Hola people!
Ok so I watched yesterday and today's episode back to back and my brain is highly overloaded now and I am getting Out Of Memory exception 
Reboot karke fir se dekh na padega tab thoda aur samajh main aayega. These days episodes are like onions, need to be watched multiple times to peel different layers and understand them
Sorry no gifs today as kuch material hai nahin aaj ... the story is quite intriguing at the moment but it feels like a 1000 piece puzzle 😆It will take time to put together and compartmentalize it in our minds, let alone solve it fully!
Our show is definitely so much more meaningful than many other run of the mill shows out there! Makes you want to think and analyse!
Episodes ko baar baar dekho aur analyze karo! And every time you learn something new! Kitna homework karva te hai yeh writers humse yaar! Feel like I am in school again 
😆
Anyways now the episode...
BM-BP are introspecting if they failed as parents!
Looking at how perfect Abir and Kunal have turned out as siblings and how disfunctional the sisters relation is, BP is on a self doubt mission.
BP is also wondering in disbelief if Meenu's controlling ways are the way to raise children than to go softer on them and be their friends!
Mah parents fail toh huve hai... just like Varsha always thinks and keeps Kuhu first and ahead of Mishti, BP-BM must have had Mishti as their first priority than Kuhu. And Varsha always overcompensated that by pampering Kuhu more making her feel more entitled than Mishti in the process... Aur Jas toh hai hi apna special tadka lagane ke liye!
On top of that, sisters were hiding their differences well and their parents only saw and believed what they wanted to and did not even think to focus on the reality...
From my own example, there have been times when I have found my own analysis of my daughter's feelings to certain events to be totally opposite of how she actually felt - of course after she clearly spelt them out to me... but if she hadn't my assessment would have been wrong in those instances.
What to do, parenting is hard as is and there is no manual for it! You learn as you go and even then you make mistakes!
Sad to see BP-BM regretting their failure as parents...
And who would have thought Meenu will prove to be a better parent one day with her over controlling ways!
Meenu as usual was in her element today too! She is 100% right that if Mishti and Kuhu had to run the household, together, like Meenu and Parul did, they would not be able to... All those who were wondering from the early earring days what issue she had with Mishti-Kuhu (waise Kuhu ke liye woh dimaag pe jyada zor nahin daalti) being her bahus then this is the answer.. she was afraid of what is happening now, brothers drifting away from home, no control and anushashan and her house becoming wild wild west! That is why she did not want them as bahus in her house!
Meenu toh aajkal sixer pe sixer maar rahi hai! She is to be proving better in every department
Bahus ko di barah ghante ki mohalat
To get their bhagode husbands to Palat
Agar firse woh dono ho gayi galat
Toh phir baithegi Meenu ki Adalat
Waise I must confess, she is one character I am consistently enjoying these days! Screen pe aate hi taaliya bajane ka mann karta hai! She is so powerful, kitna screen presence hai aur uski baatein mujhe ekdum clearly samajh main aa jati hai unlike all others jo dil main aate hai par samjah main nahin! Dimaag pe no kasht, totally clear
What you hear is what you get types
Anyways so now we have baccha competition! Who can be mommy first!
The moment Varsha and Jas heard BM talk to Abir about his family planning, ek soch main pad gayi aur dusri planning main lag gayi! I am surprised Kuhu didn't start laughing hysterically when Jas and Varsha asked her to start thinking about baccha and family planning out of the blue
Wahan husband ghar se bhaag gaya hai and won't come back till the sisters resolve their issues and here they are asking her to plan for a baccha... arre why don't you ask her to do some self introspection on the events that transpired! Why don't you ask her beta issue kya hai, kyun takleef hai itni Mishti se?
But no... instead we have mission baccha two!
Waise aaj ke episode main maine sabse jyada number Kunal ko diye for giving my kaleja much needed thandak!
He said Kuhu is 95% responsible for the fight! Finally, someone said it! 
The way 95% of guilt trips that Mishti is being made to go on concerning this fight, finally someone acknowledged what the normal janta thinks! And thank god, no one, especially Abir corrected him! Small tiny mercies! Bhagwanji kripa banaye rakhna
Poor Kunal, was even ready to say sorry to Abir going forward on behalf of Kuhu every time she creates a new siyappa to keep peace in the house!
Waise Kuhu se koi main bol raha to work on making amends with Mishti. I guess Kunal ne text main Shayad bola tha. Otherwise woh toh abhi bhi la la land main hi hai 🤔
But Kunal ki ek baat samajh main nahin aayi! Raat ko andhere main kyun kaam kar raha tha! Aur Mah house ke darwaze wide open at night?! Kundi bhi nahin lagate, wow! Rajkot bada safe hai yaar?!
So Mishti sneaked out like her angry chorni days in her jumpsuit, manages to dodge her devarji and lands in her room only to find pillows instead of Mr.Rajvansh as he was gearing up to sneak out to meet her at RV house! BP had communicated to Abir earlier that Meenu ki adalat is due in kuch hi ghante... Bail ki arji de de bhai aur biwi ko sadko pe aane se bachale!
So they meet 
Abir tells Mishti that he would not let Meenu throw them out... accha, toh kya exactly plan hai? Hotel main rooms book kiye hai kya? Do separate ones karna varna...
Jokes apart MishBir scene in the room was quite touching and sad actually. Abir is missing Angry Chorni who was his friend first. And Mishti confesses that she came here to fight with him but no longer wants to and that she has now realized that Abir was right about the sisters fight coming in their way of happiness...
The way I understand it is... Abir decided to leave the house and is still refusing to budge and come home is to drive his point home to Mishti that she needs to not just acknowledge that there are issues between the sisters but to understand and accept the gravity of the issues and the enormity of it's repercussions! That the fights are affecting not just them but also him, Kunal and both their family and will also affect their next generation if something is not done to fix their equation.
The sisters have always been in denial and pretend things are okay between them in front of the family. Abir and kunal left the house and thought that girls will take this as a serious matter and try and solve it. But this time too, the sisters first plan of action was to pretend! They brought the doll house and did the little drama to fool the family as usual except it didn't work this time! Abir saw through it and caught them and it pissed him even more that instead of working on accepting that yes, this issue is too big to ignore, it is affecting my husband and family and I must work on fixing it, his wife just decided to fool him!
What he wants from Mishti is to no longer be in denial and treat the fights so casually like how she did in the past and pretend that everything is awesome!
He wants Mishti to accept that the sisters fights is a big hindrance to their current and future happiness and has to be dealt with. Because he thinks that once Mishti accepts then only she will do something to fix it! The key was the acceptance first - which Mishti accepted today and told Abir that she understands the importance now and wants to work on it! And Abir told her that she is his angry chorni and he is confident that she will find the solution to fix it now that she has accepted it.
Coming to the precap...
Why do these girls walk and not use cars and who in their right mind walks in the heart on a deserted road on high heels is something I will not understand, so leaving that aside. So Abir and family didn't believe that Kuhu's foot got injured.. okay... so did you try sending a mass picture of the giant log suddenly tapaking from aasman and fall on Kuhu's foot to all the family? Hmmmm.. sorry drama chahiye toh logic thodi derr bhool jate hai. But why give Mishti such dialogues "main tumhe kuch nahin hone dungi"! Chaa, please don't show me the non-existent love between the sisters! Some people just don't get along and that's alright!
Anyways.. so is Mish pregnant and is going to lose/miscarry the baby while being Hercules in trying to free Kuhu's leg from the log? Hope they don't show something like that and send Abir on a guilt trip 
Anyways hope not!
I guess the accident in precap will definitely help the sisters case in ending the fight. Mumbo-Jumbo, sisters love each other Deep down. Family guilty over not helping. Case closed for now...
Othwerwise Mishti aur Abir ko yeh samajh main nahin aa raha how to solve it. Hum jaise velle log with overactive brains ko bhi samajh nahin aa raha ki exactly ho kya raha he aur hona kya chahiye!
Toh I am pinning all my hopes on India ki aam TRP janta, asha hai unko sab samajh main aa jaye aur woh bas TRP dede!
If I were to be honest, the looming TRP threat is not letting me enjoy the show as much as I should right now... otherwise the story is quite interesting!
