Fatmagul DT # 5 - Page 65

Originally posted by: ngayou

Shalu, am coming shortly too with my disagreeing post , wait please 🤣

Originally posted by: shalu79

Here again to share my views on FG...
Regarding Ozgee being braver than FG. I beg to differ here. They both r victims of a henious act. I wont compare who is more or less brave. But if Ozgee is Brave than FG too is as brave as Her.
Point being mentioned that if Ozgee's BIL is culprit than she is braver bcoz she has to face him daily...

Agree, not the done thing to compare bcos both are rape victims and have faced unimaginable horrors. but here it comes into play bcos of some of the weak and wrong decisions FG makes

So, by that logic For FG initially when she was not aware about the truth Kerim too was one of them for her..N we have seen how she was towards him.. Even once she tried to kill him too.
For FG it was Kerim who gave her courage to fight against culprits n for Ozgee it is FG who is giving her first glimpse of hope, courage to fight...

Pahal has beautifully answered that marriage thing, so I wont go into it . Also, for FG , there was no one to show her support or encourage her to be brave [including her bro 😛], and she was completely dependent on bro and wifey & all her actions were done under duress and of course for Mahaan Musti 🤢😡

Why FG is brave for me?
1. She called Meltem on her wedding day without being afraid of consequences.

Yeah, great on her part to decide not to let another gal to suffer bcos of her silence 👏. But why did FG keep quiet when Meltem came to meet her , I expected her to tell all bcos those days she was at the peak of her anger & disgust. Till this date I havent understood why she was silent at that time

2. She had that spirit in her to lead a normal life... she wanted to work n be independent.

It was indeed a brave & much appreciable decision to forget her pain & move ahead in life. But FG being independent all by herself is all LOLwaaa to me 😛 bcos she s just not the type who cant be without anyone by her side. But yes, financial independence does play a big part in self empowermen. 😊

3. When Erdogan attacked at their house with goons. The way she behaved n dealt with it goes to show how courageous she is.

She didnt realise the consequences of her action that Kerim warned about, but ultimately as this event made her decide to trust in Kerim, I wont complain 😉

4. For court hearing, when Kadir, Meryem n Kerim wanted her not to attend it. She faced them without being afraid. Wow what a scenes that was.

Yes, deciding to face the devil headon was very brave indeed which went to help in her healing too 👏. Maybe bcos of these actions of hers only I expected much more from her later also!

After being raped by 3 men brutally if a girl hopes for a normal life n have children in future than in my opinion is brave n courageous. And she has a very understanding, sensitive life partner as Kerim to help her, encourage her...

Yes, I applaud & admire her for her very brave decision that she wanted a normal life & forget her past, & then deciding to place her trust in Kerim, the one person who was witness & a constant reminder to her of her trauma & also wanting to love again despite Musti s treachery 😡

PS: So it s FG s fault only for making me have high expectations from her due to her earlier actions , but then later on disappointing me with her decision to withdraw the case baar baar with notsogood reasons for it 😆😆