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Originally posted by: MishBirStruck

Exactly she never counts what she got and what she's getting, but if mishti gets something from the same house it's too much for her

Ketu sides with kuhu in every function , I still remember janmashtmi dance competition

Nidhi Mami always wants kuhu at her side

Even in MishBir sangeet all were Dependent on kuhu,ki wo nahi hogi to hum jeetenge kaise, can't she see how important she's for rvs.

I agree that kunal's behavior towards her is making her insecure and she rightly said ki tumne to kabhi mujhse pyaar kiya hi nahi, but baaki kisi ne bhi nahi kiya like really

Kunal's behavior alone is not enough justification for Kuhu to act so petulant. Basically it just shows that she will always be immature underneath all the so called "maturity" she was showing in the early parts of the leap and in trying to "help" Abir gatecrash NishMish ki shaadi.

She is exactly like a child....unless she has everyone's attention constantly trained on her, unless she is constantly being pampered, she will sit and cry. In one moment, she forgot all the times she was treated like a Queen Bee by the RVs and constantly given importance for every function in the house.

She needs that constant attention to feel a sense of importance and validation in her life.....without it, she feels empty.....that is why she lashes out so much the moment she sees Mishti getting any happiness or attention. I'm truly amazed by her ability to be so petty even after seeing Mishti go through so much pain and now managing to get some happiness.

Mishti always rejoices in her happiness....but Kuhu can't wait to always stamp all over whatever little happiness also Mishti gets....I can't recall a moment where she was genuinely happy for Mishti as an individual....unless she herself is getting equal or more attention than Mishti, she doesn't care for Mishti's happiness.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Wohi toh baat hai.....lol ....like I said in my post a few pages back.....childish brats need constant validation.

Kuhu ko bas ek din haar nahin milaa aur photo mein include nahin kiya toh her world fell apart....Mishti has been constantly berated by her and Jas for YEARS.....kabhi Misthi ke liye toh insaaniyat nahin jaagi tab, haan Kuhu? Mishti wasn't even there for your wedding.....she wasn't included either....did you care then when you were busy being giddy over your Prince Charming in your mandap? lol but everyone should care if you don't get a haar one time and don't get to be in one family pic only, is it?

It just shows what small hearts and small minds there can be.

I personally don't feel any sympathy for a person who has been so self-absorbed and so callous towards Mishti for so long who is now playing victim over not getting a little attention for once.

You pointed out an important thing....life has hardly been a cakewalk for Mishti to get to this point....she's gone through very horrible times, including constant beratement from Kuhu during her own low moments.....so to just see her getting happiness for once, to see her being pampered for once with love and affection from the guy and family that it has taken her so long to get included in, THAT is also again cause only for Kuhu's grievances?

There are a million and one excuses daily to justify Kuhu's emotions.....hardly any for Mishti. For once, Misthi is getting a little happiness rather than the crumbs thrown her way as the "ehsaan" child of the Maheshwaris and even then, the expectation is that Kuhu's constant insecurities need to be managed more than giving Mishti just this much pampering? One necklace over-rode all the attention that Kuhu got as a new bahu in her own time? Oh please.

It's very contrived and forced writing and I don't buy this so called "justification" for Kuhu ki bechaargi one bit.....all they want to do is just set the basis for Abir babying her more than ever just like he does with Kunal.....readymade bigde huye bacche hain yeh Mishbir ke.

I very much fedup of this kuhu justification and sympathy from people😆how can any one relate with kuhu in real life all giving justification she is the only relatable character in the show..she dont even have some constant character traits she always flips😆

Sorry to say this like kuhu her supporter also have only one character in mind while justifying her🤣

How can her character is relatable in real life?/

1. In real life will we marry some random Guy with sportz car without any knowledge abt the guy.

2. Will we accept the guy whose alliance once was fixed with your sister and broken on the day of engagement😆

2. When we will learn whom we have married with, that person was a cheater, he made you fool and played with your emotions moreover he wants to get rid of you on the first day of the marrige itself. will we keep quite???will we adjust with his family??will we try to be so mahan bahu in that house??is this relatable character in real life??🤣

These and all not a big issue for kuhu only mishti haar and the family photo looks bigger than her married life is such a childish beheaviour🤣

Originally posted by: yrhpk_aus

very very nice post yaar👍🏼👏

Explained your thoughts so clearly, it makes lots of sense😊👍🏼

Kuhu and Mishti have their own background stories, which have led them to have deep childhood insecurities and built up frustration. But as individualy characters Mishti approaches, handles and deals with her feelings and problems very very differently compared to Kuhu.

Kuhu is extremely impulsive, and takes decisions very emotionally rather than practically. She is still very immature, although the initial kuhu 2.0 post-leap gave a glimpse at perhaps a more mature woman, I'm afraid I'm wrong. And the main issue is that Kuhu's marriage issue and strained relationship with Mishti has never been addresses openly or properly by anyone. Kuhu keeps things to herself, thinking that she will be able to manage them alone, when she clearly isn't mature or emotionally stable to do so. The fact that Kuhu isn't brave enough to face the failed marriage, and cannot open up to her parents about it shows that she is frankly just scared to admit she was wrong in her life decision. She would rather push the blame on the estranged 'sister' Mishti who already has been blamed for numerous illogical things, so Kuhu convinces herself that her own failed marriage is because of Mishti.

I've got lot's of things to say...but I think it's better I make a separate post rather than bore you hear with a biiig long post😆

Thank you nandu🤗

@bold exactly thank you so much for putting the valid point👍🏼

That’s the harsh reality of life. When two persons are wrong, it always a easy way to regard who is more wrong by the number of their wrong doings. But they forget the truth that concluding one person wrong and punishing them for their deeds doesn’t nullify all the wrongs the other person did.

Originally posted by: abhilashasharma

I would say the grass is always greener on the other side. We Mishbir fans are thinking so, KuKu fans will also be thinking the same

Abhi I'm just worn out now yàar..it's mishbir's marriage and what we are getting is kuku..they can actually take up kuku divorce after mishbir marriage..why now..i feel so defeated..🤗🤗the only couple whom I love like anything is Mishbir..the ones who can make me smile even in my deep distress..if I can't see mishbir,I feel so sad,I don't know..now that Abir got to know abt kuku divorce,instead of enjoying his own marriage he will try to manao Kuhu for Kunal..I hate it yaar..it's not abt grass being greener on the other side..its just abt my emotions and my connect with mishbir..it's not becoz I'm jealous of kuku,I'm not jealous of them getting more scenes..😭😭

Originally posted by: Thimag1314

I am sorry if i am harsh. Why people dont want to see kuku scenes.they are always part of the show.kunal uska bhai hey,how you all expect that it should be only mishbir scenes.

Even during their wedding mishti and abir were shown more. Mishti ran from the house,abir had to go after her.

Sometimes fans pissed me.off. they always want to see only their fav in the screen and not others in the show.

No show can run with just two people.

I don't want this mishbir vs kuku in this forum.they are cute in their own way.

Yes i do like kuku but doesn't mean i want to see only kuku in the screen..

Of course few characters irritate us,but every character has to be given importance.

Please enjoy everyone presence.

Now.we are fed up with shaadi tracks,tomorrow if they keep on showing about only mishbir intimate scenes,cant watch it for a long time.the story has to move on.

When did I say I don't want KuKu scenes and I only expect MishBir scenes?

Did I mention I only want MishBir intimate scenes and no story?

Did I write anywhere I don't want to see other characters?

Please go and read my posts again.

You prefer to watch Kuku and Nannu over Mishti-Abir - that is completely okay and I respect that.

Just like that you should also respect other people's preference of what they want to see.

Whether people like it or not, MishBir are the show leads. They are the face of the show. If makers neglect them and give them token scenes, that too with interruptions, fans are bound to be upset. And it's okay for fans to vent their frustration once in a while - no need to judge them and label them as parallel lead haters.

Originally posted by: Agrata23

How can her character is relatable in real life?/

1. In real life will we marry some random Guy with sportz car without any knowledge abt the guy.

2. Will we accept the guy whose alliance once was fixed with your sister and broken on the day of engagement😆

2. When we will learn whom we have married with, that person was a cheater, he made you fool and played with your emotions moreover he wants to get rid of you on the first day of the marrige itself. will we keep quite???will we adjust with his family??will we try to be so mahan bahu in that house??is this relatable character in real life??🤣

These and all not a big issue for kuhu only mishti haar and the family photo looks bigger than her married life is such a childish beheaviour🤣

Since you mentioned the sports car, this reminds me of the scene in today’s epi during the lame “surprise” when Kunal steps up and says, “woh sports car abhi bhi mere paas hai” 🤣....and Kuhu starts blushing over this 🤣

Matlab sports car is literally all they have to show for their “lowe”? 🤣🤣

Originally posted by: MishBirStruck

Agree with every word of yours geetu

Kuhu got so much love in rv house, ketu asked her to click pic because she was best at it, she could have took a selfie is she had wanted so much, Itna self centered hona zaruri nahi hai

Though the special bahu thing I can understand ki thoda Ajeeb lag sakta hai but vo bhi koi badhane waali baat nahi thi.

Vaishu during Kuhu shaadi time pe bhi eveyone was appreciating her RJV family made her feel like a princess except kunal she was such a dump and immature to notice his #husband of the year beheaviour..even that time she was content she felt very happy becoz she won over mishti.

Naanu just said that becoz mishti went through so much pain and the struggle to become the bahu of their house unlike kuhu, and all are worried abt mishti future becoz meenu name ki sword hanging on her head😆

Originally posted by: Agrata23

Vaishu during Kuhu shaadi time pe bhi eveyone was appreciating her RJV family made her feel like a princess except kunal she was such a dump and immature to notice his #husband of the year beheaviour..even that time she was content she felt very happy becoz she won over mishti.

Naanu just said that becoz mishti went through so much pain and the struggle to become the bahu of their house unlike kuhu, and all are worried abt mishti future becoz meenu name ki sword hanging on her head😆

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Since you mentioned the sports car, this reminds me of the scene in today’s epi during the lame “surprise” when Kunal steps up and says, “woh sports car abhi bhi mere paas hai” 🤣....and Kuhu starts blushing over this 🤣

Matlab sports car is literally all they have to show for their “lowe”? 🤣🤣

The love is based on "sportz car" real wala pyaar see its very much relaetable in real life🤣