Originally posted by: heer193
Heyy there
I completely agree with you on this
Today I also felt bad for Meenakshi
Abir in an effort to do the right thing completely ignored how his maa would feel
Her being tough does not mean this should happen to her
I wish writers explore her character in a detailed way and mishti should have said something to Abir regarding this
I wish he was standing with his mother at this moment
Cause if Kunal should give right to Parul masi
Then It’s Abir’s duty as well to stand by his mother in such difficult situations
also she has kept this secret from the world for a better life of both Kunal and Abir - though I don’t agree with her mind control strategies
I have nothing to say about Kuhu - coz I am not able to comprehend with her mentality
She was awesome before Mishbir marriage now I don’t understand why writers are making her vamp in the name of grey
Hi Heer!!
You have made some solid points here. Abir should take his own advice. What Meenu has done till now is certainly not agreeable or sane and that stems from her fears of seeing Abir walking the same path as her. The only thing Meenu hasn't realised in all this is that people are different. Mishti and Mehul are not the same people but I can also see where she is coming from. The writers have established that the MishBir story has similar components as the Meenu-Mehul story and that Meenu sees her old self in Abir so she fears the same outcome. In her mind, she is trying to protect Abir from the pain she experienced after finding out Mehul's truth. She doesn't know how it will pan out but she believes that Abir's love story will end in disaster and pain and that is why all the mind games.
That woman has been living in fear since the day Mehul's truth came out. She feared Mehul coming back and taking away her son and then when Mishti came into picture, her fears kept increasing after seeing the similarities.
You could see the happiness on her face after the leap where she didn't have to worry about Mehul or Mishti. Her sole focus at that time was repairing her relationship with Abir.
The one thing she thought she would never have to worry about was the most humiliating and hurtful truth coming out in public because she had taken care of it the day she took Parul in. Now, it's out in the worst possible way.
Coming to Kuhu, I am assuming they had to destroy the character for this track to work. Kuhu and Mishti had to be at their most vulnerable state. I have said this in another post but I'll write it again.
At their most vulnerable, Mishti becomes prone to doubt the love and affection she receives and tends to work even harder to gain affection from authority figures (in this case, Meenakshi) and Kuhu gets blinded by her fear of being forgotten and left alone where Mishti comes in because of her past experiences in the MH. This vulnerability works in favour of Meenakshi and that is why she got to work on the day of the marriage itself. She wants to strike the iron when it's hot.
If you notice, since the Nishant track, things have been going wrong for Kuhu. Nishant's heart got broken minutes or an hour before his wedding was about to take place, her divorce got revealed minutes before everything was about to get solved, the pill got into the coffee seconds before she was about to put it in. (There was no need to include the coffe part here but it went with the seconds/minutes before thing😛). The only common factor in the first 2 situations was Mishti and all that was required now on Meenakshi's side was to increase this feeling by attacking Kuhu's insecurities by repeating over and over again that she is Parul's DIL and acting as the goodie MIL.
Hearing this Parul thing over and over just solidified her fears of becoming inconsequential in a household where Mishti is present. As mentioned before, her fear makes her blind because she has probably experienced a version of this situation multiple times and she had thought that once she got married, she would never have to deal with the feeling related to this. But destiny had other plans.
So, basically what I am saying is that all the characters are in character. We're not able to see the storyline as a whole because of the way it's being shown on-screen. The underlying story requires the pace to be slower but the ongoing track requires the pace to be fast.
I hope I was able to put my points properly.
