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Originally posted by: Sutapasima

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Originally posted by: KambakthIshq

Pheww!! im not the only one who feels this way.

Originally posted by: LetThereBeLight

Its not that simple Sam... its not about saying the truth.,... abir was ok with it he assured parul today but meenu threatened to humiliate kunal infront of society n throw him out of RV see its much better than haldi fiasco reason.... Kunal can never handle humiliation that too from the mother he worshiped all his life... even if abir says the truth to kunal bb is not gonna sit calm she can go to any extend to destroy him and abir cant see his brother like this who he cared like a child till day... i understand his reason but there is no fault of mishti and abir failed her big time... 😭

Meri Light .. Sach tho hamesha kadvi hoti hain... Kunal needs to know the truth at some time, why not now? Do you think BB is credible, she will use this as an opportunity for anything and everything. Now if Meenu says marry someone else whether Abir will get married?! We all know Meenu is much more capable. What if baba comes and tells the truth or Kunal himself finds out?

Truth now revealed is better than in future. For this reason, breaking up with Mishti and that too in this harsh manner is not acceptable.

Originally posted by: abhilashasharma

Sam, its easy to decide as a third person, but at that time, at that instant, the instinctive feeling to protect one of the parties , no-one can know what the person is going to decide.. it's not only deciding.. it's also standing upto the decision. Hence we as humans always take a easy route. Here also abir took a easy route. He knows BB will make a big dram, but Mishti and her family will not... So he took an easy route.. can't blame him completely. Butafter all this too, I feel public insult and breakup could have been avoided

He should have spoken to Mishti about this and am sure both will figure out a way and Mishti already knows the truth. For this reason breaking up is too much and in a harsh manner. Meenu can use this in future also.

Originally posted by: LetThereBeLight

i agree mishti was humiliated, meenu did the same to kuhu using kunal... but whats abirs involvement in all this... and why will he knowingly let this happen... they were humiliated by meenu and knowing how she does why will abir let the same happen again...

Do you think abir didnt realize that meenu doesnt care about both son... he knew she cares about nothing other than her ego... if he let kunal getting humiliated n then console him what the difference between him n others... its not about saying truth... and kunal was shown again n again how he feels about humiliation...

And going by this was mishti right in doing the haldi fiasco... was her reason correct did abir going behind her correct even after all that... she knew abirs love for her still she pushed him away and prioritized kuhu who hates her and did things to her so why cant abir do this for the brother he loves as his own son...

sorry Sam but i totally disagree on this reason being lame.. i respect your opinion its your choice but i understand abir he is a soft character, emotional person...

Meri Light🤗 yes we can agree to disagree. Kunal deserves to know the truth atleast now and Abir can always threaten Meenakshi about going away. Even after breakup Meenu will use this to get her way. How can Abir decide to breakup after knowing about Meenu?!

Regarding Mishti choosing to go away from Abir, i know she must have opened up with Abir but Mishti had just realised her love for Abir. It's not the same now and Mishbir are so much in love and Mishti trusts Abir the most. Atleast Mishti deserves a decent breakup.

Originally posted by: SheThought

Yes, he could have.

But I guess ultimately Abir was put on spot and was asked to choose between Nanko and Mishti... and he got carried away with the new identity of his brother whom he treats like his son and chose Nanko. But I also feel that he knows what his mom is capable of, she would not let them live in peace even if he found other solutions...

Also, somewhere I think he also feels that he has more right on Mishti than anyone else, so he chose to hurt her instead of Nanko...

No matter how we try to justify it, this will become this one daag on Abir that he will not outlive! His mother played her game, and he chose to break Mishti's heart to protect his family. Period.

Yes Pali. Kunal's birth truth cannot be and should not be hidden forever. Truth is always bitter so if Abir had discussed with Mishti, surely they would have found a way out.

Originally posted by: naq5

True this truth would have come out sooner or later. Atleast he could have been honest with mishti and told her everything and told her that temporarily they will breakup till he finds a way. Even that would be bad because BP wouldn't forgive him. But breaking up like this. They ruined Abir for me. Abir was not like this

Can't agree with you more.

Originally posted by: naq5

he has already threatened to leave BB and go before too. What stops it from doing this again. All this for the sake of drama. I liked this show because they dint destroy the male lead character till now even for a bit for the sake of misunderstandings and drama but now they did it.

Yes. They have spoiled Abir's character forever.

Originally posted by: abhilashasharma

when did I say that re?? Our abir and Mishti along with BP and BM are selfless souls... Mishti knows her priorities, abir doesn't know.. thats the drawback

You didn't but i did. I take it back. I said it in a flow.

Abir definitely is not the most selfish person but definitely selfishness to protect his brother is involved in breaking up with Mishti.

Originally posted by: The_incredible

Samyu u r way too harsh on Abir...I completely understand u now..what we all r going through is same ..but plz don't judge Abir like this...

Ammu, i take it back, i was very upset in the morning and said it in a flow.