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neerjashingla

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Posted: 9 years ago

#61

Originally posted by: SunHarsh4eva

yeah i am a sadist .. and no wonder i love this show like no tomorrow.. never ever i can stop talking about it .. silly me..

Sara , i agree neerja that yes fareeda kept giving her hope, but she herself saw that Asher ha snot even an ounce of feeling for her.. at leats not the way she wanted him to love her, yes he loves her a lot, as a friend and as somebody you spend your entire childhood with, you cannot abandon the person after knowing that she harbors feelings for you, that would be selfishness and rude from his part as he was never a kind of person to leave people in tragedy and despair.. he wanted to gather her emotions and actually show her that she will always be an integral part of his life, but the problem arises when he is back stabbed and his sick mother and sick sara is actually taking his humility for granted..

after studying in yales, being a 25 old, if sara needs to listen to fareeda all the time and not see through Asher and ruin his life, then she is to be blamed.. you cannot nurture your happiness by killing somebody else's happiness, you cannot win your man, by snatching someone else's man, you cannot expect him to forget his wife, when you yourself has not forgotten him..
Fareeda still has rights over Asher as she was his mother, and she still could ask Asher to move on, but sara ? i do empathy her life and her unability to forget him as its not her fault to love him but yeah why do we forget karma is a bitch and it does bite every body ...

Fareeda still got a forgiveness from Asher, but i believe had sara been alive, Asher would be very heart broken and never forgiven her, she was somebody whom he has always respect and given a higher position in his life , not because he needed her, because she needed him

Same i thought about Sara . If ever Asher knew ,she was also the part of ruining his life he would never have forgiven her and that must have broken him . The person you trusted with your life , was the reason to ruin you . Was not their be guilt also what she did to him and still he is in dark about her wctions . Yes love is called blind but when she knew that he does not love her and value just the friendship with her . I found her to be selfish . She became kind of psycho if you look at her expressions ,her eyes . Asher was kind of possession to her who she wanted to possess at any cost . She was quite intelligent , well educated woman yes without heart . Love you can't snatch ,its something which comes from within .

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Posted: 9 years ago

#62

Originally posted by: Neerjaa

Looking in the back lane of Humsafar discussion. found the link of first DT

2-- https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/zindagi-channel/4204863/humsafar-discussion-thread-2

3--- https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/zindagi-channel/4149306/humsafar-discussion-thread

So many different perspective , full of excited viewers .

some very good days .. i used to sit with my laptop eve half an hour before the episode...😆

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Posted: 9 years ago

#63

Originally posted by: Neerjaa

Same i thought about Sara . If ever Asher knew ,she was also the part of ruining his life he would never have forgiven her and that must have broken him . The person you trusted with your life , was the reason to ruin you . Was not their be guilt also what she did to him and still he is in dark about her wctions . Yes love is called blind but when she knew that he does not love her and value just the friendship with her . I found her to be selfish . She became kind of psycho if you look at her expressions ,her eyes . Asher was kind of possession to her who she wanted to possess at any cost . She was quite intelligent , well educated woman yes without heart . Love you can't snatch ,its something which comes from within .

Sara was SELFISH and Asher knew it since the beginning but he never found her to be evil or somebody who could play with his trust .. being selfish is not a crime, but being like sara, she did not deserve to die, i wish she would find happiness and move on, her life was important, her mother, Asher has always made her feel that how she deserved a better and brighter life and not a destructive one in one sided love..

it just killed me to see her die, khirad leaving Asher with that letter, khizar kameena entering Asher's office, Asher bawling and banging his head, zarina bawling over her dead daughter, Asher telling her mother how she killed his self respect and love for her.. last two episodes need serious strength , too much on emotions..and yes the actors were all so good...

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neerjashingla

@Neerjaa

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Posted: 9 years ago

#64

Originally posted by: SunHarsh4eva

Sara was SELFISH and Asher knew it since the beginning but he never found her to be evil or somebody who could play with his trust .. being selfish is not a crime, but being like sara, she did not deserve to die, i wish she would find happiness and move on, her life was important, her mother, Asher has always made her feel that how she deserved a better and brighter life and not a destructive one in one sided love..

it just killed me to see her die, khirad leaving Asher with that letter, khizar kameena entering Asher's office, Asher bawling and banging his head, zarina bawling over her dead daughter, Asher telling her mother how she killed his self respect and love for her.. last two episodes need serious strength , too much on emotions..and yes the actors were all so good...

Sara needed to move on with her life . She knew within that four- five years that she can't have Asher . That was the truth before her eyes but she still went on . So many girls ,have seen moving on with life whether married or not .

But some guilt must should have been shown when she thought of that extreme step . Asher was a big hearted person , not being guilty still went t her for forgiveness which he was not responsible .

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Posted: 9 years ago

#65

Regarding Sara, I know many ppl call her Bitch and Psycho and what not cheap words. I still sympathize and feel bad for her. She didnt deserve that suicide or the Depression she faced. I know what all she did cud not be justified, I wudnt have done it either and wud have moved on. But sumwhere as they say, Love is beyond all right wrong, black-white. I know many call her love and her Selfish, I agree wid it too. But Sumtyms, everyone does not behave like we expect them to, Do They? I mean I said, I wud have reacted diffrently if was ever placed in Khirad's Situation. Same goes wid Sara, She did not the react the way Ppl normally do with moving on and Trust Me, Its not at all EASY to get over sumone you've loved since Childhood and all the logics go in Thin Air. She destroyed Asher's life till the last heap but she didnt live peacefully either. Reaped What She Sowed and that makes you feel for her. Having said this, This is my last post on this Thread as I wont from now. Ppl just dont respect any diffrent Pov.

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Posted: 9 years ago

#66

Originally posted by: .Enchantress.
Regarding Sara, I know many ppl call her Bitch and Psycho and what not cheap words. I still sympathize and feel bad for her. She didnt deserve that suicide or the Depression she faced. I know what all she did cud not be justified, I wudnt have done it either and wud have moved on. But sumwhere as they say, Love is beyond all right wrong, black-white. I know many call her love and her Selfish, I agree wid it too. But Sumtyms, everyone does not behave like we expect them to, Do They? I mean I said, I wud have reacted diffrently if was ever placed in Khirad's Situation. Same goes wid Sara, She did not the react the way Ppl normally do with moving on and Trust Me, Its not at all EASY to get over sumone you've loved since Childhood and all the logics go in Thin Air. She destroyed Asher's life till the last heap but she didnt live peacefully either. Reaped What She Sowed and that makes you feel for her. Having said this, This is my last post on this Thread as I wont from now. Ppl just dont respect any diffrent Pov.

she is NOT a bitch .. at least i do not consider her one.. being victimized in Asher's love, well its a tragedy.. i had once told this in the previous ATs that for sara it was not even possible to forget Asher, just because he was the only man who had been different from the general ones falling for her..

there was khizar and tausif, who fell for sara and she called them cheap .. because they do not even come close to the chraisma Asher was for her.. yes how do you forget a figure who actually is somewhat so flawless and so caring ? poor girl just had the worst possible fate ever, and her only fault was that she still chose to not see through him and believe what she wanted to..

just how she could never let go Asher, how would Asher let go Khirad ? both Asher and Sara were flawed in this case, the people they have loved had brought so much happiness in their lives and given them so much that once there was a pseudo-betrayal, it was unfathomable for them, and their lives got tied in that very moment...

but she chose to see what fareeda showe dher, she did not see what Asher showed her.. i guess love is costly, and to be not loved by the person you love is much more costlier.. sara-Asher scenes are gold, i love their convos.. esp the one in the office, and the one in which he asks for sorry ..

PS- Shanaya, i hope my view on sara did not put u off, it was not intended towards you, but in general actually ..

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Posted: 9 years ago

#67

^^Sundas, How I wish sumone understood my Pov like u did and put it bfully in words. A hug for that! 🤗 Otherwise most ppl go down to degenerating her like worst possible. I agree she was wrong but then ppl need to see her Prespectives too..😊 As you said, Sara just cudnt not let go off Asher and who can or wud? Dont worry, Your takes have never put me off. 😊

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Posted: 9 years ago

#68

shanaya, your siggy of hassan.. how much beauty it is .. ohh i need to see hassan now ..🤪

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neerjashingla

@Neerjaa

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Posted: 9 years ago

#69

Originally posted by: .Enchantress.
Regarding Sara, I know many ppl call her Bitch and Psycho and what not cheap words. I still sympathize and feel bad for her. She didnt deserve that suicide or the Depression she faced. I know what all she did cud not be justified, I wudnt have done it either and wud have moved on. But sumwhere as they say, Love is beyond all right wrong, black-white. I know many call her love and her Selfish, I agree wid it too. But Sumtyms, everyone does not behave like we expect them to, Do They? I mean I said, I wud have reacted diffrently if was ever placed in Khirad's Situation. Same goes wid Sara, She did not the react the way Ppl normally do with moving on and Trust Me, Its not at all EASY to get over sumone you've loved since Childhood and all the logics go in Thin Air. She destroyed Asher's life till the last heap but she didnt live peacefully either. Reaped What She Sowed and that makes you feel for her. Having said this, This is my last post on this Thread as I wont from now. Ppl just dont respect any diffrent Pov.

We all see the things , situations ,sometimes we have seen someone going through that patch in life . Not everyone s rational where love is concerned . Sara would have moved on if only Farida would have not fed her on lies . Did she really loved her , she was just used to part of her conspiracy and hoping that she will get Asher . She just tells Farida on her face what she thinks of her and Her mother knew all along . When you look at Zarina's expression when Khirad was being abused by Fareeda, she does not seems to be happy . You can't make your aashiana on somebody's grave . I don't have any problems with Sara ,yes she turned psych in the later part . And Shanaya ,as you very well know i am not into fangiri yes like to give credit where t deserves.

IN the starting I was not much impressed with Mahira but slowly and steadily after separation she comes into her own . And for Khirad's character she was perfect .

And don't be offended . I am neutral , just wants this forum to be active and bring back the viewers .