YRHPK Live Updates/Episode Discussions 16 Jul 2020 - Page 29

Originally posted by: Mimzy

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Kuhu ko taane maare bina tujhe toh toh work pe concentrate hi nahi kar pa rahi hogi na??😆

Ab hogayi quota complete .....acche se kaam kar😆

Jo hukum mere aaka..🙏

What r u saying mini.🤤. me aur taane.. na baba na.. 😞😞

Originally posted by: yrhpk_aus

Thankyou Mini🤗

Beautifully summarised both the perspectives there👏👍🏼. I completely agree with both you and Diyu. I understand this situation is very complicated and sensitive.

Arey you are the one who wrote it beautifully. Mental health is something that is seriously ignored in this show. I hope they dnt ruin this track like they did with Nannu's addiction track

Originally posted by: Jayu_Bangalore

Bold-😕😆

Mere comments toh ghise pite hote hei. I am dying to read ur sarcastic as well as funny comments.I missed you yaar.

So lockdown mei kya kiya???? N how is life treating u now? meri toh puri barbaad hei re... aur jyada ghar pe rahi toh mujhe Aagra ke paga khana jana padega.😒

Ohh....please I love reading your posts. Meri frustrations jo mein express kar paata tum toh apni posts mein beautifully express karte ho.....I used to feel so good after reading your posts. Staright to the core ...seedhi baat no bakwas....😆

Lockdown mein toh....I am in a chinese/korran series marathon.....patah nahi kya khaaya....bas aise hi dekhthi rehthi hun......kam tension bhi hain compared to our Meenu aur Kuhu ki taane aur plotting se.....😆Oyee....thank god I am not at home....ab jaise halath hain.....mein toh pagal khaane mein admit hota...agar ghar par hoti tho😆

Originally posted by: yrhpk_aus

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haha kitne points hue diyu aur mere? 😆 Would love to see you b-ball skills too...do write your thoughts down too

haan pura server adn website crash hogayi🤣

U both are at 1-1 . Naah iss baar b-ball nahi khelungi......iss baar mein popcorn lekar baitungi aur chill karungi.......😆

Originally posted by: piyasingh

Jo hukum mere aaka..🙏

What r u saying mini.🤤. me aur taane.. na baba na.. 😞😞

🙏Maaf kardo .....mujhe galti se mistake hogayi😆

Originally posted by: ruhi19

diyu yar...why every one are forgetting mishti suffered panik attacks for 2 years when her father truth came out and even i remember jas words to varsha... we have been adjusted and been careful infront of her , in matter of words, because we dont know which will effect her and which will not. hume kuhud ghar pe dusro ko jaise behave karna pada taaki mishti ko bura na lage...

B:may be jas referred to this incident only... like how all MAH are not ok in their house when mishti got panik attacks...

the way abir is handling mishti is really commandable, he is giving what she wants but never leaving her... he is doing his best as he cant trust anyone in RJV and as MAH are not available he ahs to wait or BB and kuhu hain hi to make this truth come out and torture her and abuse her...

Mmmm i get your point ruhi... my main fear is meenu doing the same what she did with parul, sending mish to jail, she wont hesitate to do that or instigate kuhu to do that... we saw how everyone supported kuhu today but if it was mish we know how they will react... so only i dont want mishbir to confess to family in haste...

Originally posted by: Jayu_Bangalore

Hey Mishti's family means only BP and BM... AUR KOI NAHI..... No way...

haa this i agree even i want bm mainly with mish, she has already handled mish in such situation, but mish is not ready to face them, did you see how she runs away but she is ready to confess to police, i hope abir just makes her strong to face family i mean bp/bm.... before meenu or kuhu can find else it will be like maasi situation unplanned action against mish...

Originally posted by: Onyourface

After reading all the posts here and watching the episode myself , I would definitely describe the pointers in detail later , but would like to say one thing here

It is true and it is the law of karma that none of your karma remains hidden, one fine day we need to face fruits of your karma , if we don't want them to ...what abir is trying to do is just put a band aid on her wounds asking to forget her everything and keep it a secret all her life, benba also wanted to forget baba and erase him from her life, tried every possible way to keep abir away from her , but the more she tried , the more abir started going far from her , one day her fears came true when baba re entered their lives, and she couldn't do anything to stop his son , she couldn't convince that she was right and baba was wrong why ? Because abir couldn't trust her after the building of lies she made to hide her secret , this is what happens what truths aren't revealed and healed on time, relationships fall off, people drift away and don't mend things , sometimes all their life they live in miseries, abir and meenu's relationship is suffering because of those lies , that's why even in case of genuine concerns , benba is never able to approach abir and take him into confidence , because her secret came out in a wrong way

By hiding mishti's secret , abir is starting to do the same mistake

1. Asking mishti to just forget is like delete old files to recycle and make new one , or to put it in a simpler manner , erase memories and make new ones, but our brain and emotions don't work like a computer, the memories get restored, with the effects of PTSD , mishti is getting the sense of overwhelming guilt which is increasing every day, she is collapsing she wants to tell the world what happened, she wants the world to know she wasn't at fault , she wants to let it out, but she does not have the courage to do so , the more she hides , the more she will drift away from herself, everyone criticised abir when he let the coffee matter go and asked mishti to forget it why? Because we all know that certain things are not supposed to be hidden , others should know what happened. Abir is taking extremely good care of her , trying to bring her out of this , making sure he is there with her every moment, but you can't put a blond fold on eyes and believe that everything is rosy and no one is watching, mishti's real healing is giving her a platform to speak her mind and prove tmo the world that she is innocent , that will heal her , others believing her or not is a different issue, but she should rightly be given a chance to prove her innocence , abir should start thinking of long term strategies here

2.If the raaz comes out in the worst possible way, mishti will be in a similar position as benba was when baba came back , benba was innocent but abir was never able to trust her , no one will trust mishti because they are anyways not even fond of her , rajvansh parivaar will still accept abir back because woh toh apna khoon hai in the end but mishti will again struggle to get her acceptance unless and until this track can change benba's or kuhu's thought process towards mishti

Varun is here for his brother's revenge , he made it very clear his family is most important to him !!

The dirty game of bringing the truth out begins,

In my opinion , the episode was fantastic!

Ab benba ka kitna involvement hai isme , yeh dekhna hai 🤣

wow wow guruji such an amazing post... i seriously never thought in this angle... totally getting your point yaar.... 👏🤗 thoda clear hua mera dimaag n now i see things more clearly.. 😳

in morning in a haste i couldnt say what i actually wanted... uru i agree mishbir should open up which is eventually gonna happen but just think of the 2 incidents kunal truth coming out n maasi being jailed... in first one both maasi n abir were prepared to say truth n even though it came out in a wrong way they were ready to handle but still it almost took kunal life, and second one no one was prepared for that it was as if everyone lost the way, until abir was able to clear his mind n find solution with mish help... now this situation is a combination of both... i too agree that they have to say but the timing n also the mindset which both mishbir are in will only complicate things...

i didnt like what abir is doing with family just trying to cover up for mishti n today too he blantly blabbered about meenu blaming mishti just to divert her when mish was almost caught by meenu, and also exposing pills in haste, requesting meenu to keep kuhu away, if this continues it wont be long before meenu does something...

rather than just protecting mish he should think of how to handle this, he needs to dig more into the incident which happened, atleast be prepared to say the family like in kunal case, else like in maasi case after its exposed they will be blank n meenu wont hesitate to send mish behind bars or instigate kuhu to do so n varun being involved no one is gonna support mishbir as he is the damad of the house... so before saying to family they need to be clear in head i.e abir has to be n mishti will automatically get her strength from him... but now just saying everything in haste without being prepared is gonna result in worse...

and i dont know if its a good idea to involve bp/bm... everything is so complicated...

and today we saw how family let go of coffee kand but i dont think same will happen for mishti case...

i just hope abir starts looking beyond just protecting mishti n try to bring a solution to this... i so wish kunal was here or atleast naanu, the latter would've found something is wrong by seeing abir itself n helped him out in someway....

i dont know if i have conveyed what i wanted hope you get my point 😳

Originally posted by: yrhpk_aus

Thankyou diyu😊

I didn't think of it this deeply in this way. It makes much more sense now👍🏼

But like you said @Bold: that is exactly why I wrote my iniital post for Abir. I was just emotional and sad for Mishbir in general🥺💔

Originally posted by: yrhpk_aus

Very good point yaar Diyu

Thankyou for explaining this out. My post was just a emotional reaction I had, predicting what the horrible end result will be for both Mishti and Abir if and when the truth comes out unplanned and suddenly.

@Bold: I totally understand what you mean. I didn't think of it so deeply. Learned something today

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I actually get what you n uru and everyone are saying nandu and you are right... but i think i expressed the precautions to be taken before saying everything to family.... morning in haste i couldnt write properly...

my main fear is meenu instigating or herself putting mish behind bars like she did with parul, she wont hesitate to do so and if mishbir are unprepared for all this before saying to family then they will be left blank like in parul maasi case, here putting mish behind bars is gonna worsen her condition... atleast she should be mentally prepared to face this... rather than trying to protect mish abir should concentrate on preparing her to face the family....

this is what i wanted to say but just blabbered something😆

Originally posted by: yrhpk_aus

Badi Ma (please aap reel Badi Ma ko call kar ke, mishbir ke liye bulao na please)

These little little things Abir is doing for her (for them) is soo cute. Husband goals

Such a big hypocrisy The writers have messed up big time

aww even i want reel bm back yaar miss her so much 🤗

haayee hayee mujhe bhi abir chahiye please...

definitely i didnt expect this yaar, they have messed up her character so much its too dificult to return back..

Originally posted by: Mimzy

😆Baaki sab se toh baaat hogayi kal raat, uru ke thread pe🤣U weren't there naaa😃Aapko miss kiyaa isliye LU pe chal pada....😆

Aap aur Nandu sixer pe sixer maar rahe ho as usual. I really liked that post you put on how Mishti must also be willing to be treated. Its true fact, koi aur kitna bhi help karna chahe, but unless the concerned person is willing to face his /her situation,anything other people do will backfire.

But Nandu is also right. Mishti should get it off her chest otherwise her situation will worsen. But I don't think RJV family is the best option. In logon kaaa kee sunke Mishti ka panic attack aur bad jaayegi.

Haan waise bhi meine bhi kaise savaal puch liyaa......its ITV ...yahaan tho death ke pichle din bi shaadi ho sakti hain😆

ohhoo i have read her post but didnt go through the thread... chaa you guyz are enjoying haan 😆 leaving me😒😆

arey yaar i'm missing your post, you have some out of box questions n points to say 😆❤️

@bold - both are true... actually what i said was before n what she said was the after effect... i too want them to open up to family but i just want them to be prepared mentally a little so that she atleast has the strength to face them...

no way i want rjv to know first today itself we saw how mish n kuhu are treated, the pills issues was dropped just like that but mish bina kuch kiye hi got to hear so much.... bp/bm are right person to approach first but how much it is possible i dont know...

haahaha arey death shaadi mandap pe hogi tab bhi shaadi vahi ki vahi hojayega yaar🤣 ITV logic 🤣