Originally posted by: aquaHP
Hey people! Finally a post on the forum which is not about MishKu! Yessss!!🥳
🤣🤣Yup for a change
I have a different perspective on the Kunal-Parul situation.
Since the beginning of the show, we never saw Kunal respecting Parul as his Maa or as Maasi. He always saw her as a 'servant figure' (for lack of a better term). After he found out, he has been struggling with himself to see her as part of his family, not just Maa or Maasi, but as a member of the family. And if we notice, since he found out the truth, his behaviour towards Jugnu has also changed. He has started behaving much more politely with him, asking him for his opinions. He is trying to consider them as his fam rather than people who work for him.
That's true, it's a welcoming change in his attitude 🤗
I agree with the fact that he should be respectful of Parul and show some trust in her but he doesn't really know Parul as a person. He had never made that effort to get to know her before he found about her being his mother. And just imagine, if someone like Nidhi who depended on Parul for the longest time to help her out with stuff and worked along side her when Benba wanted her to, is having trouble even giving her basic respect so how can Abir expect Kunal to change his behaviour in a matter of a few weeks.
Abir can't expect, but he should understand, how could parul harm abir, baat agar koi baat chupaane tak ki hoti ya jhoot Bolne ki to he could have mistrusted her because of the reasons you mentioned. But abir ko harm karne ka ilzaam direct.
Kunal has always been someone who takes time to trust someone because his trust has been broken so many times. How do you trust someone so easily when you find out that the person you have considered as mother your entire life didn't even think twice before she wanted you to spike an addict's drink, when that person used you to reach her her goals?? And Kunal to doesn't even know about BB's role in Shweta's case. So, how can he trust someone when the person he blindly trust broke his trust?
Then also while talking to abir he said that meri duniya aap aur maa hi Ho (big Ben )
Also, when it comes to Abir, Kunal has always been too hyper. It's basically his Bhai against the world. So, you can actually see where his reaction was coming from. Also, he gave her the leeway of her owning up to the mistake if she had committed it, which I don't think he would've given her before. He would have just blasted her off like when BB cried crocodile tears and blamed Parul in front of Kunal.
That's true 🤔
So, in conclusion, I think it was wrong for Abir to expect Kunal to accept this truth so easily when he doesn't even know how it feels like. Even Mishti for that matter. She must know how hard it is to accept someone as family. Just saying that she is his mother wouldn't make him act like a son. He has been making the effort (which Parul has seen a glimpse of, when he came to ask her opinion in the kitchen and the change in his attitude towards her), just not at the pace Abir wants.
Yup that was wrong of abir and mishti to expect kunal to not reprimand parul coz she's his mother. But they both are like that only, accepting every truth of their life (mishti's father is murderer truth and abir's baba truth )