Abhimanyu vs best pati - Page 2

Originally posted by: Prapti9

My problem with Abhimanyu is not started when he signed divorce papaer and ask her to leave. At that time he was emotionally so weak..I understand..

Problem is when she comes to know that ak wasn't Goenka house and went to pathankot still he didn't looked for her...I remember ak informed on phone that she married to someone else after months of she left patankot..till then he didn't bother to call her once😔..In so many months even his anger didn't cool down to just called her once and asked what exactly happened on WD and how is she...Its abhimanyu's true love???

Originally posted by: PeacefulLove

There is a big difference. Abhira didn't have miscarriage and was not in post depression pain where as Akshara had. Only a woman who has gone through that pain can understand what her body goes through during that time.

Already answered for it in my post. Post depression pain is interesting point. Was he doing party when she faced miscarriage. His brother is dead like DEAD, his mother is hospitalized. Akshara who was suffering from post depression pain should have took rest or left the place when she was asked to leave instead of saying meri kya galti hai infront of the people who lost their son and brother.

How come only miscarriage part is being taken into consideration but not the death of a person.

Originally posted by: Prapti9

My problem with Abhimanyu is not started when he signed divorce papaer and ask her to leave. At that time he was emotionally so weak..I understand..

Problem is when she comes to know that ak wasn't Goenka house and went to pathankot still he didn't looked for her...I remember ak informed on phone that she married to someone else after months of she left patankot..till then he didn't bother to call her once😔..In so many months even his anger didn't cool down to just called her once and asked what exactly happened on WD and how is she...Its abhimanyu's true love???

And as per Armaan's concern, I never considered her good husband..

True love what? It's not the moment he decided to get divorce even if it is heat of the moment. He lost his brother forever where he was no where at fault. It's not small thing to get over soon in months when he is coping with his brother's death and his mother's hospitalization. And once again, Isn't akshra a grown up adult who can look after herself. Akshara didn't even understand what it means for her husband to loose his brother. Her statement was what is my fault. Both are better off without each other. That was anything but true love.

Originally posted by: Sparkle232

True love what? It's not the moment he decided to get divorce even if it is heat of the moment. He lost his brother forever where he was no where at fault. It's not small thing to get over soon in months when he is coping with his brother's death and his mother's hospitalization. And once again, Isn't akshra a grown up adult who can look after herself. Akshara didn't even understand what it means for her husband to loose his brother. Her statement was what is my fault. Both are better off without each other. That was anything but true love.

Yes both never made for each other..But as this post about how good or bad abhimanyu as husband so i am talking about it only...As far as i remember Neil went outside with ak as ak had smotch pain..and we cannot consider ak accountable for it...My problem is when abhimanyu anger came down, he should atleast one time need to ask ak what exactly happened

Originally posted by: Prapti9

Yes both never made for each other..But as this post about how good or bad abhimanyu as husband so i am talking about it only...As far as i remember Neil went outside with ak as ak had smotch pain..and we cannot consider ak accountable for it...My problem is when abhimanyu anger came down, he should atleast one time need to ask ak what exactly happened

This post is about how armaan is any different from abhimanyu (though the latter didn't do emotional cheating or bacha chori). Both didn't mind divorcing their wife in spur of moment. So how one is toxic while other one is misunderstood flawed character who deserves more chances.

Armaan being flawed and undeserving of Abhira doesn't make Abhimanyu automatically good. But Abhimanyu did have a good character growth in the end, I hope Armaan has some growth. For him it's always his family , his stepmom and dadi over everyone.

Originally posted by: Sneha.Narayanan

Armaan being flawed and undeserving of Abhira doesn't make Abhimanyu automatically good. But Abhimanyu did have a good character growth in the end, I hope Armaan has some growth. For him it's always his family , his stepmom and dadi over everyone.

Where exactly did you find me calling him good. My post was about how both are more or less same ( excluding armaan's bacha chori and ruhi angle) who divorced their wives not once but twice. It's about hypocrisy of calling one toxic & another as just flawed character.

Originally posted by: Sparkle232

Where exactly did you find me calling him good. My post was about how both are more or less same ( excluding armaan's bacha chori and ruhi angle) who divorced their wives not once but twice. It's about hypocrisy of calling one toxic & another as just flawed character.

That's not what I said. Since the post was a comparison post, what I meant is one being wrong, doesn't make the other lesser wrong. Why to assume we are supporting Armaan? Abhimanyu was judged for his actions and so is Armaan. I even said Abhimanyu 's character got a good growth arc in the end.

Originally posted by: Sneha.Narayanan

That's not what I said. Since the post was a comparison post, what I meant is one being wrong, doesn't make the other lesser wrong. Why to assume we are supporting Armaan? Abhimanyu was judged for his actions and so is Armaan. I even said Abhimanyu 's character got a good growth arc in the end.

Only abhinav is the best everything in this serial. Rest all Pani Kam chai

Abhinav - who didn't ask his wife anything. Cried when the kid he adopted was getting close to his bio dad. Stood by his wife when she emotionally manipulated a kid for shoes and later when she said they are too poor to raise a kid. That's the man we all want who just stands next to you in mum. If only abhinav had any human flaws like questions or frustration regarding his life. No no. How he will be forest flag ml bestt husband then. The moment he shows anything other than smile, he's dead case. Nope cross his name from the list of forest flag where only he's there. No one can reach to that God amongst mortal 🤣🙏

Regarding abhi and arman - lmao of course abhira don't have any trauma related to childbirth and dead child. She had a child she carried months and then couldn't even say goodbye. She took a decision to separate but still love Arman. She's still dying to go back to her sasural. Of course how it can be equated to neil who just died. That dude is dead. And he shouldn't have to. He told multiple times to not get into danger. But we had crime petrol at home. She had to go daringbaazi cause she's dabang ki beti 😏 and let's not equate abhira and her mumma too. Her mumma called her family to let them know she married a dude off streets. Ak erased abhis valid questions and went on to use Abhinav, abhimanyu again and lastly Arman. Abhira still loves her criminal husband. To me as of now abhiras love >>> her mummas shallow love for anyone. Her mumma didn't cry for the twin. She erased abhir and abhi lmao enough said what a trash she was

We can actually see Rohit and link it to abhi. Rohit who saw his wife getting paranoid and lastly took a drastic step to give the baby away. I don't support that criminal too, but people loved that bsp/daksh wala drama and wanted the kid to be abhimans. Abhi also saw his wife taking multiple unnecessary risks and lastly lost the kids and his brother. Still abhi bad 🤣🤣😂

Anyways these things are already discussed multiple times. It's just blatant hatred for the character and actor nothing else. If tomorrow Arman abhira does something more heinous still they will be justified. Not abhi though. It's just when abhi was calm matured and tolerated everything akthu threw at him he became "redempted" 😂😂 the dude has lost his light in his eyes

Idk when we started to want a dead soul person = good man