https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JHVfHGPBB0M
Kunal enters angrily saying after all that happened, you are blaming us, bhai? Abir retorts that the mistake is ours, so the blame is on us too. Mishti is not at all fault here. if its someones fault its meenakshi since she knew everything earlier, and still she didnt stop you. then kunal says is your friendship so deep that you are yelling at mom for her?
then there is the voiceover about the rift between brothers and the scene shows abir and kunal in a heated discussion while meenakshi and rajshri look on stunned.
then abir says that if you felt that mishti is not right for you, would you have still gone ahead. this is nothing but your stubborness, your male ego! *A MAN WHO TALKS ABOUT MALE EGO - HE EXISTS, EVEN IF ITS IN THE TV WORLD**
Then there is an IV with shaheer where he says that yes, there is a rift between the brothers but it will be sorted out, but the progressive thinking we are trying to put forth in the show is that women are expected to sacrifice so much and that has to change!
thank you, shaheer for saying that! :) a tv critic called the show regressive on twitter - and this is the answer! :D