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Posted: 8 years ago
#41

Originally posted by: chandrima02

I have unres-ed my post in Page 1 ...

Girls 👏 ...

As I have mentioned repeatedly, emotional abuse is worse than physical abuse. Physical pain eventually heals, leaving dead scars; but emotional abuse is like a slow poison, gifts one an excruciatingly painful but extremely slow emotional death. Trust me on this. It's a living nightmare honestly. What Shaurya has executed starting from "mandap se bhaaga dulhaa" till the end of "bin shaadi ki dulhaan bani Shaurya ki bin bulaayi mehmaan" tracks is simply sinister and the makers are hellbent to trivialise it!!
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@chandrima, @stella - I too am in the camp of emotional abuse trumping physical assault - one is slow poison and does not leave visible marks, but is no less potent.
Some gals develop masochistic tendencies and live with abuse.. and the rationale is just that he is dil ka accha.. he loses him temper.. he does not mean it.. it was my fault etc etc ...
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Posted: 8 years ago
#42

Originally posted by: stellaV

Santi 👏 Take a bow girl. Thanks a lot for writing this post.

I completely agree with everything that you have penned down. I see no difference between this SK and the guy we knew before that unnecessary molestation track. People may call it new found or may be hidden love which he has realized now but for me it is nowhere close to a feeling called love. He is literally insulting this feeling in the worst possible way by giving name of love to his obsession for yet another THING which he thinks to be his property. I am feeling disgusted, and this disgust is getting stronger day by day. And i am shocked to see that only sane person in the girl's family who is well aware of the consequences of this toxic relationship is being branded as a Vamp 🤢 Is this what you call a redemption? jahan ek insan ko sahi saabit karne k liye poori duniya villain bana di jaye, and surprisingly har vo insan jo iske against bole vo galat h. Really guys?? We need to think again about the rationality of this notion. If a guy really respects and cares for a girl and her feelings, he should care for all the things and persons who have a respectable place in her life. But unsurprisingly, he was defiant of this yesterday , now and he will do this forever unless vo ladki jise uss ladke k pyar ki galatfehmi h, vo ye realize karwaye use, lekin fir vahi baat, agar realize hi karwana pde to vo kaisa pyar And i have a big problem with way he replied to karuna today. Again justifying his actions, not even a bit of remorse i could see in his eyes. Man, your only problem is with the fact that she left you, she gave up on you and you lost your punching bag and the doormat on which you could have taken out the frustration of your daily problems aur shayad kabhi mann kiya to khel bhi liya ( call it romance). Ye hamesha aisa hi tha aur aise hi rahega jab tak koi brain transplant ka option na ho 🤢
He is on his mission to make this girl orphan in real terms now and the very thought is giving me chills 😕
SK dil ka achha h, chahe vo kuchh bhi kar le vo bhi bina kisi solid reason k aur sirf apni ego satisfaction k liye, but when the same treatment which he has always given to everyone in this world is meted out to him by someone ( and this someone is doing this out of love, care and concern), that someone is branded as a villain and an enemy of lovers.
Issue is serious and needs a thought friends



Very well said...
@ Bold 1...
I remember a poll done few days ago, if SK would ever change & I made a similar comment...
Hie brain is wired this way & he might never change. His traumatic childhood has just been
used as an excuse for his behavior by the makers. Sadly being raised by a loving
stepmom like Karuna has had only a partial positive effect on his personality.

@ bold 2...
He probably has a GOOD heart, but a mountain sized EGO. And in order to satisfy that,
he will continue with his ways.

It's just that ST / makers refuse to redeem their creation, The SK. They only pretend to
show him to mellow down a bit, with such pathetic tracks like the most recent one
before they turn him around to where it all began. They seem not to care too much
for strengthing Mahek's character, though the show's title says otherwise.



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Posted: 8 years ago
#43
100% Agree with your post.
This SK is not going to change, yesterday i thought he got a shock of his life and big hit on head so he will open his mind, but no SK is SK. Why should Kanta should believe him? . Yesterday what ever she talked i am with her because when ur child is hurt mother will blame the person who is close to her/his heart, thats the reality.. I have only one problem with her character. She was the only Sensible character of sharma family. She was always calm and composed with her actions, But they turned her to something i dont have a word. That pulling and Pushing hero/villain is not her cup of tea, because they showed her as a conservative women with so many middle class values which i had respected in her character. I even know that everyone will have a stauration point of patience, after that point no one can take any shit. Maybe kanata reached that state. But physical Manhandling is not good to a character like Kanta its strictly my opinion. King ST has decided to make Hero as Hero, so he want to spoil the most sensible character of the show.
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Posted: 8 years ago
#44

Originally posted by: stellaV

@ Santi.. Want to add one more point here, emotional abuse is not any better if not worse than physical abuse. Infact, it is the major cause of suicides🤢As kanta chachi said, it is a mirage jahan you will keep continuing the cycle of abuse in the delusion of a non existent love. This delusion will make you insane, snatching away your peace of mind and the worst part is, despite knowing this aap usse kabhi free nahi ho paoge because that delusion of love will again draw you inside. Result kya hoga?? You cannot even imagine😕


Yes ! As I have said in another post today that physical abuse always has an upper hand compared to the long standing emotional abuse
Sympathy & emphathy always for the physically abused 🤢
What abt the emotional trauma ?
Physical injury would heal with time but emotions hurt to this extent barely does

People do change I guess but how ?
For SK to change he needs to accept first that he was wrong all this while
😕
If he still thinks he can get away with his earlier behavior so be it 🤢

He will not e redeemed nor reformed anytime soon 😳

It will be Mehak bending her spine backwards to please the mighty egoistic SK
😕

Shaurya wants it all easy 🤢
Edited by brat2008 - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
#45

Originally posted by: Mishfan



Very well said...
@ Bold 1...
I remember a poll done few days ago, if SK would ever change & I made a similar comment...
Hie brain is wired this way & he might never change. His traumatic childhood has just been
used as an excuse for his behavior by the makers. Sadly being raised by a loving
stepmom like Karuna has had only a partial positive effect on his personality.

@ bold 2...
He probably has a GOOD heart, but a mountain sized EGO. And in order to satisfy that,
he will continue with his ways.

It's just that ST / makers refuse to redeem their creation, The SK. They only pretend to
show him to mellow down a bit, with such pathetic tracks like the most recent one
before they turn him around to where it all began. They seem not to care too much
for strengthing Mahek's character, though the show's title says otherwise.




Mishfan, the CVs did the classical thing - remind her of her sexuality and that she is the weaker sex and the boy saved her.. so he loves her..

to them this is balanced equation!!

While al along we have been hoping for a strengthening of Mehak's character - her becoming a career gal but no.. she starts wavering like a humming bird whenver SK is near and goes into his trance..

They sure have made SK's character untouchable with all this and Mehak continues to be the frail delicate one - needing rescuing!


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Posted: 8 years ago
#46

Originally posted by: s_lover

100% Agree with your post.

This SK is not going to change, yesterday i thought he got a shock of his life and big hit on head so he will open his mind, but no SK is SK. Why should Kanta should believe him? . Yesterday what ever she talked i am with her because when ur child is hurt mother will blame the person who is close to her/his heart, thats the reality.. I have only one problem with her character. She was the only Sensible character of sharma family. She was always calm and composed with her actions, But they turned her to something i dont have a word. That pulling and Pushing hero/villain is not her cup of tea, because they showed her as a conservative women with so many middle class values which i had respected in her character. I even know that everyone will have a stauration point of patience, after that point no one can take any shit. Maybe kanata reached that state. But physical Manhandling is not good to a character like Kanta its strictly my opinion. King ST has decided to make Hero as Hero, so he want to spoil the most sensible character of the show.


Hero is God.. wonder why Shaurya did not pray to a photo of himself to save Mehak.. coz by all signs, he is GOD!
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Posted: 8 years ago
#47

Originally posted by: Santiago24



Shamy.. no one is asking him to change overnight.. par thoda tho a whiff of change ho sakta hai.. nahi.. he will not.. he does not look like he will have self realisation too..

for me.. self realisation can happen only though Mehak.. she needs to be absolutely strong and become a career gal. She too keeps giving him mixed signals..


@santi
No more mixed signals from Mehek
Direct signal - Aa Adiyal saand mujhe maar"
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Posted: 8 years ago
#48

Originally posted by: Santiago24



Hero is God.. wonder why Shaurya did not pray to a photo of himself to save Mehak.. coz by all signs, he is GOD!


🤣 🤣 Dharti ka bhagwaan vs Aasmaan ka Bhagwan 😆
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Posted: 8 years ago
#49

Originally posted by: Santiago24


Mishfan, the CVs did the classical thing - remind her of her sexuality and that she is the weaker sex and the boy saved her.. so he loves her..

to them this is balanced equation!!

While al along we have been hoping for a strengthening of Mehak's character - her becoming a career gal but no.. she starts wavering like a humming bird whenver SK is near and goes into his trance..

They sure have made SK's character untouchable with all this and Mehak continues to be the frail delicate one - needing rescuing!




Just like Mehaks fairy tale world 😕
Mehak -Damsel in distress
Shaurya- knight in shining armor
The creatives have made Shaurya more egoistic & Mehek more immature & fragile 🤢
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Posted: 8 years ago
#50

Originally posted by: brat2008


🤣 🤣 Dharti ka bhagwaan vs Aasmaan ka Bhagwan 😆

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