Foster Parenting 101 - Page 2

Originally posted by: Shaavi

I apologize for poor choice of words. I shouldn't have said that bride swapping is the theme of the show. What I wanted to say was that parents assuming that the girl or boy is the right choice for their child without actually asking the child or basing it on their assumption is wrong.

We as audience know why Meenu chose Mishti as opposed to Kuhu. But as far as Maheshwari's are concerned, Meenu chose Mishti because she felt that Mishti is better compatible with Kunal's temperament. Before Kuhu comes, Meenu is shown to question Mishti regarding her likes and hobbies and ending each of Mishti's answers with "even Kunal likes the same things.

It is because of these words that Rajashri is thinking that Mishti will get a mother in Meenu. She doesn't know that it was Abir who brought Mishti to hospital or that Naman is scared of Abir. She thinks Kunal is the one who took care of Mishti and protected her from Naman. Hence Rajshri is convincing Mishti and the family that Kunal is the right choice for her.

Neither of these two moms are paying attention to what their children whom they love so much want. They just assume that they know what is best for these two "achhe bacchhe.

Originally posted by: thedramaqueen

@clarity, you are right. The show cant be taken seriously at this rate.

However, I am prepared to give them a long rope. Reason being, that the families are getting excited. But Kunal and mishti haven't shown any romantic interest in each other... yet

Bride swap is so 🤢

Originally posted by: _charu_

Well said..actually rajan shahi brand of serials dont endorse plottings and drama so bride swapping n all will never happen . But yes . In this serial, as i pointed it out earlier, everyone just.jumped the gun and drew their own conclusions ..it happened very quick , without any base thats why it was unsatisfying. This is not the way arranged marriages are arranged..yes elders may decide for their children , and there are people who dont oppose elders..but here everyone here is assuming ..

Abeer is assuming mishti may be the right one for kunal..how much does he know her ? They should have been more of abeer mishti scenes or show them as friends somehow ..but why didnt he ask kunal or arrange kunals meeting with mishti so that they decide? Instead, he is spending more time with mishti ..

Rajshri is assuming kunal helped mishti..how does.it.matter ? That doesnt make him a suitable boy for mishti. Someone might just help someone on the road out of humanity ..and all her reasons for naman interfering in mishtis life is bizarre.

Enpower mishti to face all this..

Meenakshi assumed the girl with earring is kuhu . The fact is that she doesnt want either mishti or kuhu ..but her choosing mishti is odd..how does meenakshi knows that.mishti is a cow who will bow down to all her wishes and hence suitable to.be kunals wife?

As we all know, is mishti and kunal agree for the alliance,they will jump to roka and all rituals..they wont ask kunal and mishti to talk and then take a decision..if abeer wants to make everything right, he must talk to.mishti and kunal both ..we know abeer and mishti are the leads so something will.happen due to which meenakshi will flip.again . At least they toned down kuhu..good start..

About parenting ,i like the theme ..and the characters.. if audience can u know..infer something good out of it..for me, how i interpret it, parents controlling their childrens life never let them grow . In a fear that children may do something wrong, they get overprotective and over bearing ..let the children make mistskes and learn..let them learn through their own experiences only then they grow..i have been doing the same mistske with my children, being a.helicopter parent..although my kids r very young , i realized how wrong it is..n i am making all efforts to correct this ..😊

I hope.in future they stress on this point ..how wrong meenakshis dominating nature is..totally an imbalanced woman..

Originally posted by: rose2015

I think if you haven't watched the parent show it can be hard to understand the history of the characters. For example today they showed Karthik and Naira talking to Mishti on the phone. If you don't watch YRKKH you wouldn't know who they were and their history as main leads of that show.

Rajshri loves both grand daughters. Kuhu has both of her parents with her. Mishti has her grandparents. Her mother is not in her life and her father is a criminal out of jail that uses his daughter to get money from Rajshri. She doesn't have to worry about Kuhu's safety but with Mishti she knows her father has bad intentions and can hurt Mishti. (accident)

How much does Kuhu know Kunal and vise versa? Just meeting once and checking out each others online profiles is not a reason to fall in love and want to marry a person. Kuhu's thoughts on love and marriage are based on fantasy and not reality. Why is she so attached to him? What she has is a bad crush on him that is not love based on a relationship that will make for a marriage. She needs to mature and get out of her hashtag mode before can think to marry.

Rajshri didn't care for the family after the Kuhu rejection. They hadn't accepted the proposal for Mishti. It is only after seeing how caring Kunal and Abeer are as brothers that she considered that they are not bad boys. She thinks that they are very caring individuals it's just their mother is a control freak.

We know Mishti will end up with Abeer and Kunal with Kuhu at the end so why to worry. Mishti did not do anything to get the proposal. She was just present. It is just a matter of time before Kunal's mom insults her too as she doesn't want to get him married to a girl that has a voice of her own.

For Abeer and Kunal's mother it is all about control and everyone is her puppet to manipulate. Despite that her son's are still very loving and caring people.



I know arranged marriages happen but I will say a girl shouldn't take anything a guy or guys family says to heart. We should understand not everyone will like us and that is ok. There is someone who will accept you for who you are and that is the person that you too should accept in your life.

Originally posted by: thedramaqueen

I just watched 11th Apr's episode. Mishti and Shaurya gave me so much hope in the opening scene⭐️. Even the conversation between Maheshwaris and Rajvanshs was very good.

You just got to ignore the nachna gaana.. or rather just enjoy it as eye candy factor. Makes me happy that Kunal has fun when he gets an opportunity. 🥳

So glad that they havent shown any love interest between Mishti and Kunal (yet... please God err Maker... please).

annnd that slight attraction between Kuhu and Kunal... haye!!!

Originally posted by: thedramaqueen

I agree @Clarity. I dont see anything happening between Mishti and Kunal. The elders will just make castles in the air. I was very pleased with how Shaurya and Mishti with help from Kuhu pushed the envelope with BadiMa re Courtship.

Kunal was affected by Kuhu the night of Holi. That is why I expect mutual attraction. I was facepalming when I saw the Maheshwaris had dragged Kuhu to this event, but was glad she came in the end. The girl is impressive

Its Mishti who will be busy analyzing the Rishta and fall for the other guy in that process

Speaking of fashion, I loved Kuhu's jacket yesterday.

Originally posted by: clarity

I also liked what Ketki wore today for her sangeet. Contemporary.