I kept my boys quiet-Ali Asgar-New Artcl - Page 2

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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: nandan_maru



I really bow down to dmglover1//I mean seriously till now i havent seen anyone in my life...Like You....You are very much unbiased..and beeing unbiased is not easy...

And i dont know why the times in India and Pakistan and neighbouring countries are changing...I dont know why girls now a days think that handeling a home as a house wife is not doing anything great...I wonder why they think that going out and earning is great...The art of handeling a home can only be done by a women....And i respect the girls for these..They are better at mens in many sense but also..Men are better than them other sense...They both compliment each other...And none is complete without the other...

A men can never handle a home...ITs the most difficult job...As a man has a strong ego he can never listen to all at home..He cannot keep a family togather because he can never listen to all...A women can listen to all...I mean in a house she has to listen to his husband his sons his mother in law and other relatives thats not easy...

And now a days girls dont understand this as day in and out they are turning to western culture....

I mentioned this all here just to say u are just one girl who is perfect example of how a Girl should be...I dont know you but i respect such people..



this is one of the most stupid things i have ever read🤢
🤢Any person in the world can do any job he/she wants to. We as human beings are not resisted by our gender. Just cause i am a female doesn't mean i should excel in house work and not in the outside world, or my brother can only excel in the outside world and be clueless at home, their are a lot of single parents both men and women who excel in both aspects of their lives, professional and family. Men who keep their families together and women who excel in their jobs. Your theory of how women are the only ones who can handle a home cause we have the "listening genes" is beyond stupid and sexist. Borden your mind we are not living in the dark ages. We as human beings can adapt to our environment, so everyone can do anything they want, all they need to do is try. This is why God gave us a brain.

FYI their are plenty of men who listen and women who have ego's, so stop stereotyping men and women!!!

Please grow up and stop spreading you narrow minded backwards thoughts.

Edited by butterfly04 - 16 years ago
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: nandan_maru



And for nish_dmg....

Sorry there are no prujudices against...But i felt it is important to say that...Not the boys but girls who feel like you need a reality check...U are beening biased...And preety much we can say..that over protective to the stature that boys are not better than girls...And that girls are better...This is why u are so much biased...But i dont blame you beacause if people like saroj khan mallika arrora and chank pandey (A Semi Men WoMen combination) can do that than you can also..

Get a reality check just as boys cant to what girls can....Similarly Girls also can not do what boys can...They both compliment each other..They are meant to be equal...Not above or below someone...And also that equa word is a biased one...They are meant to be equal in terms of respect in society...but they are not equal and same...They are complimentry..They complete each other...What Boys cant girls can and what girls cant we boys can do....

I would frame is in this manner...If Girls are better than Men than...They would never need them...But it is not soo...WHy do they need Men than..??




i know you are trying to sound smart but you are coming out as a complete stereotyping sexist person.
Not everyone is perfect, and we all have our short comings but it has nothing to do with our gender it has to do with us personally. Each couple is different, and they find soul mates according to their needs, not some general gender stereotype. I know people where the guy can cook and clean and the girl doesn't, or where the girl is a handy women and fix anything in the house and where the guy can't. Therefore their is no set rules that say what guys and girls can excel in and what aspect they are suppose to be weak in. It all depends on the individual person.
Hmm btw did you consider gay people in your little theory ???? where men don't need women and women who don't need men!

Something to think about.!!!

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Posted: 16 years ago
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I totally agree with Ali, I think the judges robbed them of the win and robbed us of a great final. Even if the judges were fair on one of the 2 solo Bakhtyar rounds and would have righly awarded him the win (specially against Karisma) then the scores would have been tied and we would be heading for a great final round.
But unfortunately a senior person like SK could not keep her personal prejudice away and same goes for Malaika.
It is the judges which spoilt the final. If I was in the boys team, I would have still done the same but I would have not gone quietly, would have given them a piece of my mind.
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Agree with you Ali...the judges were biased throughout, especially thate first round in the finale...anyone could tell bhaktiyaar was better than karishma.. After bhaktiyaar's performance, Karishma's face was worth looking at...she looked really annoyed, and was very quite for once...i think the girls were very well shocked themselves they won that round...
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Posted: 16 years ago
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@butterfly04 - Concur with what you had to say! You said it all.

Funny, that the one statement BHaktiyar made about overconfidence and underestimating your opponent in one of the earliest episodes is what he seemed to have failed to put into action, for he certainly did underestimate. 300 pts for a bet was a disastrous move, no matter how cool you can dance or how confident you are! He is a good dancer , but certainly not the best. Dance is not all about getting the moves and breaking the damn floor, but there is a lot more to it and for me personally, bhaktiyaar never impressed as a dancer except that he got the 'steps' right!

It takes a lot to appreciate the talent of your opponent and well on ZND boys lacked that , except for Vikas and Karan ( the host ) who did appreciate it when given a chance or that certainly came to notice!

NO offence to anyone else. None intended at all.
Edited by sareeta - 16 years ago

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