Thoughts ....updated 1st Mar 10 (Page 25) - Page 5

Shanti,
Thanks a lot. Though I consider my writing very below average, with your appreciation I am right now flying in the 7th seven (by the way is there really something like that ?😉)

About Mili helping them, I have a slightly different opinion which i had written earlier too. I don't want anyone, even Mili to help them out. I want them to talk together and figure out what and where they went wrong. This in my opinion, would give them an apportunity to understand and trust each other and with this oppurtunity the understanding, trust and love would grow deeper and hence I don't want any 3rd person involved to dilute the thing they might learn with just the 2 of them trying to sort things out themselves.

Originally posted by: bee5

Bee's post

Originally posted by: Laila2009

BRILLIANT, BRILLIANT POST👍🏼

Well noted right down to the joke made by RS which I loved!!

Yes, Neetu has some attitude and Vicky puts up with it. One thing I have noted is that both Simi and Neetu are really demanding women. Geez, talk about high maintenance women! Always complaining and never appreciative.

Yes, I too wonder, what about the 40 lakhs? Will he give to the man? How did he pay for the passports etc? Will the marriage even take place? If so, when?

Yes, the letter was a big surprise - when did Abhi write it and how did it make it's way into her room and when??? LOL Did he sneak in to the house with it?? Wierd. Still the letter said it all and it was well put. Abhi believes Simi played a game with him and on top of it realizes she humilated him for the sake of her family. Abhi made some very important points, a key point was the sacasm in his letter about how people kill their own happiness (and hurt others) in the process of pleasing others.

When Anita walked into the room, did Simi even realize that she was set up by Anita (and Anuj?). Did she realize that Abhi invited her brother and sister back at her request, not Anita's? somehow that whole incident didn't even make much sense.

You know, a part of me did feel somewhat sympathy (yeah, I did say that), 😆, but I have to agree with you, "what is the point in crying now?" Did she not realize that this is what is going to happen? Did she seriously think Abhi was going to hang around after she put him down? You know, she doesn't even realize that in a week, whether she likes it out or not, she is going to get married to Nukul. Even if she is "supposed" to end up with Abhi, what's her plan now?

Yes, I like the fact she FINALLY told Mili - someone at least, but now what? Mili is not going to be able to do anything. Simi has dug her own grave.

If and when Abhi goes back to her, I hope it is after Simi does something worthy otherwise I will really want to kick the entire creative team up the azz and blast them where the sun does not shine. At least they can give Abhi back his dignity after having degraded him so much in this show.

O, and yes the age difference - intresting how they have her aged 28 now? I think they noted that the people were not great fans of the age difference and have changed it to 28. I hope it's official. A six year age difference is tolerable, as I once wrote, especially since Abhi is only 22. I know some people don't care but I always found it rather wierd even though I consider myself pretty liberal.

O, and I do note, when Simi confesses to Mili, it actually dawns on her how wonderful Abhi was to her and all that he did for her. Again, too late.

I think the next few months will be Simi trying hard to win back Abhi. It will be interesting to watch...Since Abhi fell for her as a person, no make over is going to work for her now. So what's it going to take for her to win Abhi back. Like I wrote, I hope she has to work hard, very hard. And I hope Abhi's heart really does harden and he finds someone who really does love and appreciate him and doesn't keep using him to please her own family (like Simi).

Originally posted by: Laila2009

BRILLIANT, BRILLIANT POST👍🏼

Well noted right down to the joke made by RS which I loved!!

Yes, Neetu has some attitude and Vicky puts up with it. One thing I have noted is that both Simi and Neetu are really demanding women. Geez, talk about high maintenance women! Always complaining and never appreciative.

Thanks Laila for the appreciation.
High maintenance women - Manju and Neetu? You forgot Anita!!! 😆 and for me, Simi is no less. The others are in a materialistic way and Simi in a emotional way! Who can put up with a everyday scarificing women?😆

Originally posted by: Laila2009

Yes, I too wonder, what about the 40 lakhs? Will he give to the man? How did he pay for the passports etc? Will the marriage even take place? If so, when?

Yes, the letter was a big surprise - when did Abhi write it and how did it make it's way into her room and when??? LOL Did he sneak in to the house with it?? Wierd. Still the letter said it all and it was well put. Abhi believes Simi played a game with him and on top of it realizes she humilated him for the sake of her family. Abhi made some very important points, a key point was the sacasm in his letter about how people kill their own happiness (and hurt others) in the process of pleasing others.

13th Jan 10

Continuation of yday's dinner scene and as expected nobody believes Neetu's comment.
Oh! Neetu knows sarcasm too! But, isn't that true, whatever the wives make, husbands heart would still be stuck in their mother's cooking. But since when Neetu become this worldly-wise? She hasn't lived with her husband yet. Aage Aage dekhiye Neetuji aap kya kyaa sikhthi hain.
So, the creatives remembered the Pista icecream. I will have to give them a cookie for that.😛
To hide 1 lie, Simi resorts to 1 more lie. Anyway that was harmless so its ok.

Manju is the most happiest person in the world now. Apple of her eye is back home. Now Manju will do everything what is required of her - look after son, daughters, husband, home, shop everything.

I thought the icecreme story is over. Why is Simi hell bent on doing others favour? Just a while back she had told Anita not to have any relation with her, then howcome she is going and talking to Anuj as if nothing happened? Yes, Anuj is her brother but now Anuj is Anita's husband! If she doesn't want any relation with Anita then she should know not to keep any relation with Anuj too. It doesn't always work in a split-level! Atleast for somedays she should have maintained her distance. But no, she wants to always do favour and their fight start with a silly thing called icecreme! Whatever, Simi gets to spit out every frustration that she has and all that she has been doing(sacrifices) and why she is doing - For the happiness of her family! OK, atleast somethings that Simi told did make its way to Anuj's already corrupted little brain and he did show some signs of guilt. But is it going to last long? The moment he gets Anita's breeze, he will forget everything. Have you heard - dog's tail can never be straigtened? 😉

RS's shop reopening ceremony. Yday, I was wondering if Simi will call Abhi and I was about to think oh is she going to bcos RS has asked, but lo ji, Abhi is already there. something that is very clear is Abhi still loves Simi and he thinks that it is Simi who is not ready.
Firstly, I was apprehensive that I wouldn't see Abhi - so, I must say Thank You creatives. 2nd cookie for you.😛
Secondly, Abhi is there bcos he thinks it is his responsibility. RS asks Abhi to join him in reopening the store and there is no formalities from Abhi side like - no you are elder so you should do or Manjuji is elder, you both should do etc etc...No drama there, RS & Abhi together open the shutters.
Simi is glad Abhi has come and expecting everything between them will be like before. When Simi once again trips and falls on Abhi, Simi gets to face Abhi's bitterness for the 1st time from what Abhi says - "If you are so interested in walking alone then you must know to handle yourself too and make sure you don't keep falling", which means if you do not want my companionship in life then you should know how to live your life alone and not ask for support for every issue in life.
So, Abhi is hurt but has not become a cry-baby. Good. Abhi gets his 1st cookie.😛

After the store reopening, Abhi is returning back and hey, I see Abhi's red jeep and he is walking towards it. Hey, come on, how come? Are they showing that he came there in that jeep and now is going back? How is it possible? Did they forget he had sold his jeep to buy that ring? Before my mind race ahead and could put a stamp of 'blooper' on that scene, they show that that jeep is not Abhi's afterall. OK, so, creatives pass this test too. 3rd cookie! 😛 It is so strange sometimes how easily you tell every details to a stanger! Abhi admits that he lost his jeep, the ring and as well as the girl for whom he had sold the jeep to buy the ring!
Before Abhi can turn back and go, he sees Simi across the road. Eventhough he is angry with her, he doesn't wait for her to cross over to his side, but acts gentlemanly and crosses the road himself so that Simi can talk. Good behaviour. Abhi gets 2nd cookie.😛
Finally Simi says 'Sorry'. Abhi is so true, there is no point in sacrificing yourself for selfish people, bcos their demands never cease. Such living according to him is incorrect and he also tells her, thought we both need each other, if either is not happy together then there is no point living together. Is Simi going to learn anything? Doesn't look like. One more dog's tail?
I thought Simi is going to give that ring back to Abhi. No, she doesn't - no cookies to her.

Oh the scene between Anuj and Anita was so funny😆. Anuj is trying to press Anita's head and Anita is pissed he is not doing it the right way and his comment was good too and equally good was Anita's comment about if you want sympathies, you are not going to get it from me.👏
Anita's next project is to spoil the reputation that Abhi has on the Sethis (mainly RS).

OK, Mili wants to bring the two love birds together, but doesn't she realise Simi is going to get into problem when Abhi comes to know Simi is ok? BTW, Abhi is shown working on his laptop and not sulking seeing Simi's pic! 3rd cookie to Abhi😛. Oh! I didn't wanted Mili to do that. Reasons - <I can't find my posts where I put my views about it, So a placeholder>
But that was added by the creatives to give masala to the viewers. Again, no cookies there. Now Anita has a new thorn in her path - Mili.

In the precap scene Anita has already started working on her new project. Is RS going to believe her crap? Hope he doesn't! But hey, I am not the story writer!😃 So, no cookies to me!