Originally posted by: misaki
This is such a great take on love and Mishbir Uru.
Thank you so much !😎
@Bold - I am so glad to read someone having a different take on something I believe in. I just wanted to add that don't believe in the typical romantic 'soulmate' relationship either. Neither do I believe in one soulmate forever. I know the post doesn't talk about this perspective but I didn't talk about it because it doesn't apply to Mishbir. They truly are each other's soulmates so I didn't have to talk about another perspective where soulmates need not be one person for another especially forever.
I believe in Soulmates as people who you connect with on a deeper level, someone that helps you grow significantly in any way possible. People who have made significant contribution to your growth as an individual. These people can be your best friend, your parents, your siblings or your partner. Which is why I quoted Edgar Cayce. It need not always be your romantic partner. Which is why I stressed on how Soulmates are misunderstood and been reduced to a stupid cliche.
Bold - this...this is what I believe in ...and I completely understand why you didn't mention about that in detail in your post, having said that I feel even baba has some soul connection with mishbir, Mishti saved baba from drowning , gave him a new life and I am sure in future baba will save mishbir and give them a new life , so yeah they do have some undefined connection beyond the physical relationship !
So basically your definition of 'souls connecting and rising' fits exactly with the 'soulmate' concept that I have always believed in. Meaning you my friend, do believe in it now. Congratulations, you can no longer say you don't believe in soulmates😛😆
Oh ! Haha, yes thanks for explaining it to me in a better way, now I can proudly say I understand this concept and believe in it too !😛🤗
@Red - Wow. 'You know what I really believe in the fact that we both connect well with our philosophies in life because that is exactly what I think about declaring love as well. 'I love you' is always the beginning of a love story and a relationship and to this day I don't understand how people don't get this really simple fact. You should know how incredibly happy reading this, made me.🤗
And you should know how happy I am to find someone who has the ability to understand this on deeper levels ! Mutual feelings Misaki !🤗
I Love you is basically telling a person simply that they are incredibly special to you and that you would like to always be a part of their life. So basically, it's a start of a very special relationship between two people. The real love journey begins only when the other person reciprocates these feelings and agrees to the relationship. This is exactly why confession is a big deal and the tags of 'boyfriend' and 'girlfriend' incredibly special. That is when an actual relationship begins and so does the journey of love.
Having said that, when I say completing each other, it means bringing the best out of each other. This is why I stressed on 'two' wholes and not one whole made of two separate pieces. This again is not an instant or momentary concept, it is again a continuous process of being each others support and strength. They need the other by their side to help them be their best.
There is also no destination in love, it is indeed only the journey that is the only significant and invaluable part. What is love if nothing but promising to go on the life's journey by each other's side ?
Also, loved the bit on "falling' in love. I absolutely agree with your view as well as that beautiful poem that explains the concept so well. If you 'fell', was it really love?
@Bold again - If you did manage to find 'true love', don't be an idiot and ensure you never let it go. Hope Mishbir indeed realize this bit and never let anything or anyone get in their way of the happiness they truly deserve as each other's soulmates.
Absolutely ! Totally agree on this .. looking forward to have more philosophical conversations ofcourse regarding the show only ..in future !