Re-living YRHPK journey // Episodic Discussion Thread 2 - Page 63

Originally posted by: Onyourface

Hey manju ji 😃🤗😆 thank you for the warm welcome yaara 😆 happy to relive the old memories again with u guys ..I might get a new perspective to AM story with all the discussions ☺️

Underline - I actually agree with your post that during haldi time their love wasn't that intense hence abir's mistake seems to be bigger one than mishti's if we see in that perspective ....also I expected more from abir when it comes to dealing with meenu's manipulation 😆😆 but meenu targeted his weak point - nanko ...and abir just couldn't find a way out and went into shades zone 🤔😆 that too for an indefinite period if mishti hadn't pushed him to extremes m not sure how much time he would have taken to come out of that zone...even mish was in a depressed state in london ...numb and direction less but she was lucky she found a confidant in nannu and whatever it might be , she figured a way back to abir's life😳

however I feel there were no unsaid feelings because their love confession had already happened by then ( the day when kuku's rishta got fixed , abir proposed mishti and she reciprocated infact mishti even planned a filmy bus proposal for abir later on ) so haan there were said feelings at that time too ..and I can also say that the love confession that day was itself a promise for a lifetime..I see it that way ...😳...

Also too early to discuss this but haan what I really admired in both the incidents ( haldi and break up) is that none of them had any bitter feelings for each other or showed unnecessary tashan or ego for leaving each other ..it was actually surprising and pleasant though the *understanding* phase was lost post marriage and AM had a emotionally toxic married phase to be honest ...otherwise yes I also blame the writing especially the way they ended the post leap break up track ..itna sab kiya only to let nannu get a clean chit in the end ...🤔😆

Sorry for another long essay 🤣 I am sure you won't mind ...

Not at all like I said, keep'em coming.

Bold and italic - yup I get that. I was more upset to see his beautiful promises and vows broken. Incidentally found below clip where he boasted of how he will fight for his love

https://twitter.com/mishbirloops/status/1323297576292999168?s=19

And I think he did to a large extent. We will discuss more on this as we get to those episodes.

Bold - can't agree more. I felt so proud of their trust in their love so many times. Even PTSD had some good scenes from abir's side. But magazine track ruined it

Originally posted by: suryavni

I totally don't understand the whole GPS thingy...

Seriously she manages to home into Abir in matter of minutes and where was this ability when the Karan fiasco happened..

Yup the epic 1% chance theory won many a hearts...

Paragliding was their second outdoor shoot I think..

Family good

Mom thode khadoos but giving an impression of being straight forward..

Bhai ..bhi ...good..😆

Toh from BM point of view Mishti is going to get a good life..

But ignoring or giving an impression of understanding Kuhu but not really much concerned about her was bad on her part.

And they haven't even asked Mishti if she wants to get married..

And who the hell marries off their girls at 21 yrs.. studies continue Karthe ..abroad jaate..kuch bhi...bachon ki Shaadi..

The first hug...

Rhea looked like a kid ..😆

Chota packet..!!

And about the novel anology..a slight disagreement..

Of course we don't know what comes in the next page of the novel we have selected to read..

But selection of the genre should be in our hands..

Horror ya feel good books😆

Abir manofying mishty to give Kunal a chance with Meenu as Kaajal OD Dragon saas is definitely horror..!!

Bold - hahahahaha 🤣🤣 Good one surya ...I wish mishti ne yeh baat abir se boli hoti 🤣 tumne book ka genre toh nahi bataya tha lekin 😆

Originally posted by: Onyourface

Haan this was something I didn't understand about BM ...mishti wasn't at fault with whatever naman did so why the hiding at first place.......and rajvanshs are hypocrite themselves...they expect mahs to be 100% transparent about the girls but were totally silent on their so called raaz 😆

Lol yeah RJVs win hands down in hypocrisy! Meenu was outraged about Mishti’s dad being a criminal but what about her husband, Abinal’s dad Mehul’s crimes? And his 2nd wife plus illegitimate son Kunal? People living in glass houses etc etc.....😆
BM was like kisi bhi tarah Se Mishti ka background chhupakar uski shadi kar dengey toh Mishti will be safe from Naman! But what about bigger danger Meenu? Mishti would be jumping from frying pan into the fire

Originally posted by: Sumaiya27

BM was definitely overlooking kuhu's feelings and was only concerned about mishti here. but then again she didn't even ask about mishti's opinion

When abir was telling mishti about the 1% chance and novel etc, was he referring to mishnal rishta or strictly talking about the paragliding? I'm still confused about that

I think usko kisi ki padi nahi thi 😆 Abir's aim was very clear ...he wanted a partner for paragliding as kunal refused to join him 😆he knew mish is a tough nut to crack by then , so he had to be good with his words to convince her 😆 I feel he was strictly referring to adventure ride and general things in life ...mish was going through a confused state and took all the motivations to give a chance to rishta 🤣🤣

Originally posted by: m4manju

Not at all like I said, keep'em coming.

Bold and italic - yup I get that. I was more upset to see his beautiful promises and vows broken. Incidentally found below clip where he boasted of how he will fight for his love

https://twitter.com/mishbirloops/status/1323297576292999168?s=19

And I think he did to a large extent. We will discuss more on this as we get to those episodes.

Bold - can't agree more. I felt so proud of their trust in their love so many times. Even PTSD had some good scenes from abir's side. But magazine track ruined it

Yeah I can understand all those big promises that abir made to BP and mishti were all broken and I also understand why audience had bigger expectations from abir...usme tha woh potential to keep those promises but he couldn't or writers didnt let him to ...I so wished AM planned a fake break up to fool meenu 😆😳...haha yeh clip ...I think it was from kuku's haldi phase where mish was totally confused on what to do after getting meenu's dhamki and in a way she was trying to find her answers through abir ...baaki we will discuss when that phase comes 👍🏼

Haan magazine track and surrogacy track ...senseless and unreasonable lag raha tha abir ...🤪

Originally posted by: pallavi25

Lol yeah RJVs win hands down in hypocrisy! Meenu was outraged about Mishti’s dad being a criminal but what about her husband, Abinal’s dad Mehul’s crimes? And his 2nd wife plus illegitimate son Kunal? People living in glass houses etc etc.....😆
BM was like kisi bhi tarah Se Mishti ka background chhupakar uski shadi kar dengey toh Mishti will be safe from Naman! But what about bigger danger Meenu? Mishti would be jumping from frying pan into the fire

That too very thin glass 🤣🤣 In a way I am happy mishti in turn gets to know all of meenu's raaz all at once 😆 the girl is too nice ...she never used anything of it to insult meenu and show the place..infact she used this as a bridge to connect meenu and abir

Bm lives in her own lala land 😆 from her giving loads of money to naman to trying her best to hide naman truth from meenu ...even for kuhu...BM varsha and jas were sceptical about revealing kuhu's birth truth...meenu got a opportunity to use everything against them 🤣 later on life played her 😆

Originally posted by: Onyourface

Sorry was going through the thread to see what sort of discussions were going here 😆 And couldn't hold myself after reading few comments...I hope I can participate a little here 😛😊

Bold - that is because you haven't seen the whole journey from kuku haldi track to the break up day , the phase which is real base of mishbir love story ..and that's why its very difficult to understand the situation of AM post leap...

Mishti is someone who has high regards for abir for understanding her stand not once but twice that too without her having to make efforts to explain the situation to him ....there is practically no one in her life before who could do that to her and thats why she had that special corner for him ab isko desperation keh lo ya phir kuch aur , one such incident was when abir brings spectacles for her and second one was when her whole family was against her during kuku haldi and it was abir who saw through her facade and and not only he didn't attend her brother's wedding to bring her back from the airport , he did understand the manipulation she went through because of his mother , he confessed his feelings for her and sorted the matter for BP and gave a befitting reply to meenu ....for her that was an ultimate thing he did that too without having any kind of expectations from him at that time...in for life also I guess it's a common thing we start developing high regards for someone who unexpectedly becomes our saviour....thats also one of the reasons mishti wanted to help abir in finding his baba .

When this whole baba thing happened...and mishti was going to London, before boarding her flight she met meenu and the conversation gave a clear idea that she somewhere sensed that meenu has manipulated abir to go for break up , she always knew that was not abir's own words or decisions and he was mentally forced to do this there is something more to the whole story she always knew but instead of concentrating on the real reason for break up , her plan was to bring abir on terms first and make him confess the truth on his own , and for that she did what she felt ( the jealousy attack ) which according to me was morally wrong but then I wouldn't expect anything more sensible from MishNish jodi 😆 both of them are over thinkers and not long term thinkers I say and that's why the plan badly backfired 😆...but the plan still worked cuz in the end abir was ready to take matters on hand and reveal the birth truth to kunal after which he would sort out things with mishti and give another chance to that broken relationship, had that drink fiasco not happened...AM would have sorted it out all themselves 😆 Khair drama khatam ho jaata usse lekin 😆

Anyway my main point, during haldi track..mish was manipulated by meenu and she left the hope of their relationship, abir understood it all and tied up loose ends for them, I felt during break up time ...it was abir's chance to get manipulated by meenu and tables turned..it was mishti who understood abir and tied up loose ends for him 😳

Though the whole phase couldn't teach them that it wasn't right to take the entire decision of a love relationship single handedly without sharing real reasons with your partner 😆 that was the biggest flaw of the whole AM story ...😆...both try to be leaders and then expect the other one to follow without making then know the whole truth 😆 they hardly take joint decisions

Anyways I hope Maine zyada lamba essay nahi likha 😛 I m so missing having discussions on AM and the show itne din se nahi likha na toh aaj zyada hi likh diya 🤣

I love your viewpoint and thank you fir bringing it out

Originally posted by: Onyourface

I think usko kisi ki padi nahi thi 😆 Abir's aim was very clear ...he wanted a partner for paragliding as kunal refused to join him 😆he knew mish is a tough nut to crack by then , so he had to be good with his words to convince her 😆 I feel he was strictly referring to adventure ride and general things in life ...mish was going through a confused state and took all the motivations to give a chance to rishta 🤣🤣

abir is very smart 🤣 bechari mishti fas gayi 🤣

Originally posted by: pallavi25

25 is okay, in our times it was 23, at least my mom thought 23 is the best age to get girls married 😆

But 21, 18, 19, 20 all too young. Post graduation bhi nahin hota phir!

Some American girls have no ambition and marry their high school boyfriend at 19 after graduating high school. Those marriages don’t end up well I’ve seen

I agree, anything below 23 is too young for girls..at least my parents and I are on the same page on this 😆

Originally posted by: pallavi25

Bold: 🤣 So true! Selection of the novel should be in our hands! But Mishti never got that option to select her story or her groom. Or the Horror novel ka Dragon saas (she ended up with her anyway😆)

Age 21 was too young for marriage even in our times. But this PH is quite backward in their mentality and in conventional Marwari or Gujarati families I guess they still get their daughters married off very early, sons too....Even Kunal, which boy gets married at 23-24 nowadays?

The PH was so keen on getting characters married early because they laid all their tracks around weddings or wedding events 😆 even in the PS, they had so many weddings. Unfortunately they didn't have parallel leads like kuku so the lead couple kaira got married to each other a billion times 😆