YRKKH BTS, SM updates & Spoilers Thread #116 - Page 15

Originally posted by: Indira1211

the name sounds nice,,😂.. are you watching ghum.. it’s terrible what they did to teju

Yes, started watching for Neil, didn't like Teju much initially, but eventually fell for her and now i love her more than Neil also.... i feel so bad 😭

I m used to all my ships never getting a happy ending and one of them always dying

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I can never forgive the makers of robbing us from the care and attention abhira deserved. She should have been in hospital bed armaan anxious for her. Here armaan is addressing the baby is if abhira is nothing. In fact it is abhira who worked hard till here🥲🥲😭

Originally posted by: Khanmiss

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I can never forgive the makers of robbing us from the care and attention abhira deserved. She should have been in hospital bed armaan anxious for her. Here armaan is addressing the baby is if abhira is nothing. In fact it is abhira who worked hard till here🥲🥲😭

Worked hard means what? Did you want Armaan in the labour room with Ruhi? 😄😄

For everyone complaint about how Armaan is sidelining Abhira and that is why she is feeling bad, this is not the first time. The funny thing is that Abhira had this "am I a good mother" problem even with BSP/Daksh. I remember how she would always feel like she is not a good mom because she cannot feed him or quieten him down or whatever. There, a lot of this got overshadowed because we knew that it was BSP, but Ruhi ka bachcha. So a lot of that insecurities shown made sense coz we assumed that the reason why that child was taking time to bond with Abhira at that time.

Waise hi, BSP/Daksh ke time pe Armaan sach jaanta tha, toh he had initial issues bonding with the kid. Tab Abhira had become that obsessive mom who was always worried that bachche ko kuch hi na jaaye and be overprotective of everything related to Daksh, be it turning off the AC & Fan as he sneezed a bit or not taking him outside with other family members after the kidnapping attempt.

Similarly Armaan ke liye this is his own kid, so he is bonding with her from day 1 and showing his possessiveness like he would for any child of his. Abhira is the one having issues bonding, because usse khud abhi bhi lagta hai that somehow she doesn't deserve to be Pookie's mom - that's why the dialogues of maa bankar bhi maa ka darja na paana - it's more for Abhira herself which is exacerbated by Armaan's actions.

Toh Abhira's fears are not because of Armaan or Ruhi. It's Abhira's own insecurities due her infertility issues that makes her feel she is not fit to be a mom, like Armaan has his insecurities and overprotective nature for his child all thanks to the trauma he faced. Pookie Abhira ka hi bachcha hai, so if she wants to feel like her mom, she has to stand up to her husband and say so herself.

Originally posted by: Apsvenky

For everyone complaint about how Armaan is sidelining Abhira and that is why she is feeling bad, this is not the first time. The funny thing is that Abhira had this "am I a good mother" problem even with BSP/Daksh. I remember how she would always feel like she is not a good mom because she cannot feed him or quieten him down or whatever. There, a lot of this got overshadowed because we knew that it was BSP, but Ruhi ka bachcha. So a lot of that insecurities shown made sense coz we assumed that the reason why that child was taking time to bond with Abhira at that time.

Waise hi, BSP/Daksh ke time pe Armaan sach jaanta tha, toh he had initial issues bonding with the kid. Tab Abhira had become that obsessive mom who was always worried that bachche ko kuch hi na jaaye and be overprotective of everything related to Daksh, be it turning off the AC & Fan as he sneezed a bit or not taking him outside with other family members after the kidnapping attempt.

Similarly Armaan ke liye this is his own kid, so he is bonding with her from day 1 and showing his possessiveness like he would for any child of his. Abhira is the one having issues bonding, because usse khud abhi bhi lagta hai that somehow she doesn't deserve to be Pookie's mom - that's why the dialogues of maa bankar bhi maa ka darja na paana - it's more for Abhira herself which is exacerbated by Armaan's actions.

Toh Abhira's fears are not because of Armaan or Ruhi. It's Abhira's own insecurities due her infertility issues that makes her feel she is not fit to be a mom, like Armaan has his insecurities and overprotective nature for his child all thanks to the trauma he faced. Pookie Abhira ka hi bachcha hai, so if she wants to feel like her mom, she has to stand up to her husband and say so herself.

Originally posted by: Apsvenky

For everyone complaint about how Armaan is sidelining Abhira and that is why she is feeling bad, this is not the first time. The funny thing is that Abhira had this "am I a good mother" problem even with BSP/Daksh. I remember how she would always feel like she is not a good mom because she cannot feed him or quieten him down or whatever. There, a lot of this got overshadowed because we knew that it was BSP, but Ruhi ka bachcha. So a lot of that insecurities shown made sense coz we assumed that the reason why that child was taking time to bond with Abhira at that time.

Waise hi, BSP/Daksh ke time pe Armaan sach jaanta tha, toh he had initial issues bonding with the kid. Tab Abhira had become that obsessive mom who was always worried that bachche ko kuch hi na jaaye and be overprotective of everything related to Daksh, be it turning off the AC & Fan as he sneezed a bit or not taking him outside with other family members after the kidnapping attempt.

Similarly Armaan ke liye this is his own kid, so he is bonding with her from day 1 and showing his possessiveness like he would for any child of his. Abhira is the one having issues bonding, because usse khud abhi bhi lagta hai that somehow she doesn't deserve to be Pookie's mom - that's why the dialogues of maa bankar bhi maa ka darja na paana - it's more for Abhira herself which is exacerbated by Armaan's actions.

Toh Abhira's fears are not because of Armaan or Ruhi. It's Abhira's own insecurities due her infertility issues that makes her feel she is not fit to be a mom, like Armaan has his insecurities and overprotective nature for his child all thanks to the trauma he faced. Pookie Abhira ka hi bachcha hai, so if she wants to feel like her mom, she has to stand up to her husband and say so herself.

How exactly is Abhira having issues bonding? When the last few episodes have specifically highlighted Abhira s bond with her kid - about how baby only kicks when Abhira talks to her

Or the fact that it will be Abhira talking to the baby that will make her cry - rescurret sort of

I don't think problem is Abhira not bonding with the child. But Armaan going overboard

It's not even only about Abhira. Even Ruhi was irritated by his micromanaging behaviour.Even their gynecologist had issues with his behaviour .

On top of that if Armaan says things like "Thanks to Ruhi Tum maa toh ban jaogi paar aachi maa pan paogi ya nahi iski koi guarantee" so obviously her insecurities will be triggered

I am sorry. I understand over possesive nature. Even Abhira was little over protective when track started but she wasn't triggering Armaan s insecurities. The way he is doing. That's where the problem lies.

Originally posted by: Apsvenky

For everyone complaint about how Armaan is sidelining Abhira and that is why she is feeling bad, this is not the first time. The funny thing is that Abhira had this "am I a good mother" problem even with BSP/Daksh. I remember how she would always feel like she is not a good mom because she cannot feed him or quieten him down or whatever. There, a lot of this got overshadowed because we knew that it was BSP, but Ruhi ka bachcha. So a lot of that insecurities shown made sense coz we assumed that the reason why that child was taking time to bond with Abhira at that time.

Waise hi, BSP/Daksh ke time pe Armaan sach jaanta tha, toh he had initial issues bonding with the kid. Tab Abhira had become that obsessive mom who was always worried that bachche ko kuch hi na jaaye and be overprotective of everything related to Daksh, be it turning off the AC & Fan as he sneezed a bit or not taking him outside with other family members after the kidnapping attempt.

Similarly Armaan ke liye this is his own kid, so he is bonding with her from day 1 and showing his possessiveness like he would for any child of his. Abhira is the one having issues bonding, because usse khud abhi bhi lagta hai that somehow she doesn't deserve to be Pookie's mom - that's why the dialogues of maa bankar bhi maa ka darja na paana - it's more for Abhira herself which is exacerbated by Armaan's actions.

Toh Abhira's fears are not because of Armaan or Ruhi. It's Abhira's own insecurities due her infertility issues that makes her feel she is not fit to be a mom, like Armaan has his insecurities and overprotective nature for his child all thanks to the trauma he faced. Pookie Abhira ka hi bachcha hai, so if she wants to feel like her mom, she has to stand up to her husband and say so herself.

I understand your point, but i disagree. Armaan's over controlling and micromanaging behaviour is not ok. Even if it's Abhira's own insecurity of being unable to carry her child in her womb, Armaan's behaviour is acting as catalyst. And no, his possessiveness is not ok. It's not just Armaan who lost his child, even abhira did and abhira was the one carrying bsp in her womb. If anything, the grief is more for a mother

Originally posted by: Apsvenky

For everyone complaint about how Armaan is sidelining Abhira and that is why she is feeling bad, this is not the first time. The funny thing is that Abhira had this "am I a good mother" problem even with BSP/Daksh. I remember how she would always feel like she is not a good mom because she cannot feed him or quieten him down or whatever. There, a lot of this got overshadowed because we knew that it was BSP, but Ruhi ka bachcha. So a lot of that insecurities shown made sense coz we assumed that the reason why that child was taking time to bond with Abhira at that time.

Waise hi, BSP/Daksh ke time pe Armaan sach jaanta tha, toh he had initial issues bonding with the kid. Tab Abhira had become that obsessive mom who was always worried that bachche ko kuch hi na jaaye and be overprotective of everything related to Daksh, be it turning off the AC & Fan as he sneezed a bit or not taking him outside with other family members after the kidnapping attempt.

Similarly Armaan ke liye this is his own kid, so he is bonding with her from day 1 and showing his possessiveness like he would for any child of his. Abhira is the one having issues bonding, because usse khud abhi bhi lagta hai that somehow she doesn't deserve to be Pookie's mom - that's why the dialogues of maa bankar bhi maa ka darja na paana - it's more for Abhira herself which is exacerbated by Armaan's actions.

Toh Abhira's fears are not because of Armaan or Ruhi. It's Abhira's own insecurities due her infertility issues that makes her feel she is not fit to be a mom, like Armaan has his insecurities and overprotective nature for his child all thanks to the trauma he faced. Pookie Abhira ka hi bachcha hai, so if she wants to feel like her mom, she has to stand up to her husband and say so herself.

Bold - This!! Kinda sums up the whole thing for me!! I don't know if some of us understand this better because we are parents ourselves, but honestly men are more petrified, nervous, excited, overbearing and stupid during any pregnancy.. and here it's a whole plethora of complications surrounding the pregnancy - for both Abhira and Armaan - infertility, loss of a child, failed surrogacy attempts, loss of loved ones. It's just too much to take for any individual. So they are both coming into this with extreme insecurities.. and they've both been acting out in their own ways! Armaan is a little extra, sure, but his excitement or possessiveness for Pookie, atleast in making sure she makes it to the real world safely didn't seem all that stupid to me, personally.. I mean this show has shown Kartik be very VERY extra with everyone during the Akshu pregnancy.. Naira, his family, the doctor, he drove everyone up the wall.. but that was all accepted and even termed "cute" because it was Naira who was pregnant.. here since it's Ruhi, and there's a horrid past, it's looking like he's overdoing it! And it doesn't help that the makers are magnifying Ruhi and Abhira's annoyance at Armaan's actions when they were absolutely making these very exact actions look cute with Kittu!

Anyway.. that aside too, this is a couple that has been each other's healing factor! Whether you and I or the so called Abhimaan fans accept it or not, Abhira understands where Armaan is coming from and he understands what Abhira is going through! They may have their moments, one more or worse than the other even, but that's not going to take away from the fact that they are both now parents to a girl and they don't need each other's permission to carry their own baby and more importantly, not feel alienated when the other parent is holding or taking ownership of the baby!! It's stupid and silly to show such issues that are actually endearing in reality to be made into topics of discussion!! If Abhira wants to hold her baby, she needs to own up and take her from him and tell her husband off, instead of making sad left out faces. And if Armaan wants to keep Pookie away from his family, especially his mother and KP, I for one would be extremely happy and cheer him on! Lol!!

The similarities is so striking. Casting director did just a great job

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Originally posted by: Ohgod!

Bold - This!! Kinda sums up the whole thing for me!! I don't know if some of us understand this better because we are parents ourselves, but honestly men are more petrified, nervous, excited, overbearing and stupid during any pregnancy.. and here it's a whole plethora of complications surrounding the pregnancy - for both Abhira and Armaan - infertility, loss of a child, failed surrogacy attempts, loss of loved ones. It's just too much to take for any individual. So they are both coming into this with extreme insecurities.. and they've both been acting out in their own ways! Armaan is a little extra, sure, but his excitement or possessiveness for Pookie, atleast in making sure she makes it to the real world safely didn't seem all that stupid to me, personally.. I mean this show has shown Kartik be very VERY extra with everyone during the Akshu pregnancy.. Naira, his family, the doctor, he drove everyone up the wall.. but that was all accepted and even termed "cute" because it was Naira who was pregnant.. here since it's Ruhi, and there's a horrid past, it's looking like he's overdoing it! And it doesn't help that the makers are magnifying Ruhi and Abhira's annoyance at Armaan's actions when they were absolutely making these very exact actions look cute with Kittu!

Anyway.. that aside too, this is a couple that has been each other's healing factor! Whether you and I or the so called Abhimaan fans accept it or not, Abhira understands where Armaan is coming from and he understands what Abhira is going through! They may have their moments, one more or worse than the other even, but that's not going to take away from the fact that they are both now parents to a girl and they don't need each other's permission to carry their own baby and more importantly, not feel alienated when the other parent is holding or taking ownership of the baby!! It's stupid and silly to show such issues that are actually endearing in reality to be made into topics of discussion!! If Abhira wants to hold her baby, she needs to own up and take her from him and tell her husband off, instead of making sad left out faces. And if Armaan wants to keep Pookie away from his family, especially his mother and KP, I for one would be extremely happy and cheer him on! Lol!!

On the last line, I think.most of us will cheer Armaan on 💯