I didn't read your post completely. Sorry but I really am in a rush, just came to have a general look. I just want to say my heart went out to him when I read his facebook status update. I commented there, but I knew it would be worthless saying things that we know are not true. Yeah, everyone keeps saying it's alright, you're still the best, but when you're the one that's happening to, only you know how bad it hurts.
For me, he's lost more from this show than he's won really. Not a single super dancer of the week, having the image of an arrogant fool, not winning the super dancer of the series title. It's crushing when you know you're the best there was on that stage without any doubt. I wonder why people can't see it.
I really want him to get alright, to think that "haar ke baad hi jeet hai" I hope he really will come back with a bang, because if he doesn't deserve it from all those contestants and "celebrities", I don't know who does!
About the judges, well I don't think they were partial, and I don't know if that's the channel's decision anyway, but anyway, it was the wrong one. Siddhesh deserved that title more, period!
Edit: Just wanted to add that I obviously don't think Akshat doesn't deserve it. He's my favorite there too. But I just think Siddhesh gave more of his blood, sweat and time to this show, I can't see why he doesn't deserve it MORE!