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Posted: 17 years ago
#61

Originally posted by: Posh23ash

I can't believe some of you still think the boys are right. The boys have huge huge egos and they think they are always right as Bakthyar confirmed today but they are not. They wouldn't have had so many members on the bench if they were right. And no it was not all against Mouni.....Ashita and Karishma sent boys to the bench too. The boys are keep saying how they have to put such an effort to dancing and all that and then pretend they are so great when they really are not yet they always get great points. The judges are very biased with the boys. I esp. hate how they give the girls lower points then the boys in the HumTum round. Give me a break.....if not more then atleast equal points.

The fact is, the girls are a better, smarter and more considerate team then the boys.

hey Posh23ash I don't think it's a question of right or wrong, but about saying somethings repeatedly in a sarcastic manner. The boys have such ego hassles between themselves and that is why their team does not even stand out as a team to many. I think girls do have a better strategy, which explains their constant lead. Also I'm glad boys won lagi bet last week, now it finally seems like a competition point wise because if it was left to the judges they would just continue with their biased judging towards the boys.
I do also think the girls have been unfairly dealt with in Hum Tum rounds!😳
Shweta
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Posted: 17 years ago
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shweta i do not think at any point of time i referred to your comments or anybody else's in particular as being blind fidelity. it was a general remark if you notice and a conscious effort on my part not to quote any particular post just to avoid this particular allegation. do you really deny the existence of these said cliques, which hamper sensible debate on this form? it is the primary reason for my disappearance.
yesterday was an exception as far as points were concerned and trust me i think the girls deserved getting more than the boys in the jhoom round yesterday. however if one chooses to charge the judges with bias during the performance round, then one cannot deny the same bias in the challenge round. because all said and done, that is what they have been asked to do. if i am not very wrong here, they probably even put it to vote between the two teams. which round would you rather come off better in. it is a reality show, not really real is it? i sincerely believe that vikas needed to go to the penalty bench for his travesty in the name of kathak, but in the same breath i will also say that his jazz was better than ashita's. and before it is questioned, yes, i do know my dance and am also sufficiently trained to comment.
i thought yesterday the girls were particularly nasty with their very personal attacks on the boys' married lives. but i didn't see the boys get all defensive. they took it in the right spirit. once again, not denying bakhtiyar's cocky attitude, am not a fan. but well, after 8 weeks, his attitude was pretty clear and therefore the intention of the host was to create a fracas and sensationalize, which is why he questioned bakhtiyar in the first place. looks like his purpose was realised...and how!!
i still don't say its unfair to send mouni so often. hell, she's their best and there's no rule forbidding it. all i am questioning is whether or not it is commendable and worthy of praise. two separate things na? what is not illegal need not be commendable either. and i squarely placed blame on the format, not the girls. they are merely taking advantage of a relevant loophole.
the whole team issue i will refrain from commenting on. because obviously our opinions differ, but i respect yours and not sure if mine will be respected just as much.
and i think the forum in general would be a much happier place if only everybody made courtesy their mantra and not take difference of opinion so personally. is it actually possible for two people to have the same ideas always? and yes, those in the minority have as much a right to say what's on their minds as do the others who enjoy popular opinion.
thanks shweta.
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Edited by vaarti - 17 years ago
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Posted: 17 years ago
#63
Thank you Shweta di
I dont think I need to say anymore after seeing how people demean other members and their ability to formulate opinions
Good Night!
Edited by gaganjotsooch - 17 years ago
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Posted: 17 years ago
#64
Shweta and Gagan 🤗
I had no idea you lot were having such an intricate discussion on a topic as delicate as this one. ha ha
I do share very similar opinion but there are certain things which I don't agree with. One is regarding the boys team spirit. I on the other hand think that their team spirit is highly commendable, they show a lot of unity in whatever they do and that is definitely applaudable (at least for me). However, saying that doesn't mean that girl's team is any less in terms of team spirit and unifying factor. I'd rather say that boys show a sense of immaturity at times due to which their team feelings and emotions get displayed in a better way to the audience. The girls on the other hand do not display those emotions much (i.e. on camera) due to which their concern and team work gets ignored at times.
Regarding the whole Manish fiasco, I found it quite annoying and immature on Manish's part to behave in that way. It was quite sad the way he behaved knowing that his team members were doing whatever was best for them. The show isn't about a single person whether they are from boys side or girls side, its about the entire team and that's what they should think about. Instead od blaming the boys team (excluding Manish), I would cause Manish responsible for whatever misunderstandings and discussions that happened between them.
My hand hurts...................shweettttttaaaaaaa.......and gaggu..............missed you both yaar. 🤗
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Posted: 17 years ago
#65

well, shweta, i accept your explanation to why you reacted to my comment on cliques and all i want is for you not to take it personally, if you haven't, am glad.

we will agree to disagree on ashita-vikas. each to his own and i respect your choice here.
as for the comments, yes, thats exactly what am saying. that these comments go back and forth and no is excluded from the nastiness of it all. except perhaps chaitanya who is by far the quietest and also the sweetest. eeeeeeps!!
can every strategy that passes the legal test and help one be termed be commendable? if that be the case, rules and laws in our country wouldn't be constantly revised. it is not always black and white. there is a grey area between fair and commendable.
again shweta, when i said i didn't think my opinion would be respected, i was not referring to you at all. but since you ask, here it is. i think the guys feel more team spirit because each one is prepared to put his neck on the line, face the fire during the khallas round. while the girls fire from behind the strong fort in the form of mouni who is almost unbeatable.
yuou say you think you know where my comments or feelings come from. is there the faintest chance that you may wrong here? because you have admitted you do not know me at all, so knowing where my comments from should be just as unlikely right? however if i am wrong here and you do indeed know the basis for my remarks, then i apologise beforehand.
honestly shweta, if courtesy cannot be expected from all, neither should concordance with popular opinion. what is sauce for the goose is sauce for the gander. and every difference in opinion can be amicably resolved or left unresolved if there is just that element of mutual respect and devolving the personal.
Edited by vaarti - 17 years ago
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Posted: 17 years ago
#66



i agree that,mouni performed in khallas round three times, but almost every time baktiyer is performing in lagi bet round.because he is the best dancer of the boys team, he got the hisghest number of chance to perform in ZND, what will u say about that?? nobody never said anything about that not even girls team.... when boys are sending someone frequently that doesn't matter, but it matters when girls send someone 3times in a round!!!! strange!!!

and about good team, u should see 'andar ki baat'... till i haven't seen any problem between any girls... good team not only means how they performe but it also mean how they stay together... not only by seeing ander ki baat but also anyone can say by seeing ZND how good the boys team is!!
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Posted: 17 years ago
#67

Originally posted by: pyaridilwalino

I always know you are there to support the truth...hum dikhava thordi na karte aa! 😉 ROFL!!!🤣🤣 God, I wish Sarah reads this!🤣🤣🤣



@Aarti: Nice to see you here yaar.....As always, loved reading your well put forward thoughts...without any of the 'bias' that I alas seem to have fallen prone to😉😆😆




Edited by nureat01 - 17 years ago
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Posted: 17 years ago
#68
anu, it was nice to return briefly...and thanks so much. i don't think we'd be human if we didn't occasionally succumb to bias. and deny it as much as we want, all of us inherently nurse a soft spot for someone or something. cannot be helped....
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Posted: 17 years ago
#69
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muaaaaaahhhhhhhhhh!!!

i like the boys, coz i think they are generally more sporting about the whole thing and except for bakhtiyar who sometimes gets full of himself, are generally more aware of the fact that this is a game/competition and not a real blood and gore fight. there may be instances of fallout in the boys team as well, but i think by and large the boys look far more at ease even when they are losing and look like they are enjoying themselves.
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Posted: 17 years ago
#70
shonzie my loveeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee!!
oh yes most definitely the boys (except bakhtiyar) are much better losers. i don't recall a time when any of the boys questiond the judges decision like karishma did after that blind mime act by delnaaz and rupali (who annoys me and grates on my nerves!). they may pass the occasional remark after accepting the decision, but well, whats a reality show if not for the drama.
i personally feel every word is scripted. the points, the graph of the teams' performances, everything. watch the girls run themselves into trouble and then rise spectacularly at the end, when the show ends in a tie with the famous words the battle of the sexes an never be resolved, and we should all understand that aadmi ke bina aurat adhuri, aurat ke bina aadmi adhura. god put one of each kind in the world only because they are equally significant and have each their roles to play!!
am willing to bet on this end....

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