife! And they should be instantly forgiven? Maybe like Simi the magnitude of the crime hasn't sunk in!!

The Sethis have been told! Simi! That is sufficient! What purpose is to be served by airing an indiscretion to the rest? To pulverize an already broken parent? Brutal honesty is not always the best policy!

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femmedivine

@femmedivine

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Posted: 15 years ago

hi SVale,
totally agree with the extra-terrestrial perception mode...
the issue, as i see it, is that anuj..as a son..has been pampered and spoilt by his mom....and is hence a weaker person than his sisters.who have always had responsibilty put on them..simi, mili and yes..even neetu..have personnas that are better etched than anuj's.
anuj..who seems to have image issues..is totally oblivious to THE fact that simi agreed to a hasty marriage..to that excellently rodent...ish rajiv bhalla(excellent..coz methinx that the guy is a seriously phenome actor...down to his stained teeth)..he cannot seem to fathom right from wrong..as he does not ..or rather..cannot get past the idea that he has alawys been maligned by his father..and yes..in this case RS is guilty..he has been harsh on his son..rather than being a mentor..he was always extremely critical..
having said that..anuj the rat.. sorry brat.. should have..by this age..developed a sense of right from wrong..but if all the people had this sense..this world would be a boring..sensible place.. 😳
the issue with simi being impulsive is that she has seen her father humiliated..pretty much logic does tend to go 4 a toss at such times no...and to find out that the responsibilty for that is with your brother..smacks of serious betrayal....
what i like about this serial is that all the characters..are human.with human foibles..and those i can identify with..and understand..they do not pontificate..
am in serious danger of being a major cougar..what with going moony at the side of abhi..is it the fact that he knows his mind..is playful and firm in his convictions..that makes him so hot..
coz nakul is that..minus the playful...neil is a great actor!!!
sigh!! just wish he was a bit older..just a bit more..is all!!

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belledejour

@belledejour

Beginner

Posted: 15 years ago

Originally posted by: SValeCalGal

Belle! You're back!! Such Joy!

Such warmth! 😊 Im never going away now! ... you officially have a stalker Dipa! 😊

I do agree that the neetu fiasco needs to come out... The Sethis need to be told... if you're going to play grown-up games then you should be able to take consequences of your actions like a grown up. Simi is wrong in thinking she's protecting anyone by going behind the mothers back!

The Sethis have been told! Simi! That is sufficient! What purpose is to be served by airing an indiscretion to the rest? To pulverize an already broken parent? Brutal honesty is not always the best policy!

Its bound to come out and in a way that'll do the most damage... much like the Simi RB affair..its best to let manju ji in before the nosey neighbour returns and the blow lands on unguarded spirits...
chances of pulverization (i appreciate the spellings! 😊) instantly trebled!

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Malini

@Rumii

Voyager

Posted: 15 years ago

BelledEJour..... Thanks for your Comments BUT it's not necessary that everybody has to think Exactly the way they're Showing..... there can be Different perpectives But I see here Viewers generally DO NOT FIND ANY FAULTS OF HEROES AND HEROINES instead they want to See them all perfect !

Well,Put yourself in the characters n then you'll understand..... I know Anuj has been asked to leave for hitting Milli and that was terribly wrong but the way Anuj's matter has been brought in light was also very insulting indeed AND that led him to get desperate to 'close the matter' for he was pretty Embrassed and he Did that in The heat of the moment!! And YES,He's Not that matured.... he did this following Anita's plan which Simi should've understood and she could've solved the problem without harming anybody!!

AND PLEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEASE DO NOT SAY ANUJ IS THE ONLY BAD PERSON ETC ETC.... ALL OTHERS ARE ANGELS..... 95% of people we see Including US are imperfect n we DO MAKE MISTAKES....... and if you say that whatever theu've shown is RIGHt.... only thing I can say is well if family members are thrown out over some mistakes it won't be long for India to lose it's pride in Joint Families!!

ANUJ DID A MISTAKE BUT SIMMI ALSO IS NOT RIGHT BY NOT HANDLING THIS PROBLEM HERSELF..... and For Neetu's Problem,I tHINK SIMMI's DOING WHAT A RESPONSIBLE ELDER SISTER SUPPOSED TO DO.... and Other members who feel otherwise I am not sure if you reeeeeeeeally have younger siblings otherwise you wouldn't have supported the way Anuj's case was handled by Simmi...

HAAN,I DO AGREE TO SOME OTHER POST THAT SAYS SHE COULD NOT CONTROL HERSELF AS HER FATHER HAD BEEN INSULTED FOR THE F.D AT THE BANK SO SHE REACTED RIGHT AWAY BUT THERE WAS SURELY A MUCCCCCCCCCHH BETTER N PEACEFUL WAY!!

Edited by iamindian - 15 years ago

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Laila Banu

@Laila2009

Rocker

+ 3

Posted: 15 years ago

Originally posted by: iamindian
Even after agreeing to the fact that ANUJ IS VERY WRONG still the extreme situation that happened in Sethi Household could be avoided if SIMMI WOULDN"t Have been soooooo impulsive .
In young age most of the children make mistakes(Yes,Anuj is YOUNG..... only because he's married doesn't mean he's very matured)and SiBLINGS Protect n advise each other bUt Here SIMMI BETRAYED HER BROTHER😲?????????????????

If we compare Anuj's sitation with Neetu's Situation,Neetu has also committed a SERIOUS PAAP{please don't say USNE PYAAR KI HAI,PYAAR PAAP NAHIN HOTA😳 etc etc} which she's confided to Simi and Simi has been protecting her ever since as her little Sister and Simii's been trying hard to get Neetu out of this Big trouble that She's herself Put her in But why did she behave diffrently with Anuj ?? I Myself have one Younger Brother and we do confide in Lots of things and we don't expect each other to break the mutual Trust.... as Simmi had come to know of Neetu's Secret affair,in the same way she came to know about Anuj's money laundering BUT WHAT SIMMI COULD'VE DONE is call Abhi secretly and meet Anuj and explain Anuj to put the money back in the bank..!! Instead of that She DRAGGED HER GROWN UP +Married BROTHER IN FRONT OF EVERYBODY and Anuj had to face that great insult in front of his Younger Sisters!!😲 WE ALL DO MISTAKES... It's wrong to assume that we/Simmi/Neetu/Milli are perfect but it's upon Family members to handle the situations properly,SPECIALLY ELDEST SISTER IS LIKE A MOTHER TO HER SIBLINGS!! She could easily have confronted Anuj Secretly n made him see sense !!

Whatever Simmi did WAS NOT RIGHT! Would it be fair if Anita would've DRAGGED NEETU to papaJi n ManjuJi and announced that's she's pregnant with an illegitimate child of a driver??

If we would've blamed Anita in this case Simmi is to blamed MORE As Anuj is her own Younger brother and as thE ELDEST SISTER and a very Matured Person she was supposed to help him to correct his mistake n not condemn him openly!

Being a bigger sister myself I FEEL WHATEVER SIMMI DID WAS WRONG!!

Rubbish, you cannot compare what Anuj did with what Neetu did. Two totally different acts. Anuj and Anita planned to steal from RS. Neetu never planned on getting pregnant; she never planned on having sex - it happened. On top of it her pregnancy is going to her hurt more than anyone else; she can even hide it by having an abortion. The consequence of the abortion is something she will have to deal with alone.

Simi did nothing wrong; she confronted her brother who denied stealing from his father and then got his snake in the grass wife to back his actions. Then he walked out of the house with the money. He stood there while he saw his father suffering from the humiliation of being thrown out of the bank by security. He saw him cry at wondering what happened to all the money he had saved. He didn't feel in the least bit concerned about this actions. Neetu sheds tears and feels remorseful. Anuji allows his wife Anita to justify his actions.

Anuj needs a swift kick up the ass and his wife Anita needs to be brought down a couple of begs. As for Simi standing there getting berated by Anita, goodness what was all of that? She goes out of the way for Anuj and agrees to marry the troll RB and in the end not a word of thanks; instead the brother blames her for her father's shop closing down and spending all his hard earned money on her lavish wedding while he had a small affair at a mandir.

Seriously, I am amazed you don't see anything wrong in what Anuj did. He's an adult and knows right from wrong and if he needs to have someone take him aside and explain to him that what he did was wrong, then the question I have is do you even think what he has done is wrong. It's not a mistake, it was intentional.

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Jess.

@Jess.

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+ 4

Posted: 15 years ago

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Im gonna get in Simi's place xD

Okay...so i find out my younger sister is pregnant. I would also hide it from my parents. She's my sister....why would i tell on her & get her in MAJOR trouble? Its not like she meant to get herself pregnant & being a girl i would understand the remorse & pain she's feeling of getting pregnant & not being married. I'd help her in any way i can.

Now... I find out that my brother stole my dad's hard earned money. I dont know what simi did cause i live in US and didnt read ahead but i know that she called him out in front of everyone, right? I would talk to him first...make him say it from his own mouth. I'd demand him to give the money back. If he says no or some stupid reply other than "okay", i would DRAG him to my dad, slap him, and tell everyone. <---i dont know if *I* would do that in real life, but thats what i'd want to do...plus my brother's kinda big 😆. My brother wouldn't do it in the first place but if he did i'd make him give it back & if he doesnt, i'd tell my dad & he can deal with him.

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