Yeh Rishta Kya Kehlata Hai 02 Jun 2025 Written Update and EDT - Page 19

Creatives ye kya hogaya, ek taraf Abhira missing her Silly boy& Armaan thinks she doesn't need them....🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄😒😒😒

Originally posted by: theromanticcrap

Absolutely agree with the larger point you’ve made—and you’ve hit the nail on the head when it comes to both Armaan’s narcissism and the deeply embedded problem with how women are written in Indian television. What’s truly disturbing is how abuse is rebranded as “endurance” and “strength,” and how emotional manipulation gets packaged as "great love."

Armaan’s inability to recognize anyone’s pain but his own has always been there—his performative guilt, his victim complex, his obsession with appearing morally right rather than being right. What’s frustrating is how long the narrative allowed him to get away with it under the illusion of “trauma” or “emotional baggage.” Abhira only became the visible victim recently, but that doesn’t mean the damage wasn’t ongoing before.

And yes, it’s tragic that female writers are behind these stories. Instead of challenging the norm, they reinforce outdated ideals where a woman’s worth is tied to how much she can suffer and still stay. If a woman chooses dignity, she’s “cold” or “unloving.” If she walks away, she’s painted as selfish.

It really makes you wonder—are they writing this because this is what sells, or because they truly believe this is what love and womanhood should look like? Either way, it's harmful. We need stories where women leave, where they heal, and where being a whole person matters more than being a doormat for a man’s redemption arc.

Soulmate, forever together, meant-for-each-other is the new rebranded marketing gimmick to sell the same wine in the new bottles by Itv makers. Even if it doesn’t make sense, but one can see why itv still wants to sell the concept of family as an unit, especially because these shows for unexplained reasons are still watched across the board as a family. So, given the number of nuclear families and increasing number of divorces, the writers may still want to hold onto the “Indian image” of happy families. What’s baffling though is how there’s no accountability for any characters that are actually wrong and still go scotfree in recent times…

Originally posted by: Krinya

One thing missing in this arman character since day 1 is accountability . That's why I cud never warm up to him....

If we notice , frm ruhi , to abhira , to vidya , to poddars , dadisa , rohit , and everyone in his life , he just shifts the responsibility to them for everything that goes wrong , while playing victim at the same time...

If abhira didn't throw the occasional tantrums like ill never forgive you , here's the divorce papers , you cheated me and ruhi both etc etc , he wouldn't even care to say sorry ..he wanted abhira in his life bec he felt she loves "him" unconditionally ..so he wanted abhira for himself...what did abhira get by marrying him ? Ddp...... .. Now he can get the same thing from maira toh abhira is out and maira is in ..he appreciates geetu bec she keeps telling him you're right you're right don't blame yourself ..

So if tomorrow they make him run behind abhira and shedding his 2 rs ke tears , it means nothing ..in these 7 yrs he never felt the need to inform abhira that their child is safe & alive ..toh ab kahe ka guilt ? His actions are of that of a villain so let him be one ...why sugar coat it ? I don't want his accountability or redemption now..I want egg on his face .

If Armaan and victimization are synonyms, then Armaan and accountability are the antonyms. What’s so difficult in holding your ML responsible for at least the lives he directly messed up. When Armaan moved on from Ruhi, the perspective is she is still holding onto Armaan’s promise; yet when Armaan makes these promises to Ruhi, he isn’t responsible for his marriage towards Abhira because it’s a deal marriage. When Abhira was rightfully angry with Armaan about Ruhi, she’s the one holding onto things of the past. Even if the writers had made Vidya not so aggressive and requested Abhira to drop the marriage politely, this guy would have still come out as the victim. An audience is intelligent enough to sympathize with the character Armaan for his childhood experience while holding the character responsible for his actions. Why is this concept so difficult for the writers to grasp. It’s not even just this one show, this seems to be a common pattern now..

You know the bar is so low for MLs these days, the only requirement for a ML to be eligible is that it’s played by a good-looking actor with basic acting chops. This is probably one of the most underrated topics that’s talked about, how men get objectified. Everybody talks about how women are treated like doormats and how there needs to be progress in writing these characters, but the demand for even a decent ML characterization is scarce. There are numerous debates about how women are objectified in movies and shows, yet men have been portrayed as objects for so many years in itv. The basic requirement of a ML is his ability to bring a good chemistry onscreen with the FL and a drool-worthy physique. The sad part is even the viewers supporting these characters are unaware of how they contribute to this indirectly. The need of the hour across the board is good story with logical characterization rather than how photogenic a couple is onscreen…

Originally posted by: Sparkle232

They are saying armaan left with maira because abhira choose poddars over him when in reality he left because poddars choose abhira over him as they didn't threw out abhira from house like he wanted.

Armoron fans watch different show where only armoron is victim.

@bold the show I watched had him leaving Poddars because Vidya mata didn't throw Abhira out for endangering Pookie's life, how can she try to safe her from goons (ops nanny) he hired. How can Poddars choose Abhira over him? They proved their sutelapan. Abhira must have magical powers to trace her silly boy and Pookie when he left a letter for her ending their relationship.

Originally posted by: ShadowImbue

@bold the show I watched had him leaving Poddars because Vidya mata didn't throw Abhira out for endangering Pookie's life, how can she try to safe her from goons (ops nanny) he hired. How can Poddars choose Abhira over him? They proved their sutelapan. Abhira must have magical powers to trace her silly boy and Pookie when he left a letter for her ending their relationship.

Arman lives in a special self imposed condition " self inflicted trauma from soutelapan ".So Arman left because evety was torturing him ,Bechara ...Now Armanza developing " feelings " for Gheethu ...

Gungroo scene coming with intense staring at each other ...Ab Pathanjali ki kya hogi ....

Originally posted by: Rosh4rose

Arman lives in a special self imposed condition " self inflicted trauma from soutelapan ".So Arman left because evety was torturing him ,Bechara ...Now Armanza developing " feelings " for Gheethu ...

Gungroo scene coming with intense staring at each other ...Ab Pathanjali ki kya hogi ....

Geetu haven't seen reality, maybe she believes in Armaan's story for his career-oriented wife who is happy without him and their daughter in a big house with Poddars who disowned him for her.

Originally posted by: Rosh4rose

Arman lives in a special self imposed condition " self inflicted trauma from soutelapan ".So Arman left because evety was torturing him ,Bechara ...Now Armanza developing " feelings " for Gheethu ...

Gungroo scene coming with intense staring at each other ...Ab Pathanjali ki kya hogi ....

Originally posted by: Rainbow_Girl

I would say, abhira should let maira be happy with the family she is with & stay in her life as "pari". Else phir se rona dhona hi milega abhira ka.

If she opts for custody case : krish/armaan ko time nahi lagega to prove maira was born via Surrogacy & abhira is a careless mom who risked her child's life which forced the dad to flee with the kid for her safety.(unless maira gets into trouble due to armaan's carelessness, & abhira gets upper hand).

Armaan hired a nanny without background check risking his daughter's life, Abhira had to keep Pookie in box to save her, Armaan later on found that box and Maira was safe which she might not be, if goons were successful in taking her away. Wouldn't that be enough evidence? They can easily prove Armaan can't raise Maira without Geetu, but all lawyers except the one who fought Abhir's case during accident track (forgot his name) are useless. I think Abhira might deliberately leave her rights and let Maira stay with Armaan.

Originally posted by: ItvDrama

If Armaan and victimization are synonyms, then Armaan and accountability are the antonyms. What’s so difficult in holding your ML responsible for at least the lives he directly messed up. When Armaan moved on from Ruhi, the perspective is she is still holding onto Armaan’s promise; yet when Armaan makes these promises to Ruhi, he isn’t responsible for his marriage towards Abhira because it’s a deal marriage. When Abhira was rightfully angry with Armaan about Ruhi, she’s the one holding onto things of the past. Even if the writers had made Vidya not so aggressive and requested Abhira to drop the marriage politely, this guy would have still come out as the victim. An audience is intelligent enough to sympathize with the character Armaan for his childhood experience while holding the character responsible for his actions. Why is this concept so difficult for the writers to grasp. It’s not even just this one show, this seems to be a common pattern now..

yup ! When was he at fault the last time ? Ruhi was drooling on him but he never gave her false hopes..he divorced abhira bec family said so ..he remarried abhira against his family's wish but he had to taunt her later that she cant conceive ...he took his brother baby but that was rohits kaand n he innocent took his baby ....he got abhiras license cancelled but it was bec of vidya ...he came bk to poddar house after shivanis death bec abhira wanted this ..surrogacy happened bec abhira wanted the baby ..he made the pregnancy so difficult for ruhi bec she couldn't be careless with his baby...and now this..he was forced to kidnap his own child bec abhira cant be her mother ..now he believed abhira wants his family & not him or pookie , and he ran away 🤣

His sorry, apology & redemption are a waste bec hes in the same loop after a month ..galti karo sorry bolo move on ..

In this abhira is equally guilty to give him that power ..she totally enabled him ..