Originally posted by: WinterAy
Plus I had 1am thoughts...on why SidDan exchanges are interesting to watch.
These two people come from two very different parts of society.
Sidg'S world is so open that he has never seen the closed off places
And for Kundan, it's exactly the opposite. His world is so closed and small that he has seen nothing, but that.
And I don't blame any of them. Sid had an upbringing with no mother and an absent father. He has never seen women doing household work. The only women he knew before were Monami and Monami's mum(or maybe not? Idk. Just assuming.) And both of them were influential to him. There was no one to tell him what's right or wrong, and thankfully, he was on the right way.
Kundan on the other hand had a fam that he has seen and learnt from his entire childhood. He has been taught to do that. Because mark it, people are never born biased or misogynistic. Their experiences influence them. Kundan has seen the women in his life work in the kitchen, take care of fam. And has been told that this is right.
And its interesting that they both are intrigued in exploring each others worlds. As for Sanj, she's at the threshold of both these worlds. To her women who work are not 'normal'. Neither are the people who support them. And that makes her all the more guilty, coz apparently, she's not 'normal'. But she likes that, and is doing what she loves- be in normal or not. And finding a as not-so-normal person as you, makes you feel a sense of belonging. That's why she's close to 'not-so-normal'people who support her- Sid, Karan, Faizi, Col. Batra.
And I hope they provide redemption to Kundan.
And yep. Sanj has the choice between the closed world where her fam's happiness lies, or the open world that she has seen glimpses of, where her own happiness lies. And boy, it's a difficult choice.