Originally posted by: .Enchantress.
+100 on your points @sun29! 👏👏👏
Just because we watch Indian soaps or are Indian just doesn't means you can catagorize us into the group that we are used to the crying, weeping, sacrificing abla naari.
i cannot believe i am saying this..but our abla naaris may be dumb witted but when it comes to protecting their loved ones they never back down ..i actually lost my cool after seeing little maham being treated the way she is ...
Having said that, I will still say that I felt for Rumaisa just cuz she was a true sufferer of the situations but it just doesn't means that you'll tolerate every damn thing on your self respect and dignity just cuz you're too afraid to protest?! 😕 that's lame.
If not anything, then Rumi should at least take a firm step against all the chichorapann Hassan is doing to her, no woman tolerates this, period.
not once or twice but that man inspite of zeeshan warning him is becoming bold as days go by knowing every well rumiasa will not utter one word ...she is not a victim ,she is just too cowardly and weak to even meekly protest..the whole thing was lame and why i am furious is coz none of them paid for what they did...atleast hassan should have ...the amount of time they spend in showing the nonsense of trying to get zeeshan married off to every girl around ,if only they could have shown some kind of punishment to hassan ,if not all...
And nothing justifies the behavior she's putting up with that Innocent Soul Maham who is as other kids her age should be. Locking her up in the room when she is calling you and looking after other kids?!😕
Beating her up for breaking a vase, handling her roughly? What's this? Taking out all your frustrations on her?
I agree Maham is treated as a burden in that house like her mother, but if Rumaisa will treat her like everyone does what's the difference? And the heights would be asking Zeeshan to leave her daughter in an orphanage? That's madness.
do not get me started on the whole maham issue...i really want to shake rumiasa so hard and scream at her not that i am going to get any response from her except aap mujhse kyun naraaz hai ,and mujhe khush karne she may actually start roaming like a zombie in my house too
I won't say that I haven't seen submissive people, but everything has a limit. I agree she is insecure and has been considered Manhoos by everyone all her life but that doesn't means she'll continue being a doormat.
Sometimes, all you need is to find your inner strength. We aren't asking her to turn into Jhansi Ki Rani overnight, but she should at least make an attempt to fight.
Being tolerable to a limit is okay, but no woman should allow herself to be walked all over by others. It's irony to think that ppl will be happy with you if you bend down to all their wishes and allow yourself to be taken advantage of.
And no one, exactly no one teaches you to raise your voice. That's something that comes from your inner strength.
exactly..no one teaches you all this..you rise to the situation and react ,even then she had nabeel teaching her stuff but she was too busy with stars and fishes to even process what he was hinting at ...she can treat herself however the way she wants but why drag the innocent maham into your rut knowing very well the child has no one except you...for me there is no poor rumiasa ..it is like someone said poor zeeshan and poor maham ...my heart goes out to these two ...
how long does one fight for you ??
Udne Ki Aasha
Kumkum Bhagya
