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Posted: 5 years ago
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Though kunal has a point that he can't accept parul as his mother soon as he had considered meenu as his mother from childhood but he should atleast trust her.

Abir ke force karne se kunal parul ko maa bulane lag jaayega but he'll not consider her his mother from heart.

Kunal needs to realize that he can't let things happen with the flow.

Parul is his mother and he can't deny that, he's trying to accept that, I know as we all saw his scenes with parul, they were awesome

But what happen today was actually not done, parul is not a stranger who came to rjv house recently, she's living with abir and kunal from their childhood days, how can't he trust her as a person atleast.

It's hard for him we understand, but that does not mean he'll not give her the trust and respect she deserve.

Kunal should seriously learn how to empathize. Kunal ko abhi ye sach bardaash nahi ho raha, but parul to 20+ years se apne bete ko kisi Aur ko maa bulate hue Sun rahi hai, husband betrayal and upar se beta khud ki sautan ko maa bula raha hai, just to make his future bright she sacrificed a lot.

The mother who have weaved many dreams about his child, vo kheer khaayega, gora gora hoga, the talks of pandit ji I remember from mishbir goddhana track.

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Posted: 5 years ago
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what kunal done was not acceptable but he really cant call her maa...


kunal never trusted parul from the begining..he always needed privacy when speaks to abir or BB...


so i can understand him for not trusting parul but atleast he could have asked what happened in the kitchen...


may be this lead to see what his mother is and how much she has done for him...

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Posted: 5 years ago
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I totally agree with you Vaishu.


Noone is forcing Kunal to call Parulmaasi as maa. But atleast he can show some respect to her after knowing his birth truth. After all, this woman sacrificed her life and became a maid in the same house just to give a better life to her child.If it's not easy for Kunal to call her as Maa,same for parulmaasi to see her child calling someone else his mother.So this kind of behaviour is not acceptable.


Kunal was raised as a spoilt brat and coz of his upbringing and Harvard education he thinks very high of himself.It would be interesting to see his reaction when the truth will come out infront of Mahs. I am sure they will not have much problems. But Kunal will get into depression knowing he won't be called as a Rajvansh anymore.😆 Kuhu is already in trauma for not being a Mrs Rajvansh😆


These two are made for eachother. Haye rab ne banadi jodi.

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Hey people! Finally a post on the forum which is not about MishKu! Yessss!!🥳


I have a different perspective on the Kunal-Parul situation.

Since the beginning of the show, we never saw Kunal respecting Parul as his Maa or as Maasi. He always saw her as a 'servant figure' (for lack of a better term). After he found out, he has been struggling with himself to see her as part of his family, not just Maa or Maasi, but as a member of the family. And if we notice, since he found out the truth, his behaviour towards Jugnu has also changed. He has started behaving much more politely with him, asking him for his opinions. He is trying to consider them as his fam rather than people who work for him.

I agree with the fact that he should be respectful of Parul and show some trust in her but he doesn't really know Parul as a person. He had never made that effort to get to know her before he found about her being his mother. And just imagine, if someone like Nidhi who depended on Parul for the longest time to help her out with stuff and worked along side her when Benba wanted her to, is having trouble even giving her basic respect so how can Abir expect Kunal to change his behaviour in a matter of a few weeks.

Kunal has always been someone who takes time to trust someone because his trust has been broken so many times. How do you trust someone so easily when you find out that the person you have considered as mother your entire life didn't even think twice before she wanted you to spike an addict's drink, when that person used you to reach her her goals?? And Kunal to doesn't even know about BB's role in Shweta's case. So, how can he trust someone when the person he blindly trust broke his trust?

Also, when it comes to Abir, Kunal has always been too hyper. It's basically his Bhai against the world. So, you can actually see where his reaction was coming from. Also, he gave her the leeway of her owning up to the mistake if she had committed it, which I don't think he would've given her before. He would have just blasted her off like when BB cried crocodile tears and blamed Parul in front of Kunal.

So, in conclusion, I think it was wrong for Abir to expect Kunal to accept this truth so easily when he doesn't even know how it feels like. Even Mishti for that matter. She must know how hard it is to accept someone as family. Just saying that she is his mother wouldn't make him act like a son. He has been making the effort (which Parul has seen a glimpse of, when he came to ask her opinion in the kitchen and the change in his attitude towards her), just not at the pace Abir wants.

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Originally posted by: ruhi19

what kunal done was not acceptable but he really cant call her maa...


kunal never trusted parul from the begining..he always needed privacy when speaks to abir or BB...


so i can understand him for not trusting parul but atleast he could have asked what happened in the kitchen...


may be this lead to see what his mother is and how much she has done for him...

Yup we can relate to it, what kunal is going through, but I can't relate with his trust issues

Ok he suspected maasi, then why he didn't suspected kuhu, kuhu ne aisa kya kiya hai that he trusted her but not maasi

If it's the guilt feeling, why don't he feel guilty for treating her mother like servant when he didn't knew his birth truth

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Originally posted by: Jayati321

I totally agree with you Vaishu.


Noone is forcing Kunal to call Parulmaasi as maa. But atleast he can show some respect to her after knowing his birth truth. After all, this woman sacrificed her life and became a maid in the same house just to give a better life to her child.If it's not easy for Kunal to call her as Maa,same for parulmaasi to see her child calling someone else his mother.So this kind of behaviour is not acceptable.


Kunal was raised as a spoilt brat and coz of his upbringing and Harvard education he thinks very high of himself.It would be interesting to see his reaction when the truth will come out infront of Mahs. I am sure they will not have much problems. But Kunal will get into depression knowing he won't be called as a Rajvansh anymore.😆 Kuhu is already in trauma for not being a Mrs Rajvansh😆


These two are made for eachother. Haye rab ne banadi jodi.

Bold- being my point, that woman deserve some love and respect from her son.

I really don't know what will be the equation of kuhu and parul after this track , and the equation is important because both are directly related to kunal 😒

I don't think kunal will feel low about himself as he feels secured because his brother's love

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Originally posted by: aquaHP

Hey people! Finally a post on the forum which is not about MishKu! Yessss!!🥳

🤣🤣Yup for a change

I have a different perspective on the Kunal-Parul situation.

Since the beginning of the show, we never saw Kunal respecting Parul as his Maa or as Maasi. He always saw her as a 'servant figure' (for lack of a better term). After he found out, he has been struggling with himself to see her as part of his family, not just Maa or Maasi, but as a member of the family. And if we notice, since he found out the truth, his behaviour towards Jugnu has also changed. He has started behaving much more politely with him, asking him for his opinions. He is trying to consider them as his fam rather than people who work for him.

That's true, it's a welcoming change in his attitude 🤗

I agree with the fact that he should be respectful of Parul and show some trust in her but he doesn't really know Parul as a person. He had never made that effort to get to know her before he found about her being his mother. And just imagine, if someone like Nidhi who depended on Parul for the longest time to help her out with stuff and worked along side her when Benba wanted her to, is having trouble even giving her basic respect so how can Abir expect Kunal to change his behaviour in a matter of a few weeks.

Abir can't expect, but he should understand, how could parul harm abir, baat agar koi baat chupaane tak ki hoti ya jhoot Bolne ki to he could have mistrusted her because of the reasons you mentioned. But abir ko harm karne ka ilzaam direct.

Kunal has always been someone who takes time to trust someone because his trust has been broken so many times. How do you trust someone so easily when you find out that the person you have considered as mother your entire life didn't even think twice before she wanted you to spike an addict's drink, when that person used you to reach her her goals?? And Kunal to doesn't even know about BB's role in Shweta's case. So, how can he trust someone when the person he blindly trust broke his trust?

Then also while talking to abir he said that meri duniya aap aur maa hi Ho (big Ben )

Also, when it comes to Abir, Kunal has always been too hyper. It's basically his Bhai against the world. So, you can actually see where his reaction was coming from. Also, he gave her the leeway of her owning up to the mistake if she had committed it, which I don't think he would've given her before. He would have just blasted her off like when BB cried crocodile tears and blamed Parul in front of Kunal.

That's true 🤔

So, in conclusion, I think it was wrong for Abir to expect Kunal to accept this truth so easily when he doesn't even know how it feels like. Even Mishti for that matter. She must know how hard it is to accept someone as family. Just saying that she is his mother wouldn't make him act like a son. He has been making the effort (which Parul has seen a glimpse of, when he came to ask her opinion in the kitchen and the change in his attitude towards her), just not at the pace Abir wants.

Yup that was wrong of abir and mishti to expect kunal to not reprimand parul coz she's his mother. But they both are like that only, accepting every truth of their life (mishti's father is murderer truth and abir's baba truth )

Thanks for commenting and sharing your pov

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Originally posted by: MishBirStruck

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Hey!😛

I agree ki maarne ka ilzaam thoda zyada ho gaya. What are the writers thinking??

The only think I liked Abir doing in today's episode (That's saying something because since the past 2 days, Abir's scenes were the highlight of the episodes) was letting Parul take him upstairs and said ki Kunal will have to understand that I am safe with her. Everything else that he said is basically him expecting a lot from Kunal.

I think instead of making Kunal understand, what Abir and Mishti need to get is that everyone moves at their own pace. I wish the writers would focus on that too. That would be a sensible track atleast. Or even just a scene with Parul where she tells him that Kunal will need more time and just because he thinks Kunal has gotten a lot of time doesn't mean that Kunal has. I don't know if the last line made sense.

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Originally posted by: aquaHP

Hey!😛

I agree ki maarne ka ilzaam thoda zyada ho gaya. What are the writers thinking??

The only think I liked Abir doing in today's episode (That's saying something because since the past 2 days, Abir's scenes were the highlight of the episodes) was letting Parul take him upstairs and said ki Kunal will have to understand that I am safe with her. Everything else that he said is basically him expecting a lot from Kunal.

I think instead of making Kunal understand, what Abir and Mishti need to get is that everyone moves at their own pace. I wish the writers would focus on that too. That would be a sensible track atleast. Or even just a scene with Parul where she tells him that Kunal will need more time and just because he thinks Kunal has gotten a lot of time doesn't mean that Kunal has. I don't know if the last line made sense.

Exactly 😆

Yeah that dialogue was very meaningful 👍🏼

True he's expecting lot from kunal atleast now.

True Now MishBir should really concentrate on their own life but you know that's not possible for time being 😆😆,itne kaand jo hue hai serial mein 🤣🤣

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Originally posted by: MishBirStruck

Exactly 😆

Yeah that dialogue was very meaningful 👍🏼

True he's expecting lot from kunal atleast now.

True Now MishBir should really concentrate on their own life but you know that's not possible for time being 😆😆,itne kaand jo hue hai serial mein 🤣🤣

MishBir won't be able to concentrate on their life jab tak BB is in their life.

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