Originally posted by: joypallavi
Kunal birth truth is a family secret and if he want to reveal the truth in public atleast he should take the both families in confidence . The illegitimate child truth can affect everyone specially Ketu's future as already her first marriage alliance break. Mishbir has never forced kunal but they are the one who reminded and encouraged him to give motherly right to parul infront of whole world it is a very big decision so it is essential to involve everyone specially kuhu atleast abir has to guide him properly. If abir was so desperate for parul acceptance by kunal than atleast he should inform to maheshwari about it during kuku's 2nd marriage.
I agree and disagree with different points here.
Bold - the parts I agree with.
Both families should have been taken into confidence because the truth in some way affects most members. And the fact that the media was present, Abir should have thought of doing that before encouraging Nanko multiple times.
The reason he probably wanted to do it infront of the media was to take away the truth as a blackmail chip (Remember the blackmail scene on the day MishBir break-up). Though the least he could have done was to keep Kuhu in the loop because it would somehow directly affect her but it seems like he believed that was taken care of during Kuhu and Parul's apology conversation.
So, the only blame Abir deserves is not being sensitive to his mother and hence, not being a good son.