EP135|19.09.19 Mishbir continue to set examples! | Mishbir Analysis

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She tried so hard to calm down, to stop crying but the tears wouldn't stop. She was absolutely lost and scared witless, terrified of what Varsha had asked from her. She couldn't fathom having to sacrifice something that had now become a part of her existence. Her Badi Maa was upset and her Bade Papa was in pain because of her. Nothing she told herself seemed to work. She had no one to go to and so she called the one person she needed to see, the boy she couldn't ever afford to lose, Abir.

Scared about the situation that their date had gotten Mishti into, unable to decide if it was okay to reach out, to call her, Abir continued to worry. He needed to talk to her, make sure she was okay. But the relief he felt as he saw her name flashing on the phone, didn't last a second as he got a sight of those red-rimmed eyes. The heart break that he saw there immediately reflecting in his own when she asked him "Abir mein tumhe kaise chod dun"? Before he even began to understand what was happening and the cause to Mishti's distress she heard him say "Abir, Varsha aunty chahti hain ki mein tumse break up karloo" ripping a new one on his heart.

He was always the wise one among the two wasn't he? Mishti was sure he was the only one who had the answers and so she asks "Mein kya karu?".

Completely heartbroken, incapable of coherent thoughts, desperate to take away the pain that he saw in her eyes and heard in her voice, Abir instinctively offers "Tum bolo, mein karoonga, agar tum kaho toh.."

Realizing where he was going with it and horrified of what he was suggesting Mishti interjects him immediately with a firm "Nahi, nahi Abir! Mein tumhe nahi chod sakti. Nahin reh sakti mein tumhare bina"

The declaration making him release the breath he didn't realize he was holding. The tightness that threatened to completely crush his heart, slowly subsiding. Her confusion, her helplessness over the difficult choice that she had been asked to make. Her desperate call for help, advice when she knew he had none breaking his heart further. It was completely unfair that she was on the other side of the phone crying her heart out when he couldn't hold her, comfort her or even tell her that it was gonna be okay. Why was it so hard? Why did it have to be so painful? But he had to try and so he did. Assuring her that they still had 'tonight' for themselves. What tomorrow would mean for their relationship, they didn't know but they had each other for tonight and they were going to make the most of it.

Mishti not wanting to lose the sight of him for even a second, desperate to hold on to him for however long she possibly could, cries out to him to not disconnect the call. Hearing the anguish making it really hard but the need to remain strong for her winning over his need to fall apart. He tries to lighten the mood by teasing her as he always does but her wish for a whole lifetime for themselves, finally causing the tears he was trying so hard to curb, spill over.

Happy and satisfied for the chance to stay by her, he promises her "Mein yahin hun".

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The word 'Beautiful' would fall short in describing the absolutely intense & heart-wrenching scene that was this video call sequence between Mishbir tonight. The fact that these two clearly cannot imagine a life without the other in it, yet being responsible enough to understand that they couldn't be selfish in love was so beautifully portrayed tonight that I was left completely on awe. The fact that Mishti continued to stress on what she would do if BM and BP went against their love emphasized how much her parents meant to her. Bringing home the point that there can be more than one significant love, even the non-romantic kind in a person's life. Mishti and Abir continue to set new examples on love and respect in relationships. I am so glad we have such inspiring leads on a platform that is otherwise filled with regressive, mindless, unrelatable and sometimes, plain disgusting characters that are written as leads on a show.

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Thoughts on Performances: The scene was honestly , without any prejudice, the best scene of Mishbir's for me till date. One of the most effective and beautifully executed sequence in the entire show. Congratulations YRHPK team for the collective effort. The pain, the anguish, the heartbreak and the comfort they found in each other. Beautifully written, portrayed and executed. Shaheer and Rhea broke my heart and won it over with one of the best performances I've seen of theirs so far. Especially Rhea, stealing the God damn show!

Mishti's horror as she witnessed her Bade Papa tear up and to have been the cause for it. Her desperation to explain to her Badi Maa that she did not mean to keep the truth from them. Her resolve over her love. Her certainty over the fact that their love was not wrong. Her courage to stand by Abir and their relationship. Her vulnerability when it came to her Badi Maa and Bade Papa. The absolute helplessness and horror she felt over the possibility of having to lose the one person who had come to mean the absolute world to her. All of it was so beautifully portrayed that it both made me tremendously proud of the girl that she is and heartbroken to see her completely shatter the way she did.

Rhea! God damn! Take a bow!👏 What an incredible performance that was. You keep proving time and again how you deserve to play that lead opposite one of the best performers in the industry. So proud of this girl! I was tearing up by the end of the video call between Mishbir. That doesn't happen often.

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A/N : It's 3 AM here as I finish watching the episode and putting this down. Work has been an absolute B and I am afraid I'm not really in the right state of mind. I am not even sure if the post makes sense anymore. I just can't bother to proof-read this. So please forgive me if it's a poor attempt at an analysis. I promise to edit it tomorrow if I can get to it.

Very nice post as usual, misaki!!👏both Rhea and Shaheer were so perfect today!! The pain, the desperation, the need, the helplessness, the support, the love,the respect, wanting to hold onto that one person who is your woodand what else.. every damn emotion was so beautifully portrayed today.. for me, more than physical romances, these emotional moments are always close to my heart .. this was certainly a masterclass executed by Yhprk team👏finally, BP also understand he failed as a father in letting even family members blame Mishti!!! I hope he starts taking action for the mental torture these folks give..

Originally posted by: divvk

Very nice post as usual, misaki!!👏both Rhea and Shaheer were so perfect today!! The pain, the desperation, the need, the helplessness, the support, the love,the respect, wanting to hold onto that one person who is your woodand what else.. every damn emotion was so beautifully portrayed today.. for me, more than physical romances, these emotional moments are always close to my heart .. this was certainly a masterclass executed by Yhprk team👏finally, BP also understand he failed as a father in letting even family members blame Mishti!!! I hope he starts taking action for the mental torture these folks give..

Thank you!🤗 Can you please let me have the pleasure of knowing your name? I'd like to address you by it from the next time if you don't mind. Is it Div?

I felt so much after watching that particular scene that I had to get it out of my system.😆 I'm happy that someone else apart from me is awake to read it and not find it crappy :P I can honestly go on and on about how beautiful the scene was but I'm in dire need of sleep. Have to wake up pretty early too so I'm gonna 'res' this one for now until I get back to it hopefully much earlier tomorrow.

BP and BM have been the only two sensible adults on the show who continue to time and again prove how 'sensible supporting characters' have immense potential to any track. The only salvage to the entire 'bhudde team' on YRHPK.

Originally posted by: misaki

Thank you!🤗 Can you please let me have the pleasure of knowing your name? I'd like to address you by it from the next time if you don't mind. Is it Div?

I felt so much after watching that particular scene that I had to get it out of my system.😆 I'm happy that someone else apart from me is awake to read it and not find it crappy :P I can honestly go on and on about how beautiful the scene was but I'm in dire need of sleep. Have to wake up pretty early too so I'm gonna 'res' this one for now until I get back to it hopefully much earlier tomorrow.

BP and BM have been the only two sensible adults on the show who continue to time and again prove how 'sensible supporting characters' have immense potential to any track. The only salvage to the entire 'bhudde team' on YRHPK.

You can call me as Divya.🤗ya, even I have seen it several times from morning.. haha. It was just beautifully executed.. your posts are always good, level headed, mature.. I know that scene was so beautifully done that we feel short of words to express the feelings.. anyways, so jao.. good night.. we have the BP BM and Abir conversation tomorrow.. looks like we will know what Mishti is for Abir . Waiting for it now..

Bold- completely agree with you..

GEETHU DARLING!!!🤗

SEE!! I am here too!!!

Thank you for the amazing post! You wrote it so amazingly that I really dont have much to add. This scene was one of the best and beautifully written and performed scene that I have ever scene on ITV!

The most intriguing part of that scene was who can answer that question? There is no black and white answer for that. Mishti might not care of it was just being asked by V, J or K. But she was more worried about the fact that if that comes out from her parents, from those two individuals who mean the world to her, what will she do? The way she cannot leave without them, she cannot leave without Abir. These three people are her lifelines. Her oxygen! No sane person, even who is not in any emotional distress can answer that question. And it was handled so beautifully in that scene! Really really big kudos to the team for showing this!

The touch where she didn't want him to hang up and he stayed up as long as she wanted was just heart breaking and heart warming. It was hard for you to decide whether you should celebrate their deep love for each other or feel bad at the situation they are in. Even viewers couldn't decide that!!

Thank you for the post again, especially because its your 3am!! The team definitely deserves a round of applause for putting up this scene!! This types of situation are needed to be addressed!

Originally posted by: .IamShonali.

GEETHU DARLING!!!🤗

SEE!! I am here too!!!

Thank you for the amazing post! You wrote it so amazingly that I really dont have much to add. This scene was one of the best and beautifully written and performed scene that I have ever scene on ITV!

The most intriguing part of that scene was who can answer that question? There is no black and white answer for that. Mishti might not care of it was just being asked by V, J or K. But she was more worried about the fact that if that comes out from her parents, from those two individuals who mean the world to her, what will she do? The way she cannot leave without them, she cannot leave without Abir. These three people are her lifelines. Her oxygen! No sane person, even who is not in any emotional distress can answer that question. And it was handled so beautifully in that scene! Really really big kudos to the team for showing this!

The touch where she didn't want him to hang up and he stayed up as long as she wanted was just heart breaking and heart warming. It was hard for you to decide whether you should celebrate their deep love for each other or feel bad at the situation they are in. Even viewers couldn't decide that!!

Thank you for the post again, especially because its your 3am!! The team definitely deserves a round of applause for putting up this scene!! This types of situation are needed to be addressed!

Shona🤗 we keep missing each other! It's almost tragic 😅

I'm gonna get to replying to this hopefully soon tomorrow. It's 4 AM now. Why am I still here? 😅 I'm glad I caught you though. 🤗

Until then @Bold - exactly why I loved the scene as much as I did. The way they handled this! Bravo!

Misaki, now that was some beautiful analysis!! I absolutely loved it and completely agree on Rhea-Shaheer's performances. Those two are so natural that it's difficult to not tear up.

Misaki, this was one awesome post ❤️ The scene brought so many emotions in me after watching it! In the era of ITV, where all physical romance matters and are shown, here we are with one couple who are each other’s strengths, support and best friends! This is what we call a couple!

I can never stop thinking about the scene anytime soon, and i will never want that too happen too!

It was one of the best for me till date in a tv show! Rhea and Shah were out of the world! Glad that i watch this show, varna i would have never seen anything like this by any team!❤️

Originally posted by: misaki

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She tried so hard to calm down, to stop crying but the tears wouldn't stop. She was absolutely lost and scared witless, terrified of what Varsha had asked from her. She couldn't fathom having to sacrifice something that had now become a part of her existence. Her Badi Maa was upset and her Bade Papa was in pain because of her. Nothing she told herself seemed to work. She had no one to go to and so she called the one person she needed to see, the boy she couldn't ever afford to lose, Abir.

Scared about the situation that their date had gotten Mishti into, unable to decide if it was okay to reach out, to call her, Abir continued to worry. He needed to talk to her, make sure she was okay. But the relief he felt as he saw her name flashing on the phone, didn't last a second as he got a sight of those red-rimmed eyes. The heart break that he saw there immediately reflecting in his own when she asked him "Abir mein tumhe kaise chod dun"? Before he even began to understand what was happening and the cause to Mishti's distress she heard him say "Abir, Varsha aunty chahti hain ki mein tumse break up karloo" ripping a new one on his heart.

He was always the wise one among the two wasn't he? Mishti was sure he was the only one who had the answers and so she asks "Mein kya karu?".

Completely heartbroken, incapable of coherent thoughts, desperate to take away the pain that he saw in her eyes and heard in her voice, Abir instinctively offers "Tum bolo, mein karoonga, agar tum kaho toh.."

Realizing where he was going with it and horrified of what he was suggesting Mishti interjects him immediately with a firm "Nahi, nahi Abir! Mein tumhe nahi chod sakti. Nahin reh sakti mein tumhare bina"

The declaration making him release the breath he didn't realize he was holding. The tightness that threatened to completely crush his heart, slowly subsiding. Her confusion, her helplessness over the difficult choice that she had been asked to make. Her desperate call for help, advice when she knew he had none breaking his heart further. It was completely unfair that she was on the other side of the phone crying her heart out when he couldn't hold her, comfort her or even tell her that it was gonna be okay. Why was it so hard? Why did it have to be so painful? But he had to try and so he did. Assuring her that they still had 'tonight' for themselves. What tomorrow would mean for their relationship, they didn't know but they had each other for tonight and they were going to make the most of it.

Mishti not wanting to lose the sight of him for even a second, desperate to hold on to him for however long she possibly could, cries out to him to not disconnect the call. Hearing the anguish making it really hard but the need to remain strong for her winning over his need to fall apart. He tries to lighten the mood by teasing her as he always does but her wish for a whole lifetime for themselves, finally causing the tears he was trying so hard to curb, spill over.

Happy and satisfied for the chance to stay by her, he promises her "Mein yahin hun".

~~~

The word 'Beautiful' would fall short in describing the absolutely intense & heart-wrenching scene that was this video call sequence between Mishbir tonight. The fact that these two clearly cannot imagine a life without the other in it, yet being responsible enough to understand that they couldn't be selfish in love was so beautifully portrayed tonight that I was left completely on awe. The fact that Mishti continued to stress on what she would do if BM and BP went against their love emphasized how much her parents meant to her. Bringing home the point that there can be more than one significant love, even the non-romantic kind in a person's life. Mishti and Abir continue to set new examples on love and respect in relationships. I am so glad we such inspiring leads on a platform that is otherwise filled with regressive, mindless, unrelatable and sometimes, plain disgusting characters that are written as leads on a show.

~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

Thoughts on Performances: The scene was honestly , without any prejudice, the best scene of Mishbir's for me till date. One of the most effective and beautifully executed sequence in the entire show. Congratulations YRHPK team for the collective effort. The pain, the anguish, the heartbreak and the comfort they found in each other. Beautifully written, portrayed and executed. Shaheer and Rhea broke my heart and won it over with one of the best performances I've seen of theirs so far. Especially Rhea, stealing the God damn show!

Mishti's horror as she witnessed her Bade Papa tear up and to have been the cause for it. Her desperation to explain to her Badi Maa that she did not mean to keep the truth from them. Her resolve over her love. Her certainty over the fact that their love was not wrong. Her courage to stand by Abir and their relationship. Her vulnerability when it came to her Badi Maa and Bade Papa. The absolute helplessness and horror she felt over the possibility of having to lose the one person who had come to mean the absolute world to her. All of it was so beautifully portrayed that it both made me tremendously proud of the girl that she is and heartbroken to see her completely shatter the way she did.

Rhea! God damn! Take a bow!👏 What an incredible performance that was. You keep proving time and again how you deserve to play that lead opposite one of the best performers in the industry. So proud of this girl! I was tearing up by the end of the video call between Mishbir. That doesn't happen often.

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A/N : It's 3 AM here as I finish watching the episode and putting this down. Work has been an absolute B and I am afraid I'm not really in the right state of mind. I am not even sure if the post makes sense anymore. I just can't bother to proof-read this. So please forgive me if it's a poor attempt at an analysis. I promise to edit it tomorrow if I can get to it.

Every second of the scene is so beautifully analysed by you.. ❤️Loved it.. ❤️The scene will remain one of my favourite scenes .. It was such an emotional episode..

Thanks for the detailed analysis of one of my favorite scenes so far❤️ you nailed it!!