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@fannymanny

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Posted: 8 years ago

#11

Originally posted by: dsr11

I am not sure if Mahek knows that Shruti is Shaurya's ex, but with marriage she will have to share the same roof with her. It can be awkward.

I too don't think that Mehak knows about Shruti yet ...but I want her to know about them through Shaurya after their marriage and I want him to really open up and tell more about himself ...today Mehak does not know him much ...

Edited by asyafann - 8 years ago

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dsr11

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Posted: 8 years ago

#12

Originally posted by: simran_singh_24
Loved reading your take dsr.

I like the way Shauriya channelizes his anger.He doesn't explode and react.He clears his head, plots,plans and attacks and decimates his enemies.Basically, he doesn't react in anger, which is dangerous, he chalks out his response, which is good imo.

Y'day, i was impressed how he beat the vamp and her supporters.He had to choose Vicky because he is Mami's Achilles heel.
I think he had learnt his lesson somewhere in the past when his unbridled anger damaged him, his enemies like KD think he is the same, but i think he has it in control.

Mehak just needs to grow up and standup her own dignity and happiness.I would like to see her coming of age track post marriage.

Simran, Shaurya does think before acting, when it comes to known enemies. But the point is that he gets a little physical when showing his anger, which cannot be seen in good light. Remember on Diwali night that Shruti was blabbering something about the rough manner in which he was holding her? Imagine that happening in front of Mahek! Yeah one should refrain from showing the aggression physically no matter how angry one is.

@bold yes it would be heartwarming to see this girl claiming her place in the world with her head held high, crown intact and with her dark knight right beside her.

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dsr11

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Posted: 8 years ago

#13

Originally posted by: asyafann

I too don't think that Mehak knows about Shruti yet ...but I want her to know about them through Shaurya after their marriage and I want him to really open up and tell more about himself ...today Mehak does not know him much ...

I think for drama sake she will know it from someone else and that will cause a minor misunderstanding right after the marriage.😛

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simran_singh_24

@simran_singh_24

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Posted: 8 years ago

#14

Originally posted by: dsr11

Simran, Shaurya does think before acting, when it comes to known enemies. But the point is that he gets a little physical when showing his anger, which cannot be seen in good light. Remember on Diwali night that Shruti was blabbering something about the rough manner in which he was holding her? Imagine that happening in front of Mahek! Yeah one should refrain from showing the aggression physically no matter how angry one is.

@bold yes it would be heartwarming to see this girl claiming her place in the world with her head held high, crown intact and with her dark knight right beside her.

i think the scene with Shruthi was to show their intimate past.
I think Shaurie is a very physical person and he's fearless in crossing the boundaries to make his point.He was that way with Mehak frm beginning too, his actions bordering on physical/sexual intimidation.
He and Mami act more like playmates.I felt bad for him when he had to hold Mami's hand when she tried to snatch his plate.
Mama&Mi seem to have been a great negative influence on him while growing up.

Sometimes, physical expression of anger is necessary when you are intervening.There was no way he could've made his point y'day w.o forcing the food on Viky. he gave into Mami with the courier.

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nmn6

@nmn6

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Posted: 8 years ago

#15

Yaars I thought she new that he has some past affairs.cause during thappad vali scene kanta chachi shows her the scrolling where it was mentioned with picture about SK & shruthi. May or she might not have noticed that. Also when SK comes & sleeps outside mehek's house nehal did mention that HJ have you done something like this with your ex's. Don't know these cv's always mould the plot according to their will & wish.

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dsr11

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Posted: 8 years ago

#16

Originally posted by: simran_singh_24

i think the scene with Shruthi was to show their intimate past.
I think Shaurie is a very physical person and he's fearless in crossing the boundaries to make his point.He was that way with Mehak frm beginning too, his actions bordering on physical/sexual intimidation.
He and Mami act more like playmates.I felt bad for him when he had to hold Mami's hand when she tried to snatch his plate.
Mama&Mi seem to have been a great negative influence on him while growing up.

Sometimes, physical expression of anger is necessary when you are intervening.There was no way he could've made his point y'day w.o forcing the food on Viky. he gave into Mami with the courier.

With Vicky may be its okay, but with the ladies it's not okay for me. Mami must have really troubled him mentally and physically through out his childhood. I can understand his anger but still...

Yes he did cross his boundaries with Mahek in ISC and it's wrong. It damaged his reputation, remember? Respecting boundaries is important.

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dsr11

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Posted: 8 years ago

#17

Originally posted by: nmn6
Yaars I thought she new that he has some past affairs.cause during thappad vali scene kanta chachi shows her the scrolling where it was mentioned with picture about SK & shruthi. May or she might not have noticed that. Also when SK comes & sleeps outside mehek's house nehal did mention that HJ have you done something like this with your ex's. Don't know these cv's always mould the plot according to their will & wish.

Don't know about other affairs but Shruti will be important because she lives under the same roof. It can get awkward.

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thabassum

@Thabassum19

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Posted: 8 years ago

#18

Well said and bang on post dsr ...

They are one great couple...I agree u with his anger part ...

He can really be misunderstood ...

His mother was always like shut him down before his reptile family , wenever they used to taunt him in cheap manner ...

He was always ill treated by his family , and may be tats y he is used to arrogant ...!!!

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Mahek ..I see clearly a new self obedient girl..

But she always falls naive ..wen she is being accused in front of her family

Wen mehak can kick her courage out and face a guy like shaurya in tough phases ...then y cant she speak up for herself wen preggy drama was going on.??

I guess that's wer mehrya journey begins ...

How she wants him to speak for her ...trust from her side is complete...and the love from his side is pure !!

I m looking forward for how this story is gonna be in future ..

Cheers to whole team for always surprising us !!

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dsr11

@dsr11

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Posted: 8 years ago

#19

Originally posted by: -Thabassum-
Well said and bang on post dsr ...
They are one great couple...I agree u with his anger part ...
He can really be misunderstood ...
His mother was always like shut him down before his reptile family , wenever they used to taunt him in cheap manner ...
He was always ill treated by his family , and may be tats y he is used to arrogant ...!!!

And
Mahek ..I see clearly a new self obedient girl..
But she always falls naive ..wen she is being accused in front of her family
Wen mehak can kick her courage out and face a guy like shaurya in tough phases ...then y cant she speak up for herself wen preggy drama was going on.??
I guess that's wer mehrya journey begins ...
How she wants him to speak for her ...trust from her side is complete...and the love from his side is pure !!
I m looking forward for how this story is gonna be in future ..
Cheers to whole team for always surprising us !!

Yeah Karuna always wants to maintain peace at her home even when everything is going wrong. May be he is treating mami just like she always treated him. I don't blame him completely. That's what he picked up among abusive people. But may be its time to learn to tame that anger a little bits.

I know the downside of anger well because I am a hothead myself with very rebellious nature. Reputation suffers first when you act in anger. One of my husband's cousin knew me from college and he advised my husband to not marry me, because I was notoriously feisty😆. My husband didn't appreciate his ill advice and he actually saw it as a positive in me. Even I didn't care, but I understood that angry people are not liked, even if their anger is righteous. So we need to be cautious in how we express our anger.

Mahek bent a little bit when she agreed for calling the doctor and Kantha forced her to bend a little more when she was ready to put Mahek through chastity test! If you don't speak up for yourself, people will make you bend until you break. She needs to grow a spine. There is a feisty cat in Mahek too which comes out only when she is cornered, but her family is both her strength and weakness. She feels too indebted to them. I understand middle class values, but I can never understand how she so meekly agreed to all their demands! Nehal or Sonal would react to such situations with more fire in them but Mahek is too meek.

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dsr11

@dsr11

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Posted: 8 years ago

#20

Originally posted by: decemapr
Wonderful analysis... 👏

Thanks.

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